Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

On some real, y'all nikkaz need to be reading The Way Of The Superior Man.

I've had that on my kindle for several months and haven't got around to reading it yet, but I will soon.

So i'm not sure if this is the best thread for this but have any of you guys had a woman get physically violent with you? what are you supposed to do in the aftermath? is it instant to the relationship?..shyt just happened to me earlier tonight with my girl while i was at her place. She was slapping, scratching me up and trying to keep me from leaving, she definitely wasn't playing around at all. I got out of there as quick as i could and i'm not hurt bad of course but now she calling and texting saying she sorry, that she was just a little drunk and shyt but ehh.

You really have to ask? If you have any respect for yourself, get out that relationship, man. If a dude beat up on his woman and then turned around and said it was because he was a "little drunk" you know it wouldn't fly.

I don't care if I'm 7'5 and my girl is 5'3....put your hands on me and we're done.

 

[semtex]

Honestly man, it might be the bodybuilding you are into. Once you get past a certain size, you're going to have more men 'giving you props' than women. That's why at around 200 lbs, I'm not planning on getting much bigger. Only focusing on proportion and getting cut.

Women respond most to how you dress and your level of charisma. Having muscles up to a certain point can definitely help, but when you start getting too big, women are intimidated and for whatever reason, 'male admirers' start popping up.

That's true but it also happens online and I don't flaunt my physique at all online. I guess I just have a particular look

 

[Beerus]

Went on a date yesterday played pool had pizza shyt was cool chilled a lil bit on a couch at my old university.

Asked her when im finna see her again today she tells me she'll letme know
Im done wit tinder mostly cuz its the third date within a week n did not get a 2nd date and i got school and not money to b spend like this

 

[MikelArteta]

Never wait for a chick.

She's just letting you down instantly

Bushes

Went on a date yesterday played pool had pizza shyt was cool chilled a lil bit on a couch at my old university.

Asked her when im finna see her again today she tells me she'll letme know
Im done wit tinder mostly cuz its the third date within a week n did not get a 2nd date and i got school and not money to b spend like this

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

What's the best action plan of advice for not getting so attached and being more cold-blooded?

I read advice on here and on social media how people say "I hate it when she gets too attached", "I don't wanna be locked down", "I got sides" but to me it's hard to be that emotionally distant with a girl where you truly don't give a fukk if they leave you or not.

Self esteem. Confidence. You gotta stop viewing women as a prize and instead view yourself as the prize. They should be getting attached to you, not the other way around. Build yourself up. Develop your character. Indulge in hobbies. Enjoy being you so much that women truly become an afterthought. That's when all these chicks you desire come flocking, when you stop giving them attention for free. And then you won't care if they leave because, A) You'll still have you and all the things that make you happy and B) You'll have a slew of women interested in you so you're less likely to be stunting a single one.

On some real, y'all nikkaz need to be reading The Way Of The Superior Man.

Good read

 

[TRUEST]

Went on a date yesterday played pool had pizza shyt was cool chilled a lil bit on a couch at my old university.

Asked her when im finna see her again today she tells me she'll letme know
Im done wit tinder mostly cuz its the third date within a week n did not get a 2nd date and i got school and not money to b spend like this

a word of advice, always try to keep the first date short but not too short. and always make sure there's more drinking than there is eating. wine/beer with fries.

 

[Dig]

This chick is working work study at this gig Im doing community service at. Her last week is in two weeks and mine is next week. I started talkin to her fo real today but she seem real shy. Go give her my phone and tell her to put her num in next time I see her . Would have did it today but the director interrupted us.

 

[Dig]

Self esteem. Confidence. You gotta stop viewing women as a prize and instead view yourself as the prize. They should be getting attached to you, not the other way around. Build yourself up. Develop your character. Indulge in hobbies. Enjoy being you so much that women truly become an afterthought. That's when all these chicks you desire come flocking, when you stop giving them attention for free. And then you won't care if they leave because, A) You'll still have you and all the things that make you happy and B) You'll have a slew of women interested in you so you're less likely to be stunting a single one.



Good read

Develop a confidence that's almost an arrogance. Putting p*ssy on a pedestal is cliche but its an epidemic. Develop options. If you put all of you into a chick you just meeting it prolly aint go end well (not saying it can't, but most girls I been with for a while they ended up winning out over other girls)

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

Develop a confidence that's almost an arrogance. Putting p*ssy on a pedestal is cliche but its an epidemic. Develop options. If you put all of you into a chick you just meeting it prolly aint go end well (not saying it can't, but most girls I been with for a while they ended up winning out over other girls)

Every time a woman calls you an a$$hole, that's a good thing.
Women love a$$holes. That's like a checkpoint to let you know you're on the path.

 

[Dig]

Every time a woman calls you an a$$hole, that's a good thing.
Women love a$$holes. That's like a checkpoint to let you know you're on the path.

My girl calls me an a$$hole on the daily because I talk so much shyt to her . You right tho. Be a simp soft dude if you want too . I be talkin shyt to these broads.

 

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[2Quik4UHoes]

On some real, y'all nikkaz need to be reading The Way Of The Superior Man.

Read this years ago, well worth it.

 

[MikelArteta]

It's true

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Met a new chick whose is fine. I think I mentioned her awhile back. I can't peg her tho. She's nice to me but I'm not used to a chick who doesn't overtly show their interest in some way. I mean she's communicative and down to hang and obviously matched me on the date site so she's definitely attracted but I don't feel that passion. Plus, she NEVER initiates contact first. That shyt is low key irking me.

I talked to my former fling (who is also bad af) about it and she was like, "Well I was the same way. Don't drop her just yet." It's true. I had to put in work with this girl and it went from me always initiating texts to her blowing me up and wanting to FaceTime all the time.

It must be something about these cute lightskinned chicks. It's like they expect to do nothing up front. Hmmm...

Anyway, I need to do something to figure out if this girl is interested for real or not. I wanna say something straight up like, "Yo I like you. I want to date you." like @Emperor_ReinScarf alluded to but I don't want that to be seen as a lack of confidence. Nor do I want to give up any advantage I have right now. I'm also leaning towards doing some kino. I want to try an intimate move and see how she reacts. Believe it or not, I've scored vagina from hard to read girls just by trying them. It's not my style but

I can't believe I'm 32 and still running into women who throw me off like this. shyt is like running into a legendary Pokemon after I've defeated all the gyms and beasted my way to the top.