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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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honey im going to shoot hoops
wife: ya right
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The reality of the situation in this day and age is most men like the concept, the dream, and the fantasy of being in a relationship with a woman than the actual reality, which is why so many hurdle forward into these highly tilted relationships with them.
Men grow up hearing stuff like behind every great man is a great woman. In their mind they picture they are talking to this real sweetheart, this real gem of a woman that happened to slip away and how that once they 'get her' she will hold him down and represent him to the fullest... He'll have someone he can come home to, respect and cherish... He will have someone that he can keep warm through the long nights and to protect.
Reality of the situation is that the man is putting in all of this work for ZERO return. A man believes he discovered his princess in the wild, but in reality, he is taking this woman out on dates while she's meeting fellas at the club and letting them blaze it up for zero effort... often times WHILE she's eating free dinners on her 'man's' tab. Men are out here paying for their girl's school while she's cheating on him with a dude she met AT that school. Paying for her car, and she'll let another dude drive it. Fellas are out here, coming home and kissing their woman with a smile, not knowing she might have just put her mouth on another dude... He's out there supporting her, letting her stay at home while she's setting up meetings with random chat dudes. Now I wish I was joking about the situation, but these things are COMMON. If it was an exception limited to a few scandalous women, that'd be one thing, but this happens a lot more than one would expect.
Negroes are really out here paying hundreds of dollars for a handful of sand while at the beach. There are just as many women as men, and yet so many men will willingly accept the vastly inferior end of the deal with a huge grin on their face.
Women ain't out here cooking and cleaning as an expectation. You have to DEMAND it and in order to demand it, your game has to be super fly. She has to REALLY like you. On the other hand, you got to be this fly cat that she adores. Otherwise she will be expecting you to take her to dinner, the movies and do all these things while bringing nothing to the table. Let's be real. You sit around here supporting her financially, listening to her problems, dealing with her emotions and all of the such, but what are you realistically getting in return? You go off telling a woman your problems and you are 'weak' to her. Expecting a woman to support you financially? Only if you just got out of prison and can lay the down and out thug who is being held back by the system game on her. Otherwise she will be gone with the wind. You get to expressing your emotions? You are a little boy with female tendencies. But on the other hand, women expect for you to put up with that behavior from them and even reward them with flowers and dinners just for her attention. Let's not even get into the 'tests' that eventually come, aka coming with the worst possible behavior so she can know what she can get away with. "Oh, that's just my homie. Stop being insecure." "Oh I just fell asleep at my girl's house after the club."
The longer you are with this woman is when the 'real them' starts to come out and it hardly resembles the 'woman you fell in love with.' You start seeing their unbalanced emotional states and undesirable emotions such as unrelenting anger and even ruthlessness. You could have spent your whole time treating her well, but when divorce time comes because she got bored with your predictability due to you being responsible to actually support giving her a decent life, she will throw you over a bridge with a kool-aid smile on her face. Then she'll move some fella she was talking to in the background in the house she got off your back and let him drive that same car.
Oh yeah, let's not even get into babygirl's past. Some of you negroes right it off talking about well everyone has a past and people change. You sit back and wonder why people are giving you strange looks or you may even sea fella giggle or two until you learn that your princess was a real go-getter back in her day and you learn that it never stopped even while she was with you.
The reality of the situation is that with most women, the best time you will have with them is in the first month when they are on their best behavior, you don't know anything about them and they aren't comfortable enough around you to start trying to lock you into a relationship of favors or emotional dependency. You are still riding high on the fumes from the thrill of the chase. As soon as it wears off, so many sit around and think, "What in the world have I gotten myself into? I NEVER expected this."
This is why I keep advising men who have found a decent woman to stop cheating on them and to leave the game alone... When you are out here seeing this game for what it really is, it's a doozie.
Men grow up hearing stuff like behind every great man is a great woman. In their mind they picture they are talking to this real sweetheart, this real gem of a woman that happened to slip away and how that once they 'get her' she will hold him down and represent him to the fullest... He'll have someone he can come home to, respect and cherish... He will have someone that he can keep warm through the long nights and to protect.
