Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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the reason i dont subscribe to all that "go to the gym, work on your self" talk is really because i've seen n1ggas who dont do any of that sh1t pull the baddest women. im not saying to let yourself go and dont take care of urself, but if ur donig xyz in hopes it'll get u women, my dude, u gon be in for a world of hurt.

some people just have a way with women, and some dont. but what i will say is, if ur a social person thats always out and about, you're bound to interact with a lot of women, some of which may end up in your bed.

nevertheless, when it comes to getting women, if theres any advice to give, its really to learn to know when to back off and when to pursue.

1. after you've fuccked a chick, let her be the one chasing u. u chasing her lets her know she has pucccy power over u. show enough interest to let her know u want to see her again. but dont be hitting her up with them bs good morning texts.
2. if you haven't fuccked a chick, only take her on one or two dates. if she's not letting u making out aggressively with her by the second date(the latest), man, u need to stop hitting her up. she aint feeling u. i know women well. they dont fucck around when they finnd u attractive.

I wanted to expand on this a little more.
When it comes to dating women, I truly believe in the two date Maximum before I expect the woman to show some effort ( and it doesn't even need to be sex), it can be setting up and paying for the third date, cooking for you, something that shows she's taking initiative.

Some women think that men should be honored to take them out on dates, and that's where niccas fukk up. Continuing to throw money at taking a chick out hoping she will like you, meanwhile in her head she feels like she's putting equally the amount of work just by allowing you to be next to her :ufdup:

I had to learn how to stop that shyt, especially when it came to fine ass women. Now I will disappear on a chick after date #2 if she ain't making moves.
 

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Finally let her go.

I tried.

Chased her all summer to right my wrongs, got her back and it just wasnt the same. She still has anger over the cheating I did. Had a talk with her that I just need to let her be free. Need to let her come to a conclusion. Either she's over me or she's ready to try this shyt for real. Can't do the "space" or the "Be friends" shyt. Nope. Love her too much.

Letting her go brehs :to::to:

You know what they say... "if it's meant to be....." :to:

Was going to block her but Im just gonna go the ignore route.

We will see how it goes.

Gonna need yall brehs. Help me get thru this :myman:
 

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Finally let her go.

I tried.

Chased her all summer to right my wrongs, got her back and it just wasnt the same. She still has anger over the cheating I did. Had a talk with her that I just need to let her be free. Need to let her come to a conclusion. Either she's over me or she's ready to try this shyt for real. Can't do the "space" or the "Be friends" shyt. Nope. Love her too much.

Letting her go brehs :to::to:

You know what they say... "if it's meant to be....." :to:

Was going to block her but Im just gonna go the ignore route.

We will see how it goes.

Gonna need yall brehs. Help me get thru this :myman:

Warned you this would prob happen, just gotta hold your head high breh
 

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Warned you this would prob happen, just gotta hold your head high breh

Word you did. I had to try to make it right.

She knows I love her and I know she loves me.

Im moving on. Maybe our paths will cross. She'll probably still be in contact with my daughter so I dont know how that will go.

She just needs to be out here doing her. She had a taste of single life and I think she still wants it. She's young.

Her bday is sunday, gonna just put a card saying i love her in her mailbox and move on.

It's time for me to become what I'm destined to me. I'll let the universe handle this

But like I said ima need my brehs :snoop:
 

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fukk @NerdNash that sucks, got me in my feelings bout my situation. I didn't cheat we just kinda started arguing little and she started a new job. I been playing it cool tho. I know nothing guranteed but kinda working so far. Was gonna see maybe she wanted to chill this weekend after not seeing her in 2 weeks.
 

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fukk @NerdNash that sucks, got me in my feelings bout my situation. I didn't cheat we just kinda started arguing little and she started a new job. I been playing it cool tho. I know nothing guranteed but kinda working so far. Was gonna see maybe she wanted to chill this weekend after not seeing her in 2 weeks.


Just be careful. That's all i can say. If you have to wonder if she feeling you as much as you are feeling her....She's not.

Let her miss you. If it's real she will reach out. When a woman wants a man she will make it known breh.
 

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Just be careful. That's all i can say. If you have to wonder if she feeling you as much as you are feeling her....She's not.

Let her miss you. If it's real she will reach out. When a woman wants a man she will make it known breh.
This is my first break ever and I don't like it so I give it little more time and if she don't act right I'm moving on.
 

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Just focus on yourself. I know that's easier said than done tho.
I been reading the gem factory def some dope shyt that helps on there. Man I duno why you trippin I know you prob swim in industry, twitter and thot p*ssy lol. I guess when you meet someone whose different that matters more.
 

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I been reading the gem factory def some dope shyt that helps on there. Man I duno why you trippin I know you prob swim in industry, twitter and thot p*ssy lol. I guess when you meet someone whose different that matters more.

lol I aint swimming breh. dont get me wrong tho they def on deck :feedme:

but they dont know me and me and her have history. 7 years.
 

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Word you did. I had to try to make it right.

She knows I love her and I know she loves me.

Im moving on. Maybe our paths will cross. She'll probably still be in contact with my daughter so I dont know how that will go.

She just needs to be out here doing her. She had a taste of single life and I think she still wants it. She's young.

Her bday is sunday, gonna just put a card saying i love her in her mailbox and move on.

It's time for me to become what I'm destined to me. I'll let the universe handle this

But like I said ima need my brehs :snoop:

The quickest way for you to heal now is coming to the recognition that something wasn't working, which you just did. At least now that you know you can't keep playing the chasing game, your emotions will have time to settle. God bless.
 
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