Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Also, I know it sounds weird & opposite of what alotta dudes say, but it'd be wise to NOT look at women just for sex.

Why? Because when you do you can wind up making a fool outta yourself because ur eager to hit it, or you appear to be thirsty. Then, whether she knows it or not, she has that(sex) hanging over ur head. And it clouds ur judgement about her in general b/c ur looking past flaws and red flags cause you wanna hit it. You'll spend money you'll regret later and or waste time you'll regret later, or behave like a simp ALL because of sex.

I think Reincar posted a link several pages back in this thread that said you should jack off before going out on a date with a new girl..:laugh:.

It sounded crazy:wtf: when I read it....but when you think about it it makes sense. Because then when you go out w/ her you'l be thinking with your brain, and you'll make better assessment about her apart from a physical attraction.

I don't know that I'd do it....but it makes sense. :leon::manny:
 

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I mean I like to fukk around.....but when your actually looking for someone to be with, it is so frustrating how 99 percent of these women are so shallow and its like all life is about is Facebook and clubbing.

No indivuality........and I guess that can go for most of people in college in general including men.

But yeah women especially I mean this obssession with clubbing and things of that nature is just so annoying. I mean its cool to have fun and everything but its like alot of them are sheep with a one track mind.

No sense of direction at all.

In reference to the small town girls, I know Houston Texas isn't "technically" small town, but I have to say despite how I feel about her music, Beyonce in my opinion should be the golden standard of the type of woman to wife, who you don't have to constantly double check and worry if you made the right choice. Maybe she's a great actress lol but like I said before I think she is a good standard of having the right idea of wifey material....

And please can someone not come in here and say something about her "booty shaking".

As much as I stan for her and it pains me to admit......I would have to admit that L. Boogie is probably the complete opposite and women procreating that much are gonna end up causing some type of problem.


That clubbing shyt w/ alcohol and tricking men into paying them drinks makes these women have a false sense of entitlement. The same ones that be on that dumb shyt like 'ain't no good man out there" when they too old to make a difference.

What annoys me about that club life is, like you said, the sheepish mentality that all these chicks desire the same man, which makes the club scene in itself frustrating on dudes that don't know the extent of game. Its a game of a few winners and a bunch of broke losers; if the losers complain, they get shamed on some "stop being a wimp and get puccy" without any advice on how to get it successfully.

Best thing to do is travel and see what life is outside of America. I heard the club scene in Europe and in Jamaica is nothing like America, and chicks there are easy as fukk to talk to :whoo::pachaha:
 

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That clubbing shyt w/ alcohol and tricking men into paying them drinks makes these women have a false sense of entitlement. The same ones that be on that dumb shyt like 'ain't no good man out there" when they too old to make a difference.

:wow::huhldup: DAMN, that sounds cold as hell...but I think it's pretty accurate.

If you're a man who eats right, exercises and is about something, you can be 35 and still pull a 26-27 year old woman(maybe 24-25 if shes mature)......on the flipside, it seems the odds are lower for a 35 year old woman to be able to pull a a 26-27 year old guy. Even from nothing but a physical standpoint, he's gonna rather date a 22-23 year old chick.



And you know what's funny....the small town, less hip to the game chicks, from traditional families, etc., are taught to find a good man and marry early. Meawhile, these chicks out here who think they know all there is to know about men, know how to play "the game", etc., are the ones who seem to miss this easy lesson. :youngsabo:
 

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That clubbing shyt w/ alcohol and tricking men into paying them drinks makes these women have a false sense of entitlement. The same ones that be on that dumb shyt like 'ain't no good man out there" when they too old to make a difference.

What annoys me about that club life is, like you said, the sheepish mentality that all these chicks desire the same man, which makes the club scene in itself frustrating on dudes that don't know the extent of game. Its a game of a few winners and a bunch of broke losers; if the losers complain, they get shamed on some "stop being a wimp and get puccy" without any advice on how to get it successfully.

Best thing to do is travel and see what life is outside of America. I heard the club scene in Europe and in Jamaica is nothing like America, and chicks there are easy as fukk to talk to :whoo::pachaha:

Don't be so quick to believe things like that all the time. It seems to be a misconception with this whole "its better out the country". While it may be better out in another country, it is only SLIGHTLY......

When you think that it is easier in other countries...........ALWAYS remember situations like that Secret Service situation that happened earlier this year and the dramatic girl who blew up the whole thing.

I see what your saying but you can't really generalize one country out of America though.....

I do have to admit though some of those videos I downloaded through torrents of the freaky ass dancing/fukking going on in Jamaica clubs is wild as hell......

:merchant:

But always remember that there is always that "ONE girl" in every country or city that spazzes out after a while after she just spend the last 20 minutes rubbing her ass in a guy's dikk
 

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:wow::huhldup: DAMN, that sounds cold as hell...but I think it's pretty accurate.

