Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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"And women secure within herself isn't going to go out there using men"

How many times have you been around the block? ...I have seen all sorts of women use men. Honestly it's men's fault a lot of times ....but I don't feel like teaching today .

women wont even "see" how they use man, ala planning like 4 dates with 4 different dudes in a week, getting free meals. TO her shes innocent as her wallet stays closed.
 
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women wont even "see" how they use man, ala planning like 4 dates with 4 different dudes in a week, getting free meals. TO her shes innocent as her wallet stays closed.

I can even go deeper and talk how women abuse men emotions etc its deeper than our pockets and ....our time.
 

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I can even go deeper and talk how women abuse men emotions etc its deeper than our pockets and ....our time.


Chiks never cease to amaze me no matter the age. My girl's friend started dating again again recently. Went out with 3 dudes in one week. Been dealing with this one dude for like a month now. She liked him until they went to the movies and dude let her pay for both tickets. Now she's not sure about him anymore :martin:. Also she neglects to tell dude she's moving back to colorado in 2 months. She's just having' fun ouches :pachaha:. This chik is 32 and very attractive though. She's just a headache. Only cool when she's drunk.
 

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I'm getting tired of my exes texting or calling me randomly asking about hooking back up. Some have even had the nerve to ask me for money. I used to be a simp in my younger days but now I only give money to people I trust and know they will pay me back or return the favor down the line.
hit them with the "whos this". thats what i did. best way to mush them out the way. figuratively speaking.
 

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That "whos this" text burns their souls
Did that to an ex of 2 years on and off. I legit didn't care about her existence. She attempted conversation. Remained stoic. Giving her the signal to piss off and crawl back under the rock she emerged from under. :pachaha:
 

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Did that to an ex of 2 years on and off. I legit didn't care about her existence. She attempted conversation. Remained stoic. Giving her the signal to piss off and crawl back under the rock she emerged from under. :pachaha:
Oh so she tried to ignore the whos this and kept going?
 

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This is why you just don't do them favours or splash out on them AT ALL unless you're in a relationship, period. Some dudes just have to learn the hard way. I'd rather be single for the rest of my days than ever compromise my principles to please some chick who doesn't give a fukk about me. I pay attention to what they do - the more subtle shyt than the blatantly obvious - and I can suss out a no good thot in very quick time like dolphins can sense each other. I don't get swayed by a phat ass and cute face or the right words. That shyt is for the birds. Seriously, if you as a grown man allow yourself to get used in this day and age, then I lay most of the blame at your feet. Whatever happened to self mastery? Too many dudes are just letting any old chick come in their lives and destroy them.

I don't blame those teenagers who make those simp videos crying for their exes, because they're still young and don't yet know any better. But if you're a big man who allows yourself to get played for a woman you don't even know, then you deserve it. There's more to life than a quick nut, stop being so easily led. It's one thing to do little basic shyt that we do for strangers every day, but all this splashing out on money crap is inexcusable. You ain't doing it from the kindness of your heart, you're doing it because you're weak and have no discpline/self respect....might as well have a sign that says 'sucker' on your forehead.

Of course we all make mistakes, but personally I'll be gotdamned if my legacy ends as the loser who allowed himself to get fleeced and totally fukked over. That shyt is just not happening to me, period. Simple as that.
 

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Lol man thats too funny. How long had it been since yall last talked before that?
Like two years. She used to even Skype me while she was taken. I gave no fukks. I'd text her at like 1 am. Guessing her man got mad and cut that off eventually. And I just completely ignored her. You know when you've dated someone for a while when their number is burned into your psyche.
 

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Like two years. She used to even Skype me while she was taken. I gave no fukks. I'd text her at like 1 am. Guessing her man got mad and cut that off eventually. And I just completely ignored her. You know when you've dated someone for a while when their number is burned into your psyche.

Right so I guess she was trying to do that callback to get her foot back in the door. Im always conflicted about it. Like why are you calling/texting now when I'm finally making moves.
 
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