Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

You have the right mindset. Sometimes you just have to take a risk with a woman and see where it goes, but always be prepared if it doesn't go right. That's the right mindset. No use disqualifying women based on the behavior of other women.

yup. its the hardest thing not to act scorned cause man oh man that ex was damn near perfect for me until I saw the true colors. I even thought I'd never reach that level of love for a girl again but I may be approaching it again.

It's amazing getting a chance to do it again with the knowledge that I have now. I can already see the difference i myself and the respect my girl gives me as a result.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah man, that's what making finding the decent women so difficult. Decent women typically aren't the ones that are always out and about. They are usually homebodies, so you have to catch them when they HAVE to be out. It may be at school, it may be at church, while they are grocery shopping, or it might be through a friend. On the other hand, the women we most typically come across are the club rats and ones who can't stay at home because they are always out and about. That's what makes it tough. The women that you shouldn't wife up are the ones you see the most, while the ones you should wife are hard to find because they aren't out all that much.

Another sign a man needs to look at is how much television vs reading books a woman does and WHAT she is watching. If she's watching Atlanta Housewives, Bad Girls Club, Sex and the City and such shows, there's a very high likelihood she is subconsciously responding to those shows and will begin to emulate the behavior within those shows in different forms. Like they say, garbage in, garbage out. Now television shows and other media consumption won't necessarily dictate her behavior, but they WILL influence her way behavior in some ways.

 

[Malta]

@His_Excellence_Reincar I remember you saying you were thinking of quitting your job and traveling, what is stopping you from doing it?

And where are you thinking of going?

 

[MikelArteta]

yup. its the hardest thing not to act scorned cause man oh man that ex was damn near perfect for me until I saw the true colors. I even thought I'd never reach that level of love for a girl again but I may be approaching it again.

It's amazing getting a chance to do it again with the knowledge that I have now. I can already see the difference i myself and the respect my girl gives me as a result.

its good your young so you can still mess with some innocent non baggage chicks, at my age of 27 i already know the single women out there in my age range are literally lemons, their carfax report may be hidden but after awhile all the faults will pop up.

from when i was a wee little lad i've always been told by trollups, crumdgeons and even decent righteous women that i would make a great husband and a great father, people may say im bitter or scorned but nope i'm not, i'm wise, i no longer attempt to load up the blu ray and play the game. My life has changed drastically id say the past 4 months, i just literally go to work, come home and chill, go out when i need to buy groceries, go out for a walk, go to church and that's about it. I have no interest in meeting women, going on dates, i jut don't care at all.

 

[MikelArteta]

@His_Excellence_Reincar I remember you saying you were thinking of quitting your job and traveling, what is stopping you from doing it?

And where are you thinking of going?

well not quitting but taking like a one or two month leave of absence, the only thing stopping me at the moment is bills, i hope to have them cleared up by december.

its not even about travelling per say, it's about getting out of these stagnant routine of just work, home etc. not saying its boring me but i know i was put on this earth for a greater purpose. I've always had a heart for helping ppl at one point i was planning on being a missionary then i left church before i returned to it years later. As well when i was engaged i actually got offered a job with world vision working in romania.

I'd love to take a month or two off and just go volunteer in a third world country not even getting paid just working at a orphanage or at a school, 2013 for sure

i have no wife, gf, family holding me down just these bills i got to shave off, heck maybe ill even find a decent broad down there

 

[Malta]

well not quitting but taking like a one or two month leave of absence, the only thing stopping me at the moment is bills, i hope to have them cleared up by december.

its not even about travelling per say, it's about getting out of these stagnant routine of just work, home etc. not saying its boring me but i know i was put on this earth for a greater purpose. I've always had a heart for helping ppl at one point i was planning on being a missionary then i left church before i returned to it years later. As well when i was engaged i actually got offered a job with world vision working in romania.

I'd love to take a month or two off and just go volunteer in a third world country not even getting paid just working at a orphanage or at a school, 2013 for sure

i have no wife, gf, family holding me down just these bills i got to shave off, heck maybe ill even find a decent broad down there

Volunteer Work With Sea Turtles
Volunteer in Brazil - Volunteer Work in Brazil | GoAbroad.com
Project: Build Clean Water Wells in Africa
http://scopevolunteerinbrazil.com/scope/

There was an old program I saw that had Americans teaching sports in Brazil and Costa Rica, I'll try to find it again.

If you feel like doing it, don't second guess yourself, I wish I would have volunteered and lived outside of the US some more.

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

Props to all yall dropping knowledge...was going through some ish and yall definitely had the kid on point...I was about to fall back into that inception simp, but I found my memento (this thread) niccas!

 

[Malta]

Props to all yall dropping knowledge...was going through some ish and yall definitely had the kid on point...I was about to fall back into that inception simp, but I found my memento (this thread) niccas!

Just remember breh, there's 3.5 billion women on this rock, stay up.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Just remember breh, there's 3.5 billion women on this rock, stay up.

damn thats refreshing...smh at me stressing over one female


cotdamn simpin can really blind you

 

[Jesus]

damn thats refreshing...smh at me stressing over one female


cotdamn simpin can really blind you

I was like that stressing over a chick responding back and if she wants to go out or not...fukk it.

One girl gave me the "I don't have time for a relationship...I'm focusing on God and my studies" excuse..and another one was just bullshytting and re-scheduling...

I was more concerned when my favorite team lost a football games than I was over a bytch.

I was on a date Saturday and saw a bytch that turned me down a couple of months ago...she waived and I did the like I didn't know her.

I treat these bytches like grimey nikkas I know...

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I was like that stressing over a chick responding back and if she wants to go out or not...fukk it.

One girl gave me the "I don't have time for a relationship...I'm focusing on God and my studies" excuse..and another one was just bullshytting and re-scheduling...

I was more concerned when my favorite team lost a football games than I was over a bytch.

I was on a date Saturday and saw a bytch that turned me down a couple of months ago...she waived and I did the like I didn't know her.

I treat these bytches like grimey nikkas I know...

i hope i get to that point breh
im in the early stages..deleted all the numbers

day 1

 

[MikelArteta]

Volunteer Work With Sea Turtles
Volunteer in Brazil - Volunteer Work in Brazil | GoAbroad.com
Project: Build Clean Water Wells in Africa
Scope Volunteer in Brazil

There was an old program I saw that had Americans teaching sports in Brazil and Costa Rica, I'll try to find it again.

If you feel like doing it, don't second guess yourself, I wish I would have volunteered and lived outside of the US some more.

props on this

Dates And Costs – Scope Volunteer in Brazil

for a month only 1,300
just gotta come up with airfare

 

[MikelArteta]

Just remember breh, there's 3.5 billion women on this rock, stay up.

thats what folks need to realize, the more you sit around thinking of ONE chick who is literally a grain of sand on a beach, you will miss out on the countless others, women come and women go every day you see chicks you never seen before every day is a opportunity if you want to grasp it

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

props on this

Dates And Costs – Scope Volunteer in Brazil

for a month only 1,300
just gotta come up with airfare

im thinking of doing them 1mth teaching certificate(tesol) then head to brazil and teach for a half a year

take 6mths of work with no pay

 

[Jesus]

i hope i get to that point breh
im in the early stages..deleted all the numbers

day 1

It's funny I learned at a very young age to not let other men walk over you...I was never bullied or punked. If I was challenged....I got into fights...won some and lost some. But females have punked a nikka too much...a 6'2'' 220lbs. nikka is no problem but then a 5'1 100lb. female and I used to be
Truly disgusting...