If you're a man who eats right, exercises and is about something, you can be 35 and still pull a 26-27 year old woman(maybe 24-25 if shes mature)......on the flipside, it seems the odds are lower for a 35 year old woman to be able to pull a a 26-27 year old guy. Even from nothing but a physical standpoint, he's gonna rather date a 22-23 year old chick.



And you know what's funny....the small town, less hip to the game chicks, from traditional families, etc., are taught to find a good man and marry early. Meawhile, these chicks out here who think they know all there is to know about men, know how to play "the game", etc., are the ones who seem to miss this easy lesson. :youngsabo:

:whoa:don't kill em!

Chicks that are extroverted and party all the time are just too gassed up to make a move. Even if you bag her, she can't be your main bytch. Those feminists that think empowerment = taking men's money and splurge it are the ones that gonna be :wtf: when they hit 35 and the younger batch of females get all the attention. Ain't nothing like seeing an older chick with a tight body that is desperate as fukk:takedat:

Remember Melyssa Ford? She only wanted the top rappers to fukk back in the early 00s. When the internet models/ hoes gained massive popularity in the late 00s, she was left behind and soon was forced to get a C-list rapper (fame wise) like Raekwon cause she couldn't compete with the likes of the younger batch of chicks. Meanwhile, the rappers that still are semi-famous still get bad p*ssy thrown at them on the regular.

The Marylin Monroe type of hoes always falter and drop behind when the introverted chicks are the ones that get wifed and live happy lives. Funny ain't it? People who work hard, humble, respect others, and recognize bullshyt from people win, while the super extroverted people fall behind and are:old: by the time they 35. Happens all the while.
 

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My requirements

Doesn't smoke, doesn't do drugs, drinks only socially.

- no children, relationships are hard as it is why complicate it even further

- no clubbing or bar hopping

- no dressing scantily

- no cursing the odd word here and there is ok

- in shape

- does not need to always wear makeup

- has a job any job minus a stripper escort model etc.

- no male friends

- comes from a two parent household and gets along with her parents.

- religious

- has at least been in a relationship that lasted 6 months

This is all I ask for, not asking for a dime, don't care about race, or social status whether she's upper class or lower class , or If she's a virgjn but even this is like finding a needle in a haystack


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My requirements

Doesn't smoke, doesn't do drugs, drinks only socially.

- no children, relationships are hard as it is why complicate it even further

- no clubbing or bar hopping

- no dressing scantily

- no cursing the odd word here and there is ok

- in shape

- does not need to always wear makeup

- has a job any job minus a stripper escort model etc.

- no male friends

- comes from a two parent household and gets along with her parents.

- religious

- has at least been in a relationship that lasted 6 months

This is all I ask for, not asking for a dime, don't care about race, or social status whether she's upper class or lower class , or If she's a virgjn but even this is like finding a needle in a haystack


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"bytches ain't shyt"
"Don't love these hoes"
"fukk bytches, get money"
'Never get too attached"


For the longest time, I thought these quotes were from bitter ass men who couldn't get no play or were complete a$$holes. Now I realize that you got to have that mindset with these women until you find the one who really loves you and is about her shyt. Is hard to find a good woman out here especially once you get older. That is the sad reality of the world that we live in right now. Until you do find the treasure that really adores you, learn how to deal with the trash!

Breh that used to be me, I uses to be that simp wondering why these bitter men could talk bad about such pristine creatures. How men could break up and hurt these beautiful women, then you experience it yourself and realize. Ever wonder why most women hate other women for no apparent reason at all? Because they know how they are. They know most women can't be trusted an will stab you in the back to get ahead.

Rarely do you hear a story of a guy losing a long lasting friendship over a chick but you hear it all the time over women and men.


Even if you do care be non chalant keep it inside


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My requirements

Doesn't smoke, doesn't do drugs, drinks only socially.

- no children, relationships are hard as it is why complicate it even further

- no clubbing or bar hopping

- no dressing scantily

- no cursing the odd word here and there is ok

- in shape

- does not need to always wear makeup

- has a job any job minus a stripper escort model etc.

- no male friends

- comes from a two parent household and gets along with her parents.

- religious

- has at least been in a relationship that lasted 6 months

This is all I ask for, not asking for a dime, don't care about race, or social status whether she's upper class or lower class , or If she's a virgjn but even this is like finding a needle in a haystack


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This shyt today? Seems like...
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:noah:
 

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my chick has all that and then some :ehh:


...except she kinda have male friends. I'm putting her on game saying they likely tryna smash but she says if that even came up they would be disgusted if she wanted to fukk em. :manny: Whatever...
 

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my chick has all that and then some :ehh:


...except she kinda have male friends. I'm putting her on game saying they likely tryna smash but she says if that even came up they would be disgusted if she wanted to fukk em. :manny: Whatever...

Yeaaahhh, ok. If she said to them she wanted to smash, they'd be grossed out? Unless she looks like Precious, she (and you, if you believe that) are out of your god damn minds.

Lemme guess. "They look at me like a sister", right?

Not saying you have anything to worry about, but best believe, they'd dikk her down in a heartbeat.
 
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