Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[KinksandCoils]

Was with you up til here.

I'm sure some brehs can relate to females bringing past issues into new relationships. Punishing the current Breh because of what another did, is one of the biggest turn offs and can be sensed a mile away.

I said nothing about punishing anyone and that's not even what I meant.

 

[DarkHorse23]

nothing wrong with a woman footing the bill but if she is footing the bill more than the man than that's embarrassing. Like I've said, I've definitely paid before....

My next relationship I need the man to really step up. It's me doing 80% while he is doing 20% thank goodness those type of relationships happened in my late teens early 20s. I see it like this... If he has issues with paying mostly, how will he handle when I have his baby and can't work? How will he handle leading the family or paying bills?

I understand your frustration, but that's the frustration a high percentage of men have especially in their late teens, and 20's as well when they are paying for the majority on dates with a woman, while that same woman on the side is allowing another guy to do and paying nothing and he gets the p*ssy on a sliver platter. Nobody likes to be taken advantage or be treated like a sucker, so that's why men normally want to spend the minimum until they know for sure a woman really likes them. As you get older you wise up. As for me personally i've been that guy(the one spending money on a girl and having nothing to really show for it). Not trying to be the guy going forward, i have to protect myself and look out for my best interest first. If that makes me look like a fukkboy to some women then

 

[Action Mike]

I said nothing about punishing anyone and that's not even what I meant.

Punish is harsh. But when you say 'it's time for someone to do the same for me'; it's in the same instance. It's all give and take. Not take because you've given so much before.

 

[KinksandCoils]

I understand your frustration, but that's the frustration a high percentage of men have especially in their late teens, and 20's as well when they are paying for the majority on dates with a woman, while that same woman on the side is allowing another guy to do and paying nothing and he gets the p*ssy on a sliver platter. Nobody likes to be taken advantage or be treated like a sucker, so that's why men normally want to spend the minimum until they know for sure a woman really likes them. As you get older you wise up. As for me personally i've been that guy(the one spending money on a girl and having nothing to really show for it). Not trying to be the guy going forward, i have to protect myself and look out for my best interest first. If that makes me look like a fukkboy to some women then

I only entertain one man at a time but I get your point.

Punish is harsh. But when you say 'it's time for someone to do the same for me'; it's in the same instance. It's all give and take. Not take because you've given so much before.

what I mean is its time for the man to step up and do more for me. I was always doing 80% n they were doing 20% I need a 50/50 effort or more.

 

[u mad son?]

Brehs .... been dating this new chick, intelligent and beautiful girl, shes an accountant and doesnt have facebook twitter or any of that shyt.

anyways, met her twice and both times shyt went very smooth imo .... but she doesnt give much away which makes it hard to know where I stand. She told me what she thinks of me and its all positive things, and time just flys past when we together .... she gives me absolutely no game confirmation though. Anyways talking on whatsapp last night (its always IM that is the start of fukkeries) ... I must have made a joke and referred to her as (her name) no.2 (we had previously been joking about how she thinks shes the only person with that name when I actually dated someone with that name before) ..... she got all weird from there and even said she doesnt think it will work :/ ... then she said we can talk about it tomorrow, havent messaged her since.

this is a complete 180 from how she was behaving the last few weeks I been talking to her, is it time for me to fall the fukk back and leave her alone? Or was I out of pocket ?

 

[Youseenmywork]

I only entertain one man at a time but I get your point.

what I mean is its time for the man to step up and do more for me. I was always doing 80% n they were doing 20% I need a 50/50 effort or more.

50/50 relationships don't exist and if it do the women runs it. It KING then Queen. ..queen is the highest level a women can go. Usually if it's a 50/50 the women runs that relationship. I'm teaching today thoe. ...

 

[KinksandCoils]

50/50 relationships don't exist and if it do the women runs it. It KING then Queen. ..queen is the highest level a women can go. Usually if it's a 50/50 the women runs that relationship. I'm teaching today thoe. ...

yea u got a point but I'm talking about 50 50 effort not on terms with being equal partners. I have no problem with a man leading. I want a leader just as long as he is qualified to do it.

