Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Malta]

props on this

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for a month only 1,300
just gotta come up with airfare

I'll have to find it but there was another legitimate volunteer program in Brazil where room and board were paid for, you simply needed airfare and money for food when you're there.


Cheap ass flights -
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[#1 pick]

It's funny I learned at a very young age to not let other men walk over you...I was never bullied or punked. If I was challenged....I got into fights...won some and lost some. But females have punked a nikka too much...a 6'2'' 220lbs. nikka is no problem but then a 5'1 100lb. female and I used to be
Truly disgusting...

Because with a dude, it's physical, woman are emotional. They know that emotional shyt too.

 

[Nintendough]

thats what folks need to realize, the more you sit around thinking of ONE chick who is literally a grain of sand on a beach, you will miss out on the countless others, women come and women go every day you see chicks you never seen before every day is a opportunity if you want to grasp it

If only I knew this about this years ago. It could have prevented a lot of headaches.

 

[Malta]

im thinking of doing them 1mth teaching certificate(tesol) then head to brazil and teach for a half a year

take 6mths of work with no pay

Danielle in Brazil: Danielle's Tips for Teaching English in Brazil

My boy is teaching English in Indonesia, I haven't seen him since last December

He comes back for a week or two every year.

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

damn thats refreshing...smh at me stressing over one female


cotdamn simpin can really blind you

We all learn the hard way with simping over a chic that doesn't gave a damn about you. It may just be the trill of the chase or having that "feeling of joy". But once that haze is gone and you see all the faults and cracks and issues, you will say to yourself "WTF was I thinking in chasing/dealing with HER???" I learned the hard way 2 years ago with dealing with a chic that I work with and slowly got out of that haze and seen what I did wrong, my faults as a person and why I went hard over a chic that was way beneath my level/didn't really care for me. It can be a positive learning experience and make you realize that the only thing that you should only chase is your dreams, not a person who will only love or hang around with you when only you can provide something for them in return. Use that anger that you have for simping over someone who didn't appreciate you to going for something that you really wanted in life but never have enough balls to go for it beforehand. Also, use the experience to become better with women and knowing the game so that you don't get play again. What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger.

 

[MikelArteta]

We all learn the hard way with simping over a chic that doesn't gave a damn about you. It may just be the trill of the chase or having that "feeling of joy". But once that haze is gone and you see all the faults and cracks and issues, you will say to yourself "WTF was I thinking in chasing/dealing with HER???" I learned the hard way 2 years ago with dealing with a chic that I work with and slowly got out of that haze and seen what I did wrong, my faults as a person and why I went hard over a chic that was way beneath my level/didn't really care for me. It can be a positive learning experience and make you realize that the only thing that you should only chase is your dreams, not a person who will only love or hang around with you when only you can provide something for them in return. Use that anger that you have for simping over someone who didn't appreciate you to going for something that you really wanted in life but never have enough balls to go for it beforehand. Also, use the experience to become better with women and knowing the game so that you don't get play again. What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger.

daps

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

"bytches ain't shyt"
"Don't love these hoes"
"fukk bytches, get money"
'Never get too attached"


For the longest time, I thought these quotes were from bitter ass men who couldn't get no play or were complete a$$holes. Now I realize that you got to have that mindset with these women until you find the one who really loves you and is about her shyt. Is hard to find a good woman out here especially once you get older. That is the sad reality of the world that we live in right now. Until you do find the treasure that really adores you, learn how to deal with the trash!

 

[Ohene]

I was like that stressing over a chick responding back and if she wants to go out or not...fukk it.

One girl gave me the "I don't have time for a relationship...I'm focusing on God and my studies" excuse..and another one was just bullshytting and re-scheduling...

I was more concerned when my favorite team lost a football games than I was over a bytch.

I was on a date Saturday and saw a bytch that turned me down a couple of months ago...she waived and I did the like I didn't know her.

I treat these bytches like grimey nikkas I know...

Eagles have always been the most important thing on my mind breh

Funny you mention that. I have to conceal my passion for them because I dont want no girl ruining my sundays with some bad news to have me thinking about them > the game.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Man....heartbreak from my teens and early 20s has really given me a level of boldness & not giving a fukk which is completely necessary for dealing with women. Like someone in this thread said you have to learn how to be happy being alone.

I honestly am more scared of ending up with the wrong women than being alone.


I was in my car and this chick was bullshytting with the p*ssy and the head the other day teasing me and I straight up told her "bytch you gonna suck my dikk or what....otherwise I'm taking your black ass home (she was dark skinned)." She was like then then she went to work....I was like


Honestly what I've learned as an adult is that you control the situation, if a chick doesn't respond to you in a timely matter, if she doesn't do what you want her to do, if she nags, fusses, if she isn't providing you with the services and happiness that you desire than she's gotta go.

