Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Guys be careful, I had a discussion with a girl(29) I work with about her using a guy. She said it's okay that she take from him because he wants what's between her legs. I asked if they're sleeping together and she says no but that he has everything designer hats, scarves, jeans etc she's just trying to take what she can get. She doesn't think what she is doing is wrong. I advised her to be careful leading him on like that and she called him because she wants a "real man".

I know this is nothing new but still...

and when it ends and she gets beat up o rkilled, or threatened it was all the guys fault, you have to be extremely careful who you try and "use".

stories like these is why im weary of helping out any female even though i want nothing in return, women view you as a sucker and will drain you for all your worth

 

[PinotNoir]

and when it ends and she gets beat up o rkilled, or threatened it was all the guys fault, you have to be extremely careful who you try and "use".

stories like these is why im weary of helping out any female even though i want nothing in return, women view you as a sucker and will drain you for all your worth

Exactly but I hope she comes to her senses before anything bad happens. I just can't get over using that guy and she wonders why she's single. But she can't/won't see she's a selfish person.

 

[kevm3]

and when it ends and she gets beat up o rkilled, or threatened it was all the guys fault, you have to be extremely careful who you try and "use".

stories like these is why im weary of helping out any female even though i want nothing in return, women view you as a sucker and will drain you for all your worth

A lot of dudes wouldn't mind helping women out if not for the attitudes of a lot of these women who actually look down on a dude helping them, and instead of appreciating it, she feels as if she's some seductress or hustler who finessed her way into something. It's pretty sad the lack of gratitude that can be exhibited by some people.

 

[TRUEST]

A lot of dudes wouldn't mind helping women out if not for the attitudes of a lot of these women who actually look down on a dude helping them, and instead of appreciating it, she feels as if she's some seductress or hustler who finessed her way into something. It's pretty sad the lack of gratitude that can be exhibited by some people.

i remember a situation i dealt with where i gave this girl a ride to her job. about a 20 minute drive. we get to the place, i spent another 5 minutes looking for parking. when i finally find parking, we get out the car, and its cold out. so i grab my jacket and i put it on. and the girl had this heavy bag she was carrying and she asked me to carry it for her. im like cool, i did. then, she starts to feel the cold and she goes, i'm freezing, give me your jacket. i looked at her like you've got some nerve. i just drove u to your job, saved you uber fare, i'm carrying your heavy ass bag, and now u want me to give you my jacket? then she gets all pissy like, you're so selfish. you're the most selfish person i know. blah blah blah

so at this point, i just start to chuckle because, i learned, when dealing with unreasonable people, women especially, its best to say nothing and let ur actions speak for u. needless to say, i didn't give her my jacket. and i left her alone for a few hours to stew in her foolishness till she calmed down and called me back.

 

[Kane]

i remember a situation i dealt with where i gave this girl a ride to her job. about a 20 minute drive. we get to the place, i spent another 5 minutes looking for parking. when i finally find parking, we get out the car, and its cold out. so i grab my jacket and i put it on. and the girl had this heavy bag she was carrying and she asked me to carry it for her. im like cool, i did. then, she starts to feel the cold and she goes, i'm freezing, give me your jacket. i looked at her like you've got some nerve. i just drove u to your job, saved you uber fare, i'm carrying your heavy ass bag, and now u want me to give you my jacket? then she gets all pissy like, you're so selfish. you're the most selfish person i know. blah blah blah

so at this point, i just start to chuckle because, i learned, when dealing with unreasonable people, women especially, its best to say nothing and let ur actions speak for u. needless to say, i didn't give her my jacket. and i left her alone for a few hours to stew in her foolishness till she calmed down and called me back.

You should've dropped her altogether.

Shouldn't even waste your time with an ungrateful thot like that.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Guys be careful, I had a discussion with a girl(29) I work with about her using a guy. She said it's okay that she take from him because he wants what's between her legs. I asked if they're sleeping together and she says no but that he has everything designer hats, scarves, jeans etc she's just trying to take what she can get. She doesn't think what she is doing is wrong. I advised her to be careful leading him on like that and she called him because she wants a "real man".

I know this is nothing new but still...

I have learned that most reasonably attractive women keep around at least one guy that they can use from time to time.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

You should've dropped her altogether.

Shouldn't even waste your time with an ungrateful thot like that.

She apologize?