 

[NerdNash]

Quick Little Gems Dealing With Women Pt. 37 (By KevM3) @kevm3

 

[TRUEST]

Brehs .... been dating this new chick, intelligent and beautiful girl, shes an accountant and doesnt have facebook twitter or any of that shyt.

anyways, met her twice and both times shyt went very smooth imo .... but she doesnt give much away which makes it hard to know where I stand. She told me what she thinks of me and its all positive things, and time just flys past when we together .... she gives me absolutely no game confirmation though. Anyways talking on whatsapp last night (its always IM that is the start of fukkeries) ... I must have made a joke and referred to her as (her name) no.2 (we had previously been joking about how she thinks shes the only person with that name when I actually dated someone with that name before) ..... she got all weird from there and even said she doesnt think it will work :/ ... then she said we can talk about it tomorrow, havent messaged her since.

this is a complete 180 from how she was behaving the last few weeks I been talking to her, is it time for me to fall the fukk back and leave her alone? Or was I out of pocket ?

fall back man. i know women pretty well. they dont d1ck around when they really like a guy. its clear she can tell ur really into her which is why she's acting all cool around u. u need to fall back.

and by fall back, i mean, if u must text her, text her on some lets meet up at so and so place at so and so time. and leave it at that. if she doesn't respond, delete her number. if she responds, and u meet again, change ur attitude. u too start acting aloof.

try to be intimate with her. if she doesn't reciprocate or acts aloof with that too, gently taper off the date (dont show that ur mad) and bounce and dont hit her up again until she does.

 

[MikelArteta]

fall back man. i know women pretty well. they dont d1ck around when they really like a guy. its clear she can tell ur really into her which is why she's acting all cool around u. u need to fall back. and by fall back, i mean, if u must text her, text her on some lets meet up and so and so place at so and so time. and leave it at that. if she doesn't respond, delete her number. if she respond, and u meet again, change ur attitude. u too start acting aloof. try to be intimate with her. if she doesn't reciprocate or acts aloof with that too, gently taper off the date (dont show that ur mad) and bounce and dont hit her up again until she does.

if a female is into you, you are number 1 and they dont do that hot and cold jargon

 

[MikelArteta]

Brehs .... been dating this new chick, intelligent and beautiful girl, shes an accountant and doesnt have facebook twitter or any of that shyt.

anyways, met her twice and both times shyt went very smooth imo .... but she doesnt give much away which makes it hard to know where I stand. She told me what she thinks of me and its all positive things, and time just flys past when we together .... she gives me absolutely no game confirmation though. Anyways talking on whatsapp last night (its always IM that is the start of fukkeries) ... I must have made a joke and referred to her as (her name) no.2 (we had previously been joking about how she thinks shes the only person with that name when I actually dated someone with that name before) ..... she got all weird from there and even said she doesnt think it will work :/ ... then she said we can talk about it tomorrow, havent messaged her since.

this is a complete 180 from how she was behaving the last few weeks I been talking to her, is it time for me to fall the fukk back and leave her alone? Or was I out of pocket ?

1. where do you want to stand
2. make it known

 

[MikelArteta]

I saw my ex today last time I saw her was like a year ago shes pregnant looking pale and , didn't even give a damn, just said Hi and continued on walking.

Reached a month with my current girl, surprisingly. She gonna meet my sister tom

 

[MikelArteta]

This is true to certain degree. A woman can be difficult with other men, but there maybe a man who she knows personally and wouldn't dare test him and act irrational toward him like she does with other men. It could be the guy she always wanted to be with and waiting for the opportunity to bond with him while she rejects the other men or giving them a hard time. Gentlemen, it never worth your time to jump over hurdles to pursue a woman's interest and heart. If she gives any indication that she isn't interest or isn't matching your effort, it is best to leave her alone.

Selah

Amen, as well a woman may have standards and qualifications but one man doesn't have to meet those.

I've been that simp in the pond trying to be like hey what about me give me a chance before loser schmuck. But once you have a woman that is totally into you 100%, and you seee there are other schmucks in the pond trying to be like hey what about me to her to realize you don't have to do ANYTHING.

My girl told me she would never date a guy shorter than her, a guy less educated, a guy that lived at home, a non nigerian and especially she would never date a jamaican all who have tried in the past were shot down. Guess whose she's dating?

IF you have to feel you have to do tis and that to procure a womans love or attention your already losing toss her in teh trah trust me

 

[MikelArteta]

Go read the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy"

great book by dr glover bought it years ago.

 

[MikelArteta]

How do you determine if you are a chicks number 1 or not?

you just know, you don't have to do anything. It's just like shooting a ball and knowing its good before it goes in type of feeling.