 

[Ohene]

Eagles have always been the most important thing on my mind breh

Funny you mention that. I have to conceal my passion for them because I dont want no girl ruining my sundays with some bad news to have me thinking about them > the game. I hope I aint fukk up letting my girl know about them like that. Im slowly gonna hope she forgets. She wants me to teach her football but I dunno brehs

 

[Jesus]

I hate when these skeezer act all surprised when you bring condoms.

"So you were expecting to fukk? "

Nah, I'm just always prepared you never know what may happen.

 

[jadillac]

For what it's worth, when I was in college, I met alot of great girls from small towns/cities in Oklahoma.

I think the small town girls who haven't grown up in big cities and grown up with dudes spittin game to them everyday are a little easier to deal with. They really dont have the same mentality of these big city chicks.

These chicks are the exception to much of what is discussed in this thread.

That clubbing/ going to bars/ "modeling" crap is not normal. Society is brainwashing men into thinking that these chicks are chicks that you must settle down with or marry.

Me and this girl I used to date were planning to go to gun range one day. It's a fun, interesting date I suppose.

So it was a Saturday, and we were supposed to go the next day(Sunday)...so Sat night I was at home for 2-3 hrs looking up the best gun ranges to go to, best prices, etc. I got ready to call her to tell her the plans, and she texts me back and says she cant talk b/c she's "at a really loud tattoo party"

The level of ANGER that rose up in me was not healthy....I aint even know I could get that mad. I was like I'm sittin here spending my damn Sat night planning our next date tomorrow, and YOU are out at a tattoo party? A tattoo party?! Mind you she didnt have any tattoos anyway, so what's she doing there? I had to ask myself, "do I really wanna date a girl who would go to tattoo party?" And who knows what shes really doing there

It's hard to find a woman who doesnt club/bar-hop, etc., but for your own sanity, maintain your standards brehs.

 

[CASHAPP]

For what it's worth, when I was in college, I met alot of great girls from small towns/cities in Oklahoma.

I think the small town girls who haven't grown up in big cities and grown up with dudes spittin game to them everyday are a little easier to deal with. They really dont have the same mentality of these big city chicks.

These chicks are the exception to much of what is discussed in this thread.



Me and this girl I used to date were planning to go to gun range one day. It's a fun, interesting date I suppose.

So it was a Saturday, and we were supposed to go the next day(Sunday)...so Sat night I was at home for 2-3 hrs looking up the best gun ranges to go to, best prices, etc. I got ready to call her to tell her the plans, and she texts me back and says she cant talk b/c she's "at a really loud tattoo party"

The level of ANGER that rose up in me was not healthy....I aint even know I could get that mad. I was like I'm sittin here spending my damn Sat night planning our next date tomorrow, and YOU are out at a tattoo party? A tattoo party?! Mind you she didnt have any tattoos anyway, so what's she doing there? I had to ask myself, "do I really wanna date a girl who would go to tattoo party?" And who knows what shes really doing there

It's hard to find a woman who doesnt club/bar-hop, etc., but for your own sanity, maintain your standards brehs.

I mean I like to fukk around.....but when your actually looking for someone to be with, it is so frustrating how 99 percent of these women are so shallow and its like all life is about is Facebook and clubbing.

No indivuality........and I guess that can go for most of people in college in general including men.

But yeah women especially I mean this obssession with clubbing and things of that nature is just so annoying. I mean its cool to have fun and everything but its like alot of them are sheep with a one track mind.

No sense of direction at all.

In reference to the small town girls, I know Houston Texas isn't "technically" small town, but I have to say despite how I feel about her music, Beyonce in my opinion should be the golden standard of the type of woman to wife, who you don't have to constantly double check and worry if you made the right choice. Maybe she's a great actress lol but like I said before I think she is a good standard of having the right idea of wifey material....

And please can someone not come in here and say something about her "booty shaking".

As much as I stan for her and it pains me to admit......I would have to admit that L. Boogie is probably the complete opposite and women procreating that much are gonna end up causing some type of problem.

 

[Wild self]

Yeah man, that's what making finding the decent women so difficult. Decent women typically aren't the ones that are always out and about. They are usually homebodies, so you have to catch them when they HAVE to be out. It may be at school, it may be at church, while they are grocery shopping, or it might be through a friend. On the other hand, the women we most typically come across are the club rats and ones who can't stay at home because they are always out and about. That's what makes it tough. The women that you shouldn't wife up are the ones you see the most, while the ones you should wife are hard to find because they aren't out all that much.

Another sign a man needs to look at is how much television vs reading books a woman does and WHAT she is watching. If she's watching Atlanta Housewives, Bad Girls Club, Sex and the City and such shows, there's a very high likelihood she is subconsciously responding to those shows and will begin to emulate the behavior within those shows in different forms. Like they say, garbage in, garbage out. Now television shows and other media consumption won't necessarily dictate her behavior, but they WILL influence her way behavior in some ways.

:shake: like you said before, America is gonna become a cesspool of unmorality and ignorance very shortly. This is the era of the simp and the golddigger.

 

[winb83]

I hate when these skeezer act all surprised when you bring condoms.

"So you were expecting to fukk? "

just be like yeah.