Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[PinotNoir]

Now you see my point ...hopefully.

Fair enough

 

[MikelArteta]

Now I don't know about chasing her but men and women speak different languages. Women are more emotional and verbal and I've learned that men show their love through via actions usually. Sometimes there's a mismatch and it is what it is.

no duh men operate in the black and white and women operate in the grey,

 

[Youseenmywork]

@360dagod ...let's jut hope that they get it .

 

[MikelArteta]

You shouldn't have to play anything but yourself. Women don't know men and men don't know women generally. When you meet that one person you just click with all those games, techniques, what you thought you knew and who said what goes out the window. Relationships aren't easy but they shouldn't feel like you're climbing mount everet either.

Women take more keenly to mysterious and trying to figure you out vibe, its not earth shattering news.

and no nothing goes out the window, it doesnt matter how "great you click" I don't play games nor have techniques what I have is experience. If your not rooted on fertile soil and ground you will be discard an destroyed.

Hell most women that you meet and are attractive to gasp you click with, same script same song and dance its only once familiarity sets in do you know where you stand


I'm dating a girl now and even though she's religious, a christian and she likes me alot, a part of me knows that at any time she can change her mind

 

[PinotNoir]

Women take more keenly to mysterious and trying to figure you out vibe, its not earth shattering news.

and no nothing goes out the window, it doesnt matter how "great you click" I don't play games nor have techniques what I have is experience. If your not rooted on fertile soil and ground you will be discard an destroyed.

Hell most women that you meet and are attractive to gasp you click with, same script same song and dance its only once familiarity sets in do you know where you stand

I'll say this to you, not all women from every race/ethnicity is the same. Hopefully the new woman you're with will show you different because she's definitely different from what you're used to. I won't speak no more but some women of certain backgrounds....sounds like you got a nice sista.

 

[Clayton Endicott]

Hell even my girl told me today as soon as she saw me she knew she wanted me and was gonna give me a chance

all these games, simping, impressing is a fools game. A woman knows right away if she wants you, if shes not showing you, eject and go elsewhere

Like Chris Rock said, a chick decides whether or not she's going to fukk you within five minutes of meeting you. Like you said, all that dikk waving is extra. I pulled broads when I had a shytty job and pushed a bucket, and pulled them after I got my shyt together.
And don't let these broads fool you; some can be just as if not more trifling than us. I've been hit on way more times being married than I have when I was single. They see that ring and be like

 

[MAGNETO.]

Men categorize too so that's human nature. I see what you're saying though. Here's the question you only act like yourself once the relationship gets going aren't they surprised or disappointed? I'd rather see a persons true colors instead of them doing abc so I can't figure them out. In the end you act one way she thinks you're a dik or whatever or nice guy who knows really and like that, then you switch up in relationship she's liable to be pissed and question the change. I don't know but that's just my thinking. I'm me and if they don't like it, bushes.

I see what you're saying but first and foremost I always live by the mantra that I try to be self-sufficient and be the best version of myself.
Whether that lends itself to disappointment or being surprised really doesn't matter to me.
Where people go wrong and what you're alluding to is that the confidence/arrogance they display is a facade, but in my case I just tone it down a bit more if I'm with a girl. There's a fine line there especially for those who don't know themselves well.
I guess once we're a couple I let them in a little more, so they know a bit more about me but I never let her all the way in.
Always got to save a little bit of yourself in the event that she leaves.
But I will say most have been surprised in a good way.
But like ReinScarf has said, most of the time the woman will know right away whether they want you or not. It's on you to make the move and keep it alive considering the fact that most of them have this entitled behaviour in relation to courtship etc.

 

[MAGNETO.]

@360dagod ...let's jut hope that they get it .

I'd argue that it's not really enjoying the game to be good at it.
It's more accepting that the game is the way it is and adapting to it tbh.
That is not to say that the game remains the same throughout time but rather like a COD game there are glitches, camp spots, OP weapons etc. in every new game and that you can either take advantage of them or complain about them while others are succeeding.
But I agree with your overall sentiment though.

 

[PinotNoir]

I see what you're saying but first and foremost I always live by the mantra that I try to be self-sufficient and be the best version of myself.
Whether that lends itself to disappointment or being surprised really doesn't matter to me.
Where people go wrong and what you're alluding to is that the confidence/arrogance they display is a facade, but in my case I just tone it down a bit more if I'm with a girl. There's a fine line there especially for those who don't know themselves well.
I guess once we're a couple I let them in a little more, so they know a bit more about me but I never let her all the way in.
Always got to save a little bit of yourself in the event that she leaves.
But I will say most have been surprised in a good way.
But like ReinScarf has said, most of the time the woman will know right away whether they want you or not. It's on you to make the move and keep it alive considering the fact that most of them have this entitled behaviour in relation to courtship etc.

Okay very well stated and I agree with this, open up bit by bit. That's good sounds like you've got a great head on your shoulders! Excellent advice I hope some of the guys reading takes it.

 

[MAGNETO.]

Okay very well stated and I agree with this, open up bit by bit. That's good sounds like you've got a great head on your shoulders! Excellent advice I hope some of the guys reading takes it.

And I respect the point your making too man about the pitfalls of adhering strictly to such a rigid way of thinking.
I've always got an open mind in relation to relationships so I appreciate the dialogue.

 

[Wiles]

@360dagod ...let's jut hope that they get it .

 

[360dagod]

on the real...

I know it goes against the grain..

But nikkas need at least 1 or 2 joints on the roster that have put you in the friendzone..

they make the best science projects...

You can literally avoid pitfalls just by letting them ramble and putting notes together after they are done...

It puts you in a neutral perspective and helps you gain a deeper understanding..

Just be neutral..Dont judge and ask questions...

You got hood nikkas with nothing going for them somehow squeezing their way into situations with women who have no business messing with them..

And the broads who messed with them literally have no answer as to why they gave them a chance in the 1st place..

If he didnt get locked up, they would have still been with him tho

Its all mental my nikkas

When you understand and embrace it, your levels with women will be top notch...

These broads will use every rationalization in the book if they like you or need you for dikk...No matter how much of a fukk up you are

 

[Bless't]

i know how you feel man. same shyt here. all these black girls do is complain

imagine how worse itll get when you fukk her eventually

Oh shyt... I forgot they havent slept together yet.

ABORT!!!!!

Emp... not worth it breh. You guys are new enough that you can both move on amicably (maybe she gest a little hurt) and be over one another in a week or two. Imagine how much more intense these feelings she's already displaying will become once you involve sex.

Yeesh.

 

[Ohene]

Oh shyt... I forgot they havent slept together yet.

ABORT!!!!!

Emp... not worth it breh. You guys are new enough that you can both move on amicably (maybe she gest a little hurt) and be over one another in a week or two. Imagine how much more intense these feelings she's already displaying will become once you involve sex.

Yeesh.

yup ...not to mention if he doesnt use a condom. She'll be on a whole nother level

 

[Ohene]

@360dagod ...let's jut hope that they get it .

This is a fukkin gem . So true.

Like that thread made a few days ago saying to stop hollering at women. A lot of dudes do it because they are horny or whatever and get defeated after a few rejections. To me however the challenge is what makes it fun and that's why I would never stop... its the idea of improving your craft/mouthpiece. I could be in a committed relationship and whereas in the past i wouldve turned a blind eye to all females now i'll keep on pursuing them just for the hell of it (while making sure we dont get physical or anything). That's what a lot of dudes are forgetting. Don't simply holla at girls just to get your dikk wet. Do it because it can be fun to meet new ppeople.