I learned a while back about 'sacrificing' for a female. You limit yourself for a female and it most likely won't be appreciated. As a man, you're the leader. You have to go and make moves and if she's really about you, she'll follow. Following after a woman or remaining complacent because of a woman is a surefire way to have her leave you. If you would have stayed back, you would still be having them same, if not worse problems with her, and you'd be stuck in complacency on top of that. I learned women don't appreciate sacrifice and the things you do for them. They only appreciate their feelings at any given moment... meaning you build your life around this or that woman, you make all of these sacrifices and she ends up getting bored and leaves despite all you've done. Never hold yourself back for a woman. If she's about you, she'll find a way to get to where you are.
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I learned a while back about 'sacrificing' for a female. You limit yourself for a female and it most likely won't be appreciated. As a man, you're the leader. You have to go and make moves and if she's really about you, she'll follow. Following after a woman or remaining complacent because of a woman is a surefire way to have her leave you. If you would have stayed back, you would still be having them same, if not worse problems with her, and you'd be stuck in complacency on top of that. I learned women don't appreciate sacrifice and the things you do for them. They only appreciate their feelings at any given moment... meaning you build your life around this or that woman, you make all of these sacrifices and she ends up getting bored and leaves despite all you've done. Never hold yourself back for a woman. If she's about you, she'll find a way to get to where you are.
Dushane Hill
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I meant old hoes as in hoes you used to fukk with the previous year or some shyt but wanna get shyt cracking again
Women will often get in the habit of trying to communicate with you as if you are one of their girlfriends.
You have to shut this down immediately.
What I mean by this is that when women are faced with issues in their lives, for all the nagging they do about communication, they are the worst gender when it comes to it.
They do not know how to clearly express themselves, and they expect for us to be mind readers. THIS IS NOT OUR JOB
Have you ever found yourself asking a woman "What's wrong?" and she says nothing. Then you walk away and then she's in a funk for the remainder of the day. Why? Because something was wrong, and even though she had the opportunity to communicate her issues to you, she didn't. And now she's mad at you because you didn't press the issue.
Do not fall for this. Do not play into this. Tell that woman "If she doesn't know how to communicate effectively, then maybe they should reconsider being in this relationship."
She needs to be accountable for being able to effectively communicate her needs to you in the relationship. In addition to this, men are problem solvers.
Some women want us to sit around and empathize with them about their issues. For us, this is counterproductive, and this is what I mean by her trying to communicate to you as if she is one of your girlfriends. This is not what we are good at. Do not let her do this to you. Yes, provide a listening ear, but she should also know that she shouldn't bring these things to you unless she is looking for your opinion or solution.
Talking about how a situation makes her feel should be left to her girlfriends. Do not let your women emasculate you by communicating to you as if you are one of her homegirls. Stand your ground early. You'll thank yourself for it.
You have to shut this down immediately.
What I mean by this is that when women are faced with issues in their lives, for all the nagging they do about communication, they are the worst gender when it comes to it.
They do not know how to clearly express themselves, and they expect for us to be mind readers. THIS IS NOT OUR JOB
Have you ever found yourself asking a woman "What's wrong?" and she says nothing. Then you walk away and then she's in a funk for the remainder of the day. Why? Because something was wrong, and even though she had the opportunity to communicate her issues to you, she didn't. And now she's mad at you because you didn't press the issue.
Do not fall for this. Do not play into this. Tell that woman "If she doesn't know how to communicate effectively, then maybe they should reconsider being in this relationship."
She needs to be accountable for being able to effectively communicate her needs to you in the relationship. In addition to this, men are problem solvers.
Some women want us to sit around and empathize with them about their issues. For us, this is counterproductive, and this is what I mean by her trying to communicate to you as if she is one of your girlfriends. This is not what we are good at. Do not let her do this to you. Yes, provide a listening ear, but she should also know that she shouldn't bring these things to you unless she is looking for your opinion or solution.
Talking about how a situation makes her feel should be left to her girlfriends. Do not let your women emasculate you by communicating to you as if you are one of her homegirls. Stand your ground early. You'll thank yourself for it.
Her: I wanna see you
Me: Then get over here
Her: Don't do that, you know i have no transportation
Me:
You're a babymama with two kids, no whip, no job, and I'm suppose to leave the comfort of my couch right before the Falcons game start? She got me fukked up
Me: Then get over here
Her: Don't do that, you know i have no transportation
Me:
You're a babymama with two kids, no whip, no job, and I'm suppose to leave the comfort of my couch right before the Falcons game start? She got me fukked up
Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
hate those twitter fakkits the dude on this video is spot on about these nikkaz simping for female validation on social mediaWhat's good my brothers. I've been on hiatus for a while promoting my book
But there's an enemy out there
We have these male "relationship coaches" and "relationship experts" pandering to women, making them feel that everything that goes wrong in a relationship is the man's fault. These men spread a message that tell women that they do not have to be accountable for their actions, and even if they are accused of exhibiting bad behavior, it is because something a man has done
Here are the suspects
Tony Gaskins
Derrick Jaxn
Horacio Jones
and there's more
HEre's some examples of the bullshyt
Women have become entitled, and as a result, relationships have become so lopsided. Groups like this are needed more than ever in an age where men are purposely being emasculated.
