This is why you just don't do them favours or splash out on them AT ALL unless you're in a relationship, period. Some dudes just have to learn the hard way. I'd rather be single for the rest of my days than ever compromise my principles to please some chick who doesn't give a fukk about me. I pay attention to what they do - the more subtle shyt than the blatantly obvious - and I can suss out a no good thot in very quick time like dolphins can sense each other. I don't get swayed by a phat ass and cute face or the right words. That shyt is for the birds. Seriously, if you as a grown man allow yourself to get used in this day and age, then I lay most of the blame at your feet. Whatever happened to self mastery? Too many dudes are just letting any old chick come in their lives and destroy them.
I don't blame those teenagers who make those simp videos crying for their exes, because they're still young and don't yet know any better. But if you're a big man who allows yourself to get played for a woman you don't even know, then you deserve it. There's more to life than a quick nut, stop being so easily led. It's one thing to do little basic shyt that we do for strangers every day, but all this splashing out on money crap is inexcusable. You ain't doing it from the kindness of your heart, you're doing it because you're weak and have no discpline/self respect....might as well have a sign that says 'sucker' on your forehead.
Of course we all make mistakes, but personally I'll be gotdamned if my legacy ends as the loser who allowed himself to get fleeced and totally fukked over. That shyt is just not happening to me, period. Simple as that.