@Jesus Shuttlesworth
It was just an analogy.
How when your renting a basement buying a car, even watching a movie, buy a videogame etc. you read reviews you investigate . but when we date a girl we dont. As long as she's hot, if she cheated on her past bf to get with us who cares. If she's hot but unemployed who cares etc
Etc.
Those days are over
And nah I didnt try to buy her love breh, that's just who I am.
I volunteer and donate my time and money to various foundations and charities and don't ask for anything in return.
But unfortunately it's not a characteristic that's gonna get you anywhere with women. In fact, it's actually gonna hinder you by setting up high expectations, and you should know this from experience. Not every virtue is appreciated in every situation. You can sing like Michael Jackson? Great. But this is the library and you bring that shyt in here you're gonna be asked to leave. Keep your generosity at your foundation, breh, because it's only making you look like a doormat in the eyes of women.Trying to argue with them is pointless.
But either way you're comparing people to inanimate objects. This isn't buying a video game. Because if people were video games, that would make you a video game and how can a video game buy another video game? See what I'm saying? It's 2 people. That would be like 2 customers. You're checking each other out. Because what it sounds like you're doing off the bat is assuming she wants you which I'm telling you is some creeper shyt. "You're mine!"
Just 2 people. Building a relationship. And along the way, trust is built. Just like any human relationship. You treat women differently. You know what they call that? Putting the p*ssy on a pedestal.
You're not treating people like people. That's why you're having problems with these people. Maybe the problem isn't with them, it's with you.
Now I never said ignore obvious negative qualities and patterns. If you know she's a hoe, why are you entertaining the thought? If you're dating and all that, I'm assuming this is a girl you've at least spoken to and are feeling. Which means she passed whatever preliminary screening you had. From that point, without actual suspicious behavior being the motive, any suspicions arise from a feeling of inadequacy, again, opposite of confidence, which women love. What's the opposite of love? Women are turned off by insecurity. Why would you randomly check your girl's email? Was she acting suspect? Or you just feel that bad about your ability to maintain her interest? To use your analogy, that's like the landlord sneaking into your apartment while you're at work and looking through your shyt. That's you, breh.
And you're a generous guy, that's admirable.
Is that something you really wanna be proud of? Not even trying to get on you but you don't seem very successful with women to me. You get lied to, cheated on, taken advantage of, used and left by virtually every woman you come in contact with so don't brag about body counts because in your case it's like the golf, the higher the number the worst and worst it looks. 
So if she has a "bad review" why is she your girl in the first place?
If the video game has a bad review, you don't buy it. How do you get to the point where you're giving her thousands of dollars if you determined she had a bad history?
You were either clueless (couldn't see the obvious) or foolish (could see the obvious but didn't gaf).
And I know your history, breh.
Keep posting though. Every sentence will be a lesson for you.
I've always said over and over again to always check up on your investment.
If your renting out your basement you'd check a credit report of a applicant.
If a bank is giving money they check
if a job is hiring you they check your criminal history etc.
but why for when we date its just "trust", just go in willfully blind.
NAH not me, in front of you everyone will be nice and loving say great words, but when your not around do they? When gazillon guys hitting them up do you still exist in her mind?
People will toss out that insecure jargon etc. but its like @kevm3 said the knockout punch you never really see coming.
If there is one thing I've learned through the years it doesn't matter what you do for a woman it literally doesn't matter, you can give them everything, drive them everywhere, do everything for them but the moment it stops its not hey thanks for everything, its hmm you no longer car about me anymore I'll find someone else who does.
I remember with my ex, when she couldn't find a place to live I allowed her to live in my basement rent free, when she lost her job I did up her resume and applied and got her a job, when she was unemployed and had no food yep it wsa me again, I also drove her to work every morning just like you breh,d rove her everywhere it seemed to get groceries. Hell I even gave her half of first and last month rent as a deposit when she got her new place. Hell i probably spent like 5-6k in a year helping her out, but at the end of the day when I asked back for 1000 bucks she owed me that she promised to pay back I was a "harraser", when I decided I'm no longer driving her to work because I decided to start earlier I was "selfish" and no longer cared about her anymore.
When I finally cut her off she started she cursed me out, the bible talks abut women like this
"This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth and says, 'I've done nothing wrong.'
chick out there e-mailing her ex and ish but your the bad person for snooping
And it wasn't even my ex I seen it time and time again with women, you can literally give em a kidney, part of your liver, peel the skin of your body for a skin graft if they have third degree burns but they don't even remember that just that "you stopped driving em to work".
You can see these broads 100 days in a row but one day you just want to relax by yourself and you get the "fine, don't come then i'll do something else", and they emailing a next nikka.
As a man one of the biggest weapons you have is to leave and never look back, Remember what i always say only three things a woman can hold over you 1. her beauty 2. sex 3. emotional connection thats it.
I live my life like the country of israel. Always know any day it could be war or a bum dropped on me , always prepared
First off. Learn to comprehend, you know nothing of someone until you see the real them. I said nikkaz will read a review of a videogame and if it sucks not buy it, but will willfully hop in a relationship with a woman because she's hot not investigating her history or asking the hard questions
And The fukk?
You don't know me, I got cheated on by one chick.
Left? I've been dumped once in my life, like 8 years ago
Used and taken advantage off? The hell, the only girl that I can say semi used me is the same one that cheated on me which is the same girl that livdd in my basement and I got a job. So this long history of bs your spewing
If you want to talk shyt at least make sure its factual and not bs jargon
So if she has a "bad review" why is she your girl in the first place?
If the video game has a bad review, you don't buy it. How do you get to the point where you're giving her thousands of dollars if you determined she had a bad history?
You were either clueless (couldn't see the obvious) or foolish (could see the obvious but didn't gaf).
And I know your history, breh.
Keep posting though. Every sentence will be a lesson for you.