Salute to my brothers. I'm going to try to contribute as much as possible.
Simps/male feminists are a huge reason women act the way they do. Those 'twitter hustlers' reaffirm the messed up mindset these modern women have... telling them they don't have to bring anything to the table, but yet can demand the world from a man. They're twisting the minds of women to try to covertly get with them.
Brehs...some of y'all might think arranged marriages are sweet but I got a quick story.
One of my co-workers who I un-expectedly became mad cool with did the arranged marriage shyt. His grandmother went back home(to Bangladesh) to find him a wife once he turned 30. She ended up finding some one for him. The girl and him talk for months with out ever meeting and agreed to go thru with it. The shyt these dudes have to do as far as spending money. Traditional shyt but a lot of money spent. Dude had to buy her a plate of 24k- gold. Giver her parents money if things don't work out. It's sounds like a deposit and shyt. He also had to pay for a bunch of other random shyt for the wedding. So he goes out there for the marriage, meets her they hit it off and fall in love. Once the marriage was done they were able to stay in a room together by themselves to consummate. Now he told me she was extremely tight and he couldn't get all the way in, so as far as intercourse nothing really came to fruition. So he comes back home(to the U.S.) and they get the paper work rolling for her to come out here, which would take about a year. 3 weeks after he came back, she lets him know that she's preggo by him
. He told me he never even came cause she was too tight and when he tried it was painful on both sides. They agree its too early for her to have a kid and they agree she gets a abortion...she tells him it cost $600 american dollars!!! to do so 
. Also every pay check, he's sending her some money to live off of while she goes to school. He's 31 and she's 23. 
I dunno, but I think this chik might be running a little game on him. He's really naive and doesn't think women back in Bangladesh would so something like that . I know he really wants to be married to this chik and is just focusing on keeping things sweet so she gets up to America with no problem. I think he's gonna have a future headache with this chik once she comes up here.
One of my co-workers who I un-expectedly became mad cool with did the arranged marriage shyt. His grandmother went back home(to Bangladesh) to find him a wife once he turned 30. She ended up finding some one for him. The girl and him talk for months with out ever meeting and agreed to go thru with it. The shyt these dudes have to do as far as spending money. Traditional shyt but a lot of money spent. Dude had to buy her a plate of 24k- gold. Giver her parents money if things don't work out. It's sounds like a deposit and shyt. He also had to pay for a bunch of other random shyt for the wedding. So he goes out there for the marriage, meets her they hit it off and fall in love. Once the marriage was done they were able to stay in a room together by themselves to consummate. Now he told me she was extremely tight and he couldn't get all the way in, so as far as intercourse nothing really came to fruition. So he comes back home(to the U.S.) and they get the paper work rolling for her to come out here, which would take about a year. 3 weeks after he came back, she lets him know that she's preggo by him
. He told me he never even came cause she was too tight and when he tried it was painful on both sides. They agree its too early for her to have a kid and they agree she gets a abortion...she tells him it cost $600 american dollars!!! to do so . Also every pay check, he's sending her some money to live off of while she goes to school. He's 31 and she's 23. I dunno, but I think this chik might be running a little game on him. He's really naive and doesn't think women back in Bangladesh would so something like that . I know he really wants to be married to this chik and is just focusing on keeping things sweet so she gets up to America with no problem. I think he's gonna have a future headache with this chik once she comes up here.
Man I haven't legitimately liked someone for all that they are in years man, maybe legit ever. And its eating at me, how I move and my thoughts. I guess the uncertainty of it all is what bothers me to certain extent if I'm honest with myself, as the said person just got out of a long term relationship and isn't trying to quickly jump back into one (which is yet another thing I really respect) I'm actually in no rush to jump into a relationship either but if she gave the signal...I'd be all up in there.
To complicate things there's distance which means I can't just pop up or link up on weekends or after work..it has to be somewhat planned out. Which kinda makes things datey which is not the area we are trying to go into just yet and just start off as friends.
I have plenty to focus on and do, so thats not a problem. I do find myself like not interested in any other woman now, not really sexually, or romantically... Its pretty crazy. Of course I'm getting holla'd at now way more than ever now that I have my heart set on one.
I guess its either gonna be a W or a L and thats all there is too it....
No way around it, No homo but a nikka has never felt so vulnerable.
To complicate things there's distance which means I can't just pop up or link up on weekends or after work..it has to be somewhat planned out. Which kinda makes things datey which is not the area we are trying to go into just yet and just start off as friends.
I have plenty to focus on and do, so thats not a problem. I do find myself like not interested in any other woman now, not really sexually, or romantically... Its pretty crazy. Of course I'm getting holla'd at now way more than ever now that I have my heart set on one.
I guess its either gonna be a W or a L and thats all there is too it....
No way around it, No homo but a nikka has never felt so vulnerable.
Her: I wanna see you
Me: Then get over here
Her: Don't do that, you know i have no transportation
Me:
You're a babymama with two kids, no whip, no job, and I'm suppose to leave the comfort of my couch right before the Falcons game start? She got me fukked up
Should went and saved yaself the heartbreak
DallasTxRep
Superstar
This is exactly how my girl is
People think Atlanta has a bunch of bad women, and we do, but a lot of these chicks are BROKE with 2 to 3 kids, and no car 