Reality of the situation is that the man is putting in all of this work for ZERO return. A man believes he discovered his princess in the wild, but in reality, he is taking this woman out on dates while she's meeting fellas at the club and letting them blaze it up for zero effort... often times WHILE she's eating free dinners on her 'man's' tab. Men are out here paying for their girl's school while she's cheating on him with a dude she met AT that school. Paying for her car, and she'll let another dude drive it. Fellas are out here, coming home and kissing their woman with a smile, not knowing she might have just put her mouth on another dude... He's out there supporting her, letting her stay at home while she's setting up meetings with random chat dudes. Now I wish I was joking about the situation, but these things are COMMON. If it was an exception limited to a few scandalous women, that'd be one thing, but this happens a lot more than one would expect.
Negroes are really out here paying hundreds of dollars for a handful of sand while at the beach. There are just as many women as men, and yet so many men will willingly accept the vastly inferior end of the deal with a huge grin on their face.
Women ain't out here cooking and cleaning as an expectation. You have to DEMAND it and in order to demand it, your game has to be super fly. She has to REALLY like you. On the other hand, you got to be this fly cat that she adores. Otherwise she will be expecting you to take her to dinner, the movies and do all these things while bringing nothing to the table. Let's be real. You sit around here supporting her financially, listening to her problems, dealing with her emotions and all of the such, but what are you realistically getting in return? You go off telling a woman your problems and you are 'weak' to her. Expecting a woman to support you financially? Only if you just got out of prison and can lay the down and out thug who is being held back by the system game on her. Otherwise she will be gone with the wind. You get to expressing your emotions? You are a little boy with female tendencies. But on the other hand, women expect for you to put up with that behavior from them and even reward them with flowers and dinners just for her attention. Let's not even get into the 'tests' that eventually come, aka coming with the worst possible behavior so she can know what she can get away with. "Oh, that's just my homie. Stop being insecure." "Oh I just fell asleep at my girl's house after the club."
The longer you are with this woman is when the 'real them' starts to come out and it hardly resembles the 'woman you fell in love with.' You start seeing their unbalanced emotional states and undesirable emotions such as unrelenting anger and even ruthlessness. You could have spent your whole time treating her well, but when divorce time comes because she got bored with your predictability due to you being responsible to actually support giving her a decent life, she will throw you over a bridge with a kool-aid smile on her face. Then she'll move some fella she was talking to in the background in the house she got off your back and let him drive that same car.
Oh yeah, let's not even get into babygirl's past. Some of you negroes right it off talking about well everyone has a past and people change. You sit back and wonder why people are giving you strange looks or you may even sea fella giggle or two until you learn that your princess was a real go-getter back in her day and you learn that it never stopped even while she was with you.
The reality of the situation is that with most women, the best time you will have with them is in the first month when they are on their best behavior, you don't know anything about them and they aren't comfortable enough around you to start trying to lock you into a relationship of favors or emotional dependency. You are still riding high on the fumes from the thrill of the chase. As soon as it wears off, so many sit around and think, "What in the world have I gotten myself into? I NEVER expected this."
This is why I keep advising men who have found a decent woman to stop cheating on them and to leave the game alone... When you are out here seeing this game for what it really is, it's a doozie.
Breh, I've mentioned this before, but alot of these women are listening to these facebook/twitter authors about relationships. These are male authors who may have a book out, or a blog, and they are giving away "male secrets" to women about how we men think and what women should watch out for.
It'll be something like, "Ladies, a good man will SHOW you how much he cares for you. Watch his actions, not his words" #talkischeap
It's all this whole "think like a man" wave that is popular right now.
It's all a bunch of crap because you can't paint every man with just one brush. But women eat it up and retweet it and share it with their single friends, etc. all the while their minds are being poisoned by the very thing they think is teaching them.
