Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Yeaaahhh, ok. If she said to them she wanted to smash, they'd be grossed out? Unless she looks like Precious, she (and you, if you believe that) are out of your god damn minds.

Lemme guess. "They look at me like a sister", right?

Not saying you have anything to worry about, but best believe, they'd dikk her down in a heartbeat.

Exactly there is no such thing as a male friend just dudes who have smashed and dudes who have not smashed yet but are waiting their turn.

Remember brehs anytime you were feeling a chick or say broke up with her and a new guy is in the picture, he's always "just a friend"

One of the most disrespectful things is ever encountered was this girl I was messing around with her best friend was a male, she found nothing wrong with talking to him about sex.




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[MikelArteta]

my chick has all that and then some


...except she kinda have male friends. I'm putting her on game saying they likely tryna smash but she says if that even came up they would be disgusted if she wanted to fukk em. Whatever...

Sounds like a good thing don't mess it up breh, whenever your in a good relationships chicks can pick up that vibe and will try coming out the woodwork. It's just like a job can't find one finally you do and suddenly other places are calling you .


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[Red Omega]

Dealing with this chick now, she been great so far, taken me out a couple times and has not let me spend a dime for some reason

She seems to be good so far, im a good judge of character so i tend to see the red flags, my only thing is i feel like shes not has beautiful as some of the girls in my past, now given these girls ultimately turned out to be no good in the long run.

shes not ugly at all, shes very cute and i am attracted to her but something in my mind is telling me she does not measure up, trying to get passed this form is thinking

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Exactly there is no such thing as a male friend just dudes who have smashed and dudes who have not smashed yet but are waiting their turn.

i see we're still on this silliness in the coli

 

[DanielAlfredsson]

i agree, and I told her that breh. She said she will cut off her ex out of her life if I want her to and delete her instagram. Lucky for me theyre in different countries though. One is some asian cat with no chance. One is an ex boyfriend and the other is a childhood boyfriend (puppy shyt from like age 7...one of those)

I dont care how long youve known each other. with how good she looks I'm sure they might wanna beat it down. Unless theyre like me. I cant go knocking down random hoes I know like that until I see the freaky side of them that has sex appeal. If I've only seen the innocent side then i'm like or

and at the bolded. you already know playbreh

The ex-bf being in the picture in a major way is a red flag breh. I'd watch that situation closely. Half the stories of broads cheating that I hear involve the ex dude.

Having said that, I think it's too early to start demanding she stop talking to him or cut him off or whatever, cuz then you know she'll just do it on the low behind your back.

 

[Ohene]

The ex-bf being in the picture in a major way is a red flag breh. I'd watch that situation closely. Half the stories of broads cheating that I hear involve the ex dude.

Having said that, I think it's too early to start demanding she stop talking to him or cut him off or whatever, cuz then you know she'll just do it on the low behind your back.

I feel you and agree with the 2nd part too. I aint tryna be a possessive boyfriend. I told it aint that serious

As for the boyfriend he lives in Nigeria (we in Toronto) so it isnt much an issue. But I have already put her on some game and she taking it in. Her responsiveness is a thing of beauty

They had an argument about some shyt (this is when we first got together) where he called her selfish or some shyt i dunno. She was sad about it and I asked why she even talking to the nikka anyways. I asked what good can come out of that and she couldnt come up with a reason saying, "You're right."

The youth allows me to mold but at the same time I fear that once she realizes how good sex is she might eventually wanna "explore" and see who else is out there despite what she says now. This is especially true when I go to school and even worse if I transfer farther. Hence the reason I may prolong it. Right now its all good because I work in downtown Toronto and she goes to U of T...plus lives in my neighbourhood back home but distance will be rough after this internship

 

[Malta]

breh im seriously considering this as main option next year

i just need to know what credential i need..ceritificate etc

i plan on saving like 7G and just try to live there for 6mths

i just need to get out of this vicious 9-5 cyle

Do it breh, you can get a 6 month lease down there and it'll run you around 1800-2400 for that time period. Just make sure you take a lot of essentials with you, and learn some Portuguese before you go. The language isn't that hard, and you can get Portuguese Rosetta stone from just about any warez site. You honestly might not come back, once you find that you can live a nice lifestyle down there and only work 20 hrs of the week you'll be like @ the thought of coming back.