 

[Fatboi1]

i remember a situation i dealt with where i gave this girl a ride to her job. about a 20 minute drive. we get to the place, i spent another 5 minutes looking for parking. when i finally find parking, we get out the car, and its cold out. so i grab my jacket and i put it on. and the girl had this heavy bag she was carrying and she asked me to carry it for her. im like cool, i did. then, she starts to feel the cold and she goes, i'm freezing, give me your jacket. i looked at her like you've got some nerve. i just drove u to your job, saved you uber fare, i'm carrying your heavy ass bag, and now u want me to give you my jacket? then she gets all pissy like, you're so selfish. you're the most selfish person i know. blah blah blah

so at this point, i just start to chuckle because, i learned, when dealing with unreasonable people, women especially, its best to say nothing and let ur actions speak for u. needless to say, i didn't give her my jacket. and i left her alone for a few hours to stew in her foolishness till she calmed down and called me back.

You should've gave her the damn jacket man. You so damn selfish how dare you not give in to a woman's demands??

 

[PinotNoir]

I have learned that most reasonably attractive women keep around at least one guy that they can use from time to time.

It's not like she's got men beating down her door because the girl is very overweight (100lbs) but her face kinda cute, looks better with make up. But she's also a man hater and believes "they're all no good". She wonders why she's got no man. One of the things is I HATE talking about men with her because she's so negative and this could be one the reasons she's using that guy and also for an ego boost. A woman secure within herself isn't going to go out there using men.

 

[Ghanaian Armor]

You should've gave her the damn jacket man. You so damn selfish how dare you not give in to a woman's demands??

My reaction would have personally been " freeze bytch".

Don't even give an explanation. If she's too dumb enough to figure it out she's not for you dude

 

[Youseenmywork]

It's not like she's got men beating down her door because the girl is very overweight (100lbs) but her face kinda cute, looks better with make up. But she's also a man hater and believes "they're all no good". She wonders why she's got no man. One of the things is I HATE talking about men with her because she's so negative and this could be one the reasons she's using that guy and also for an ego boost. A woman secure within herself isn't going to go out there using men.

Soo you sayin without makeup she would look like a holocaust savior got in the ring with Mike Tysons. ..??? It's amazing how even the women that anit that attractive is entitled. I guess I'm missing something .

 

[Youseenmywork]

It's not like she's got men beating down her door because the girl is very overweight (100lbs) but her face kinda cute, looks better with make up. But she's also a man hater and believes "they're all no good". She wonders why she's got no man. One of the things is I HATE talking about men with her because she's so negative and this could be one the reasons she's using that guy and also for an ego boost. A woman secure within herself isn't going to go out there using men.

"And women secure within herself isn't going to go out there using men"

How many times have you been around the block? ...I have seen all sorts of women use men. Honestly it's men's fault a lot of times ....but I don't feel like teaching today .

 

[Youseenmywork]

i remember a situation i dealt with where i gave this girl a ride to her job. about a 20 minute drive. we get to the place, i spent another 5 minutes looking for parking. when i finally find parking, we get out the car, and its cold out. so i grab my jacket and i put it on. and the girl had this heavy bag she was carrying and she asked me to carry it for her. im like cool, i did. then, she starts to feel the cold and she goes, i'm freezing, give me your jacket. i looked at her like you've got some nerve. i just drove u to your job, saved you uber fare, i'm carrying your heavy ass bag, and now u want me to give you my jacket? then she gets all pissy like, you're so selfish. you're the most selfish person i know. blah blah blah

so at this point, i just start to chuckle because, i learned, when dealing with unreasonable people, women especially, its best to say nothing and let ur actions speak for u. needless to say, i didn't give her my jacket. and i left her alone for a few hours to stew in her foolishness till she calmed down and called me back.

.....patrice oneal would always say "you have to give women options on HOW to think and then let them eat on their OWN emotions" this works trust....you did the right thing. You could have cut your foot and gave it to her she still wouldn't been happy .

 

[PinotNoir]

Soo you sayin without makeup she would look like a holocaust savior got in the ring with Mike Tysons. ..??? It's amazing how even the women that anit that attractive is entitled. I guess I'm missing something .

Makeup enhances her looks she looks better with it. Without it...

 

[PinotNoir]

"And women secure within herself isn't going to go out there using men"

How many times have you been around the block? ...I have seen all sorts of women use men. Honestly it's men's fault a lot of times ....but I don't feel like teaching today .

I stand by what I said. You can agree to disagree makes me no difference.