Fam, one of my girls' friends watches videos by some broad on Facebook named Tonyatko and retweets everything she says. This is a marriage counselor who isn't married
Her spin is that she's done it all wrong so now she knows her mistakes and offers advice. Only in America can someone fail at relationships repeatedly, and then try to turn around and be an expert on a union they themselves can't make work. If an Engineers' buildings kept collapsing, nobody would enter anything planned or built by him, or ever listen to him again. Let him try and become an expert on how to build a lasting structure "Oh, I know what not to do now!"
i wonder how the game was back in 50-60's
was there such thing as dating?
was there such thing as dating?
Fam, one of my girls' friends watches videos by some broad on Facebook named Tonyatko and retweets everything she says. This is a marriage counselor who isn't married
If an Engineers' buildings kept collapsing, nobody would enter anything planned or built by him, or ever listen to him again. Let him try and become an expert on how to build a lasting structure "Oh, I know what not to do now!"
Women are a mixture of feminism empowerment, 'relationship advisors', trash television shows and being raised to be 'treated like a princess'. Is it any wonder you can't really wife many of them up? They are out here getting their groove on without requiring a relationship, can't cook, can't clean,
If me and my girl breakup, I'm done with long term relationships, no way in hell will I find another woman like this in America and no way in hell I'm going to put in the time to get to know another chick. I feel for you single dudes that actually want a quality chick, even in NYC where women outnumber men it's hard for these dudes cause all these bytches want to pretend they're living a Sex in the City lifestyle of brunch, lunch, dinner and broadway show everynight. All these bytches want to do is go out every night in some way shape or form, it's like can't you sit home one night and just chill? Does every night have to be some get together.
I hear these stories from my girls' friends and these bytches are truly clueless as to why they're single. They will tell me they wish they had someone like me, and I quickly tell them we wouldn't last two weeks, I'm not about to take you out to dinner every fukking night or go to the club so you can pose for the same picture you took last week at the very same club. These are the type of women that want to be seen by other men, even when they're out with you, just in case Victor Cruz happens to be at the club that night
shyt for Victor Cruz...you cant blame themm
Great post though. I think I struck uranium with my neew girl but Im just taking it day by day knowing what is possible especially because shes 18 and I'm 21. If she becomes fairweather...ill take the L and know what to do. Veterans out here now. Its funny you mentioned the sex in the city shyt because my girl was somewhat like that though not bad. Just spent money frivolously. Ordering in food. Taking taxi from the train station after school. Etc etc...but i've got her to cut all that shyt out. She says I remind her of her dad and her dad is basically the most important figure in her life. Good thing or bad thing...we'll find out.
Additionally I haer that getting to know new chicks shyt... its such a drag though
.shyt for Victor Cruz...you cant blame themm
Great post though. I think I struck uranium with my neew girl but Im just taking it day by day knowing what is possible especially because shes 18 and I'm 21. If she becomes fairweather...ill take the L and know what to do. Veterans out here now. Its funny you mentioned the sex in the city shyt because my girl was somewhat like that though not bad. Just spent money frivolously. Ordering in food. Taking taxi from the train station after school. Etc etc...but i've got her to cut all that shyt out. She says I remind her of her dad and her dad is basically the most important figure in her life. Good thing or bad thing...we'll find out.
Additionally I haer that getting to know new chicks shyt... its such a drag though
damn 18...wait till she start her "whoring" stage
i dapped you eventhough i can't cosign this post. i was with you until the last sentence. but that last sentence had me doing the
face. how would it make sense to get out the game when you find a decent girl? You said it yourself, she could very well just be on her best behavior until you "get out the game". some girls can fake it til you sign the papers. But I cosign everything else 
i just respectfully disagree with that part.That's the real problem. It's very hard to tell what you have, so you have to run these women through several tests, and even if she passes, you still have to come with the expectation that people are capable of anything. Mentally, you have to be ready for the woman to walk at any time, but when you have one that grinds for you to an extent that other women don't, you have to show her appreciation.
