Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mister_DoItNice]

As much as I hate to admit it, to a certain extent, I'm a shallow dude haha. I was in Jamaica a few weeks ago just having a good time with a bunch of beautiful women. Last week, I was back in NY chilling with my family. I met up with that lawyer shorty I reconnected with. She has it all on paper but physically, I'm not very attracted to her. She's cute as hell in the face and her chest game is right but she's carrying some extra weight and that caused me to fall back a bit. I felt bad because we were hanging out and she kept commenting on how much she loves my body, etc. I would just thank her for the compliment and change the subject. She wants me to lock her down and I honestly don't have any incentive to do that. Besides I'm leaving the country again in January anyway. I'm going to tactfully let her know that it just wouldn't make sense for us to be exclusive. The hunt continues...

 

[Ghanaian Armor]

Wanting a Woman to be a of a healthy weight isn't shallow.

What is the point if your dikk will not rise? You are not doing each other any favors by pitying her.

Instruct her to get on that treadmill.

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

As much as I hate to admit it, to a certain extent, I'm a shallow dude haha. I was in Jamaica a few weeks ago just having a good time with a bunch of beautiful women. Last week, I was back in NY chilling with my family. I met up with that lawyer shorty I reconnected with. She has it all on paper but physically, I'm not very attracted to her. She's cute as hell in the face and her chest game is right but she's carrying some extra weight and that caused me to fall back a bit. I felt bad because we were hanging out and she kept commenting on how much she loves my body, etc. I would just thank her for the compliment and change the subject. She wants me to lock her down and I honestly don't have any incentive to do that. Besides I'm leaving the country again in January anyway. I'm going to tactfully let her know that it just wouldn't make sense for us to be exclusive. The hunt continues...

to be honest, i used to think i was shallow over the same but i been working in the gym (because i like it and body soreness is just all while getting stronger, more athletic) and my point is if people are giving you that attention over the work you putting in, why would you feel guilty about a female not having the type of physique that you're physically attracted to?


now im not saying the women you talk to need to be gymrats (or shyt even go to the gym regularly/at all), but you should at least be physically attracted to them. otherwise, it'll just be tougher down the line to break it off while it will still be in your mind over the time. this by no means is me suggesting bushes or anything, but don't feel guilty or shallow over something like this. most people (including many females) ain't rocking with a bodytype they don't dig like that

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

to be honest, i used to think i was shallow over the same but i been working in the gym (because i like it and body soreness is just all while getting stronger, more athletic) and my point is if people are giving you that attention over the work you putting in, why would you feel guilty about a female not having the type of physique that you're physically attracted to?


now im not saying the women you talk to need to be gymrats (or shyt even go to the gym regularly/at all), but you should at least be physically attracted to them. otherwise, it'll just be tougher down the line to break it off while it will still be in your mind over the time. this by no means is me suggesting bushes or anything, but don't feel guilty or shallow over something like this. most people (including many females) ain't rocking with a bodytype they don't dig like that

Yea women would be quick to throw a guy in the bushes for "dad bod".. Don't trip, you have good standards.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Man being single is great, at the same time.


Very conflicting

 

[PinotNoir]

Nothing shallow about wanting a partner with a healthy body weight or whatever. For me I at least want him to be active ie not a couch potato.

 

[jeh]

Nothing shallow about wanting a partner with a healthy body weight or whatever. For me I at least want him to be active ie not a couch potato.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm in a relationship but I don't mind being single.

Example college football is back this week, usually Thurs, Fri Saturday I'd just be in front of a TV with a pizza box

Now I'm going to Montreal and looking at scores on my phone

Man being single is great, at the same time.


Very conflicting

 

[T-K-G]

this aint specifically about women, just people in general

if people sense that you got some type of knowledge or insight on some shyt that they need help with, 9 times outta 10 they gonna use you to help them get over those mental/emotional/spiritual/physical hurdles in life and not give you anything back(and when i say anything i don't mean sex cuz even if she letting you fukk, that doesn't amount to all of the life gems n shyt you givin her daily)

basically don't let people use you as a stepping stone, you should be upgrading each other mutually, if you feel like it's one-sided then abort that shyt i usually give people like 2 months, if im the one dropping all the game and helping them with their lives and they don't do anything for me mentally/spiritually/emotionally then i disengage cuz i've seen how that movie ends

the same way dudes might want a woman just because they want their body, or women wanting a man cuz of his money

some people just want whatever knowledge or gems you sittin on, dont mistake It as genuine interest

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

I'm in a relationship but I don't mind being single.

Example college football is back this week, usually Thurs, Fri Saturday I'd just be in front of a TV with a pizza box

Now I'm going to Montreal and looking at scores on my phone

got exams next week but i gotta make some time for college football

its our time of year reincar

 

[satireprod]

this aint specifically about women, just people in general

if people sense that you got some type of knowledge or insight on some shyt that they need help with, 9 times outta 10 they gonna use you to help them get over those mental/emotional/spiritual/physical hurdles in life and not give you anything back(and when i say anything i don't mean sex cuz even if she letting you fukk, that doesn't amount to all of the life gems n shyt you givin her daily)

basically don't let people use you as a stepping stone, you should be upgrading each other mutually, if you feel like it's one-sided then abort that shyt i usually give people like 2 months, if im the one dropping all the game and helping them with their lives and they don't do anything for me mentally/spiritually/emotionally then i disengage cuz i've seen how that movie ends

the same way dudes might want a woman just because they want their body, or women wanting a man cuz of his money

some people just want whatever knowledge or gems you sittin on, dont mistake It as genuine interest

This is some real ish, people will use you as a stepping stone to reach higher heights like its nothing and wont see it as foul.
I was always told "You can use me, just dont misuse me."

 

[T-K-G]

This is some real ish, people will use you as a stepping stone to reach higher heights like its nothing and wont see it as foul.
I was always told "You can use me, just dont misuse me."

shyt Is disgusting, that's why im always so guarded when I peep someone tryna probe my mind

 

[MikelArteta]

This is some real ish, people will use you as a stepping stone to reach higher heights like its nothing and wont see it as foul.
I was always told "You can use me, just dont misuse me."

I've been their the feeder team so to speak, you draft deep in the draft, you mold, you see somethign in them no one else sees, and you build em up but as soon as they reach a level your no longer needed and are discarded.

Reminds me at my church, this lady was there all the time praying for a new job etc., my brother in law called some poeple through his networks nad was able to find a her a job, hasn't been at church since.

hell even reminds me of a former ex, I saved her from being homeless literally, got her a new job when she lost her old one but as soon as everything was going great I was chopped liver.

 

[MikelArteta]

shyt Is disgusting, that's why im always so guarded when I peep someone tryna probe my mind

I don't blame you man, I put nothing past no one.

Hell I dont even know how poeple sleep at night with some of the things they do.

 

[satireprod]

I've been their the feeder team so to speak, you draft deep in the draft, you mold, you see somethign in them no one else sees, and you build em up but as soon as they reach a level your no longer needed and are discarded.

Reminds me at my church, this lady was there all the time praying for a new job etc., my brother in law called some poeple through his networks nad was able to find a her a job, hasn't been at church since.

hell even reminds me of a former ex, I saved her from being homeless literally, got her a new job when she lost her old one but as soon as everything was going great I was chopped liver.

Do you think people in those situations if they could see it from your perspective would they see their actions as deceitful or would they even care?