Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Atlrocafella]

Brehs...some of y'all might think arranged marriages are sweet but I got a quick story.

One of my co-workers who I un-expectedly became mad cool with did the arranged marriage shyt. His grandmother went back home(to Bangladesh) to find him a wife once he turned 30. She ended up finding some one for him. The girl and him talk for months with out ever meeting and agreed to go thru with it. The shyt these dudes have to do as far as spending money. Traditional shyt but a lot of money spent. Dude had to buy her a plate of 24k- gold. Giver her parents money if things don't work out. It's sounds like a deposit and shyt. He also had to pay for a bunch of other random shyt for the wedding. So he goes out there for the marriage, meets her they hit it off and fall in love. Once the marriage was done they were able to stay in a room together by themselves to consummate. Now he told me she was extremely tight and he couldn't get all the way in, so as far as intercourse nothing really came to fruition. So he comes back home(to the U.S.) and they get the paper work rolling for her to come out here, which would take about a year. 3 weeks after he came back, she lets him know that she's preggo by him . He told me he never even came cause she was too tight and when he tried it was painful on both sides. They agree its too early for her to have a kid and they agree she gets a abortion...she tells him it cost $600 american dollars!!! to do so . Also every pay check, he's sending her some money to live off of while she goes to school. He's 31 and she's 23. I dunno, but I think this chik might be running a little game on him. He's really naive and doesn't think women back in Bangladesh would so something like that . I know he really wants to be married to this chik and is just focusing on keeping things sweet so she gets up to America with no problem. I think he's gonna have a future headache with this chik once she comes up here.

She running game on your co-worker. Did he see evidence that she was pregnant or did he just take her word for it ?

Was she a 23 year old virgin? But quick to get an abortion for $600

Something isn't adding up.

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Mike Ock]

She running game on your co-worker. Did he see evidence that she was pregnant or did he just take her word for it ?

Was she a 23 year old virgin? But quick to get an abortion for $600

Something isn't adding up.

Nah she wasn;t a virgin. In fact her ex over there is still trying to get back with her and threatened to put hand on her for marrying my co-worker. Co-worker told me the ex was waiting outside of someone's house they were at, to shoot the fair one with my boy over her, I asked him is he sure it would cost that much out there for an abortion, also how she get prego if he never sprayed in the walls. I didn't even ask if he saw the positive prego test. That can be shown easily via pic. I do think she might be kinda shaking him down since he's from a 1st world country. Only time will tell though. Dude still lives with his fam (father, mom, grandmother and 2 brothers) all in a pretty tight 3 bedroom apt. I asked was he looking for a bigger spot but he said the whole wedding thing left him broke and he had to max out a credit card or two.

 

[Ohene]

Nah she wasn;t a virgin. In fact her ex over there is still trying to get back with her and threatened to put hand on her for marrying my co-worker. Co-worker told me the ex was waiting outside of someone's house they were at, to shoot the fair one with my boy over her, I asked him is he sure it would cost that much out there for an abortion, also how she get prego if he never sprayed in the walls. I didn't even ask if he saw the positive prego test. That can be shown easily via pic. I do think she might be kinda shaking him down since he's from a 1st world country. Only time will tell though. Dude still lives with his fam (father, mom, grandmother and 2 brothers) all in a pretty tight 3 bedroom apt. I asked was he looking for a bigger spot but he said the whole wedding thing left him broke and he had to max out a credit card or two.

sigh

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

So I've gotten pretty serious with the girl with the jailburg boyfriend. I've gone to her house a few times. She really likes me

I've also gotten cool with my ex. She's been sleeping over by me a lot

 

[Action Mike]

I ain't even gotta ask you brehs, I already know long distance relationships don't work .

Just gonna ride it out til she's gone and stay out my feelings, but it's a damn shame because she's a keeper.

 

[Ohene]

I ain't even gotta ask you brehs, I already know long distance relationships don't work .

Just gonna ride it out til she's gone and stay out my feelings, but it's a damn shame because she's a keeper.

Same situation I'm in

 

[The Mad Titan]

I ain't even gotta ask you brehs, I already know long distance relationships don't work .

Just gonna ride it out til she's gone and stay out my feelings, but it's a damn shame because she's a keeper.