For example, you have a woman that respects your leadership and doesn't constantly second-guess you. She isn't going out all the time. Her female friends are decent. She doesn't have 'male friends'. She doesn't mind cooking and cleaning. She has enough education to where she makes her own money and doesn't really ask you to pay for anything. When you've been down and out, she's been there to support you. You ran her through the scuttle-butt test, aka you've seen what others have had to say about her and never did some man come through on some 'she's easy' or she's 'everybody's friend' tip. Obviously these women are rare, so if you find one, then what a blessing.
I believe an exclusive relationship to a woman should be a reward and she has to pass a stringent test. Just as there are signs to cheaters, there are signs of decent women. Even with that said though, we are all human and anything can happen, but sometimes you have to take a risk to win.
For example, you have a woman that respects your leadership and doesn't constantly second-guess you. She isn't going out all the time. Her female friends are decent. She doesn't have 'male friends'. She doesn't mind cooking and cleaning. She has enough education to where she makes her own money and doesn't really ask you to pay for anything. When you've been down and out, she's been there to support you. You ran her through the scuttle-butt test, aka you've seen what others have had to say about her and never did some man come through on some 'she's easy' or she's 'everybody's friend' tip. Obviously these women are rare, so if you find one, then what a blessing.
I believe an exclusive relationship to a woman should be a reward and she has to pass a stringent test. Just as there are signs to cheaters, there are signs of decent women. Even with that said though, we are all human and anything can happen, but sometimes you have to take a risk to win.
I know eh?
but shes a virgin. She said when we have sex if we ever break up shellbe devastated but then again who knows.
A part of me thinks id be better off prolonging taking her virginity so she can maintain this mindset. Her parents raised her right though.
If i take an L i take it...but all i know is right now she lookin like the one.
One of those thinga where you have to know her or witness it but i tell you...any requirement yall have in a woman she probably fulfills. To think...what if i never spoke to her on that GO bus
I know eh?
but shes a virgin. She said when we have sex if we ever break up shellbe devastated but then again who knows.
A part of me thinks id be better off prolonging taking her virginity so she can maintain this mindset. Her parents raised her right though.
If i take an L i take it...but all i know is right now she lookin like the one.
One of those thinga where you have to know her or witness it but i tell you...any requirement yall have in a woman she probably fulfills. To think...what if i never spoke to her on that GO bus
shes the one? i hope nothing but the best breh
@malcolmxxx_45 - did you used to be married? Or was that just a joke?
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word. i didn't see it that way...
it's like you said, you can go exclusive with a girl that seems decent and has showed her worth. but always be ready to let her go if she starts disrespecting, marriage or not. and never compromise your happiness to another fickle emotional creature. I honestly don't think i'll ever get married. then again they say "never say never". so if i ever get married, I'm not having the standard vows. there won't be "Til death do us part" and so on. i would want my vows to be very personal and in accordance to my principles. I don't want it to be a promise i'm not sure i could keep...fundementally we agree.
shyt for Victor Cruz...you cant blame themm
Great post though. I think I struck uranium with my neew girl but Im just taking it day by day knowing what is possible especially because shes 18 and I'm 21. If she becomes fairweather...ill take the L and know what to do. Veterans out here now. Its funny you mentioned the sex in the city shyt because my girl was somewhat like that though not bad. Just spent money frivolously. Ordering in food. Taking taxi from the train station after school. Etc etc...but i've got her to cut all that shyt out. She says I remind her of her dad and her dad is basically the most important figure in her life. Good thing or bad thing...we'll find out.
Additionally I haer that getting to know new chicks shyt... its such a drag though
it wont last breh, im telling you shes 18 now just wait till she's 19 or 20, she will start to feel like she "missed out on fun", that she "needs space", that your a great guy but she's not sure if your teh one for her, she just needs to explore.
im just warning you breh, to be prepared when that day come and you get that "we need to talk text"