If I wasn't with my girl, I wouldn't be living in the US right now.

 

[The ADD]

Dealing with this chick now, she been great so far, taken me out a couple times and has not let me spend a dime for some reason

She seems to be good so far, im a good judge of character so i tend to see the red flags, my only thing is i feel like shes not has beautiful as some of the girls in my past, now given these girls ultimately turned out to be no good in the long run.

shes not ugly at all, shes very cute and i am attracted to her but something in my mind is telling me she does not measure up, trying to get passed this form is thinking

You have to ask your self what "does not measure up" really apply to........Other peoples view of her as it relates to your past chicks or your view.

Either way if you are attracted to her and she's a solid chick but you don't deal with her because she's a "7" compared to the "7.9" you had (that were garbage)

 

[Red Omega]

You have to ask your self what "does not measure up" really apply to........Other peoples view of her as it relates to your past chicks or your view.

Either way if you are attracted to her and she's a solid chick but you don't deal with her because she's a "7" compared to the "7.9" you had (that were garbage)

thanks for that

 

[MikelArteta]

I feel you and agree with the 2nd part too. I aint tryna be a possessive boyfriend. I told it aint that serious

As for the boyfriend he lives in Nigeria (we in Toronto) so it isnt much an issue. But I have already put her on some game and she taking it in. Her responsiveness is a thing of beauty

They had an argument about some shyt (this is when we first got together) where he called her selfish or some shyt i dunno. She was sad about it and I asked why she even talking to the nikka anyways. I asked what good can come out of that and she couldnt come up with a reason saying, "You're right."

The youth allows me to mold but at the same time I fear that once she realizes how good sex is she might eventually wanna "explore" and see who else is out there despite what she says now. This is especially true when I go to school and even worse if I transfer farther. Hence the reason I may prolong it. Right now its all good because I work in downtown Toronto and she goes to U of T...plus lives in my neighbourhood back home but distance will be rough after this internship

Odds are she will want to explore which is why I'm tellin you to be aware breh. Thing about dating young women with not a lot of experience, yes you get to mold them but it's usually for another guy, your basically triple a where she hones her skills, untill she's ready for the big leagues.

Example I was with my ex fiancé when we were both young as hell, we were together for 3 years, I helped her battle her low self esteem an depression, helped her budget her finances and get
Her life in order. And now she's somewhere with her doctorate and some other dude is reaping the harvest I planted.

You have to be aware not to be that dude you may
Mold her but someone else will be eating that fruit when it harvests.

 

[Ohene]

This life breh

i understand why nikkas be catchin bodies out here

 

[Malta]

shyt for Victor Cruz...you cant blame themm

Great post though. I think I struck uranium with my neew girl but Im just taking it day by day knowing what is possible especially because shes 18 and I'm 21. If she becomes fairweather...ill take the L and know what to do. Veterans out here now. Its funny you mentioned the sex in the city shyt because my girl was somewhat like that though not bad. Just spent money frivolously. Ordering in food. Taking taxi from the train station after school. Etc etc...but i've got her to cut all that shyt out. She says I remind her of her dad and her dad is basically the most important figure in her life. Good thing or bad thing...we'll find out.


Additionally I haer that getting to know new chicks shyt... its such a drag though .

Nudie, stay on your guard breh, I've had a few different women tell me they couldn't live without me, lo and behold they're alive and kicking now that we're not together. Your girl might be great, but she's very young and will change over time, she might not even be the same person 2 years from now.

When I was 20 my girl at the time was 18, she said all this nonsensical shyt about me being the love of her life, how she'd die without me and all this other shyt (I took her virginity). Being a young dude, I believed most of it, so I tried to make it work with her when she went away. We lasted 1 month after she went away, she all of a sudden had all these new guy friends, and tried to tell me they were just friends I dropped her on the spot, she called crying saying she didn't want to break up, sorry not buying it. So, this woman who couldn't live without me, was fukking other guys less than 2 weeks after we broke up and was still alive last I heard.

You're too young to be locked into a relationship with a 18 year old, no matter how good she may seem, she will change and grow, it's inevitable.

