Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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girlfriend of 1.5 years called me a bytch because i didn't want to pick her up from her crib

threw her to the bushes that same night am I wrong brehs?

we've been arguing constantly for a week over petty shyt, i'm 23 about to turn 24 really trying to focus on my grad school test and my dreams, and seems like this constant arguing and stress is bringing me down. She just turned 20 and seems immature and not ready, don't know if this is worth it but i cut her off brehs.
yeah, you dont wanna be with a chick that's comfortable calling you a bytch. thats only gonna go the wrong way.
 

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yeah, you dont wanna be with a chick that's comfortable calling you a bytch. thats only gonna go the wrong way.
Worth it.

It was well worth it. You don't need the unnecessary headache.

Worth it. It seems it was headed towards bush status anyway... that was the final straw.

:yeshrug:

she said she was being sarcastic and I took it the wrong way and I should know she didn't mean it like that

Smh
 

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girlfriend of 1.5 years called me a bytch because i didn't want to pick her up from her crib

threw her to the bushes that same night am I wrong brehs?

we've been arguing constantly for a week over petty shyt, i'm 23 about to turn 24 really trying to focus on my grad school test and my dreams, and seems like this constant arguing and stress is bringing me down. She just turned 20 and seems immature and not ready, don't know if this is worth it but i cut her off brehs.

trust me dude, you made the right decision. let me guess, she was used to u coming to pick her up and now she thinks or believes it is your duty to pick her up all the time? yeah, u did the right thing.
 

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trust me dude, you made the right decision. let me guess, she was used to u coming to pick her up and now she thinks or believes it is your duty to pick her up all the time? yeah, u did the right thing.
I told her to come downstairs and she said give me a couple minutes I just got out of the shower

I told her don't even trip and no need to rush I'll just see you tomorrow,it was like 11 PM at the time and I hard work super early, and she got mad after that
 

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It's up to you Breh.

shyt is still disrespectful, and its best you nip it in the bud early.

Others may use excuses like your being insecure or its just a joke, but the fact your posting here means it didn't sit well to you. So follow that gut.
 

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It's up to you Breh.

shyt is still disrespectful, and its best you nip it in the bud early.

Others may use excuses like your being insecure or its just a joke, but the fact your posting here means it didn't sit well to you. So follow that gut.

im gonna have to agree with this. she knew he was going to be there. if she hadn't taken him for granted, she would have been ready, or at least took a damn shower already. she knows his schedule. i wish i had ol boy's no-nonsense attitude when i dealt with similar situations in the past.

its one of the most disrespectful thing a woman can do to have a man waiting on her ass in the car for stupid reasons.

but i will say, if this was the first time she's done this, i'd say let it go. u already made ur point that you wont tolerate this type of thing ever again.
 

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I read somewhere recently that no matter how out a pocket a woman can act, there's always one dude who she'll obey and be on point with..some deep shyt..Like Sharon Stone's character in Casino with that dude Lester
im interested to know where you read that.
 

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girlfriend of 1.5 years called me a bytch because i didn't want to pick her up from her crib

threw her to the bushes that same night am I wrong brehs?

we've been arguing constantly for a week over petty shyt, i'm 23 about to turn 24 really trying to focus on my grad school test and my dreams, and seems like this constant arguing and stress is bringing me down. She just turned 20 and seems immature and not ready, don't know if this is worth it but i cut her off brehs.

honestly the odds of it lasting with a 20 year old chick is slim, follow your dreams never give em up or be stressed out over a chick. At 23 the chicks I was messing with at 30 I wouldn't even look in their direction
 

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I read somewhere recently that no matter how out a pocket a woman can act, there's always one dude who she'll obey and be on point with..some deep shyt..Like Sharon Stone's character in Casino with that dude Lester

its like I said if your not a womans number 1 your wasting your time. YOu don't have to be the richest, treat her best, the sexiest you can be dead broke, in an dout of jail, treat her like dirt but if you are her number 1. I'm not saying treat a woman bad, but I've realized through life if you are a womans number 1 you don't have to simp or go over and about.
 

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Im 21, met a chick from class who's 27...Normally i deal with females in the 19-22 range and just chill at each others apartment/dorm, grab some coffee, or drink at the house when we first meet up. Then obviously go for the drawls:leostare:

Is the game any different for these older chicks? For some reason im trippen over this girls age..Im in the military so im used to a steady job but its still a change of pace going from dealing with a girl who asks her moms for money every week:bryan: to a girl with her own car, job, and apartment:francis:
 

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It was the first time her calling me a bytch

You're not wrong. When a woman feels comfortable letting something like that fly out her mouth, it's nothing but trouble after that. Remember, your respect and dignity comes above keeping a woman around. Once a woman loses respect for you, it's over.
 
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