They work, you just can't sit on them. It has to be serious and one or the other person has to be willing to move at some point. A casual long distance relationship is nothing more than a needy pin pal with benefits here and there.


If you feel like she a keeper and she's trust worthy put some work into it.



Its easy but not easy at the same time.

 

[Action Mike]

They work, you just can't sit on them. It has to be serious and one or the other person has to be willing to move at some point. A casual long distance relationship is nothing more than a needy pin pal with benefits here and there.


If you feel like she a keeper and she's trust worthy put some work into it.



Its easy but not easy at the same time.

I don't even think it's really dawned on her, because we're in this haze of really liking each other (it will work out etc etc), and I'm thinking way ahead of time about how this practically can work.

That's the thing about moving eventually, it may have to be me...to another country breh. I've been open to that even before she came along, but we'll see in a couple of months...

I ain't letting cuffing season blind me, I ain't seasonal with my frame

 

[The Mad Titan]

I don't even think it's really dawned on her, because we're in this haze of really liking each other (it will work out etc etc), and I'm thinking way ahead of time about how this practically can work.

That's the thing about moving eventually, it may have to be me...to another country breh. I've been open to that even before she came along, but we'll see in a couple of months...

I ain't letting cuffing season blind me, I ain't seasonal with my frame

Oh if its like that then they probably just assume if someone is moving its them. I mean its the states... And its not really a way to start bringing that type of thing up without sounding like you trying to secure a Visa here. At some point sooner rather than later it needs to be brought up, preferably by you if you think she "could be the one". Just to get some general idea of what her plans and thoughts are.



You dont want to get more feelings involved or waste time, only to realize that neither of yall plans match up. And being countries away its going to take time and communication (lots of it) to get everything all line up and squared away when it comes to one of yall moving.

 

[Mike Ock]

I don't even think it's really dawned on her, because we're in this haze of really liking each other (it will work out etc etc), and I'm thinking way ahead of time about how this practically can work.

That's the thing about moving eventually, it may have to be me...to another country breh. I've been open to that even before she came along, but we'll see in a couple of months...

I ain't letting cuffing season blind me, I ain't seasonal with my frame

What country she in?

I've done the long distance and move-in thing with an ex who moved in with me from Canada. Prepare yourself for that because all they have is you when they move to your country. Any minor argument will be blown out of proportion because they don;t have a friendly shoulder to cry on. Also the job thing can cause some stress if you or her aren't working once you move. Just keep this stuff in mind. In no way am I saying you shouldn't try it and see where it goes. If it works out then great. If not, hey at least it was an experience.

 

[Marlostanfield.]

One simple thing you gotta understand about women is they belong to the community not us.

A woman is only loyal depending on how good your game is. If your game is lacking she's gonna choose up. If your game A1 she gonna ride.

Listen if your women truly loves you she only cares about you. She's not giving other nikkas time of the day, no reckless eyeballing, etc. If she's on phone texting other nikkas as as a friend or eye balling other nikkas. That's signs your women is gonna choose up when another nikka comes by with better game.

Just watch signs out in world. Like in a workplace. If you know a woman has a nikka but she's talking to you and it's not about work. She's showing you signs she's gonna choose up another guy who comes along and it might be you if your game is good.

 

[EMainstreet]

what's a good line to use on a girl you followed on Instagram or Twitter? I wanna DM this fine girl that followed back but I don't want to say "hey what's up" cause that's lame, and I don't wanna call her cute because she hears that shyt everyday.

Any advice?

 

[Action Mike]

What country she in?

I've done the long distance and move-in thing with an ex who moved in with me from Canada. Prepare yourself for that because all they have is you when they move to your country. Any minor argument will be blown out of proportion because they don;t have a friendly shoulder to cry on. Also the job thing can cause some stress if you or her aren't working once you move. Just keep this stuff in mind. In no way am I saying you shouldn't try it and see where it goes. If it works out then great. If not, hey at least it was an experience.

she's canadian here in the uk for work.

Be more likely I'd follow her (she's definately going), I'm open to a move anyway but depends on timing and putting my priorities first.

For now, I've resolved this relationship will be a short one. Bush her now for what..

 

[MikelArteta]

Get out before you get hurt

I ain't even gotta ask you brehs, I already know long distance relationships don't work .

Just gonna ride it out til she's gone and stay out my feelings, but it's a damn shame because she's a keeper.