 

[MikelArteta]

Nudie, stay on your guard breh, I've had a few different women tell me they couldn't live without me, lo and behold they're alive and kicking now that we're not together. Your girl might be great, but she's very young and will change over time, she might not even be the same person 2 years from now.

When I was 20 my girl at the time was 18, she said all this nonsensical shyt about me being the love of her life, how she'd die without me and all this other shyt (I took her virginity). Being a young dude, I believed most of it, so I tried to make it work with her when she went away. We lasted 1 month after she went away, she all of a sudden had all these new guy friends, and tried to tell me they were just friends I dropped her on the spot, she called crying saying she didn't want to break up, sorry not buying it. So, this woman who couldn't live without me, was fukking other guys less than 2 weeks after we broke up and was still alive last I heard.

You're too young to be locked into a relationship with a 18 year old, no matter how good she may seem, she will change and grow, it's inevitable.

Yup it's all manipulation tactics, all these jocks are alive and well and probably never even think of you.

Like I said yesterday I even had chicks cut themselves and show me the marks,
How there going to run away from him. Chicks willing to do any and everything,
Young women are masters at this.

Ask any man here whose over 25 if they are still with the same girl they were at 21

 

[Ohene]

Nudie, stay on your guard breh, I've had a few different women tell me they couldn't live without me, lo and behold they're alive and kicking now that we're not together. Your girl might be great, but she's very young and will change over time, she might not even be the same person 2 years from now.

When I was 20 my girl at the time was 18, she said all this nonsensical shyt about me being the love of her life, how she'd die without me and all this other shyt (I took her virginity). Being a young dude, I believed most of it, so I tried to make it work with her when she went away. We lasted 1 month after she went away, she all of a sudden had all these new guy friends, and tried to tell me they were just friends I dropped her on the spot, she called crying saying she didn't want to break up, sorry not buying it. So, this woman who couldn't live without me, was fukking other guys less than 2 weeks after we broke up and was still alive last I heard.

You're too young to be locked into a relationship with a 18 year old, no matter how good she may seem, she will change and grow, it's inevitable.

why must it be so hard? I feel its inevitable too

I hear you guys though. *sigh*
It's so hard because this kinda knowledge will have you paranoid and fukking shyt up in the process. But then the paranoia with have you feeling like a naiive fool if you dont make it known. I dont know man. It's a lottery at the end of the day...we'll see what numbers roll up

shyt my sister and her current husband started dating when they were like 17. They had there ups and downs with the long distance relationship during college...parents not approving the mixed-race shyt (guyanese (coolie) vs. ghanaian) you name it...and now they are living at least what seems to be the perfect marriage. He is a manager for KPMG's consultant division. She's a procurement lawyer (formerly for gvt) just started her on practice. Two lovely kids...boy and a girl. Everything seems bless. They give me hope brehs.Been together for about 7 years now probably I really have forgotten well see if they go the distance

would you guys recommend discussing this with her down the road even?

 

[Malta]

Yup it's all manipulation tactics, all these jocks are alive and well and probably never even think of you.

Like I said yesterday I even had chicks cut themselves and show me the marks,
How there going to run away from him. Chicks willing to do any and everything,
Young women are masters at this.

Ask any man here whose over 25 if they are still with the same girl they were at 21

Yeah man, the ex before my current girl used to say all this shyt too, I always corrected her on some "Oh, you can't live without me, so how'd you live this long prior to me".

why must it be so hard? I feel its inevitable too

I hear you guys though. *sigh*
It's so hard because this kinda knowledge will have you paranoid and fukking shyt up in the process. But then the paranoia with have you feeling like a naiive fool if you dont make it known. I dont know man. It's a lottery at the end of the day...we'll see what numbers roll uo

Enjoy your time with her, but understand this is most likely not going to be the woman you ultimately end up with. Use a condom whatever you do, I rolled the dice a lot when I was younger and luckily never got any of my exs pregnant.

It's not naive breh, most of the dudes in here are older and went through what you're going through right now. Enjoy her company, but keep all thoughts of some long lasting future out of your head and take it day to day, she will change more in time than you will. You don't even need to be paranoid, just keep it in the back of your mind, and do not think she is perfect or even close, nobody is.