Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Bro, that shyt has worked so many times. I get to spend less than 15 bucks...While getting to know her.
I feel she gonna flake

Excuses to expect, "sorry I slept in" or "sorry I was running late for a prior engagement"
 

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I just cut my main chick off for good....had to end it before things got too crazy & weird. The bytch was just acting too damn bizarre for me to not wanna continue whatever we had going on. This bytch has me so disgusted, that I'm feeling ill right now. I'm about to eat a turkey & cheese sammich to try to feel better
I'm tired of dealing with these psychotic ass bytches....:scust:
I always seem to attract them types for some reason :mjcry:
 

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If you ever have to ask, what are we, or is she really feeling me..or going through hoops then bushes.

Right now I'm sitting on a couch just finished eating breakfast my girl made me. Wanted to go to McDonalds and she's like :kony: I'll make breakfast for you,save your money.
 

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Learned a lot from this thread. One thing I learned is every situation is different so don't take word of strangers over your own instincts. Only you and girl you are talking too can ever really understand situation between two of you. I've taken bad advice from friends before like a bad sitcom episode when I knew I should of listened to my own instincts. Props to eceryone putting in work in this thread tho. C o l I we all we got:
 

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Im done with relationships and dating for atleast a year...and im really starting to think im not getting married
 

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Everything's going gravy with my girl so far but there are so many issues on the back of my mind thought I'd vent here(I usually find the answers myself after I speak them somewhere)

1. Her families track history is shyt. Her moms a thot that has 6 kids by about 2-4 men(never asked but apparently 2 of her brothers/sisters were had after her mom fcked a guy the first time raw so I'm guessing 2 baby daddies there and then her own father 3..and her now step dad;but I'm not sure if her mom has any kids by him). Her sister is in an abusive relationship with a guy, and she is about to have his child.

2. I realize a relationship could be perfect(in the guys mind @ least) and the girl still end up doing dodgy shyt because she's "bored" of how perfect the relationship is...but if that means starting fights with this chick then I pass(I like her because of how easily we get along)


Idk why I have this defensive barrier up...I just have that gut feeling that I'm fcked(which is usually right)....but there are 0 current signs of anything being wrong.


I've just read too many stories of guys getting fcked by females and seeing what happens to my buddies to let this feeling slide...FCK I wish I was ignorant of the games women play so I could just be happy and enjoy this girls time but its eating me inside waiting for her to FCK up so I can just bush her.



shyts rough for a young in :francis:




Edit: gave myself a answer I was satisfied with I feel very relieved at the moment, would still like to hear others opinions.(my answer to myself was if things go sour oh well, just enjoy the moment if things end their will be other girls;abundance mentality is such a big factor I think a lot of guys could benefit from knowing there will be other girls out there into them)
 
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Everything's going gravy with my girl so far but there are so many issues on the back of my mind thought I'd vent here(I usually find the answers myself after I speak them somewhere)

1. Her families track history is shyt. Her moms a thot that has 6 kids by about 2-4 men(never asked but apparently 2 of her brothers/sisters were had after her mom fcked a guy the first time raw so I'm guessing 2 baby daddies there and then her own father 3..and her now step dad;but I'm not sure if her mom has any kids by him). Her sister is in an abusive relationship with a guy, and she is about to have his child.

2. I realize a relationship could be perfect(in the guys mind @ least) and the girl still end up doing dodgy shyt because she's "bored" of how perfect the relationship is...but if that means starting fights with this chick then I pass(I like her because of how easily we get along)


Idk why I have this defensive barrier up...I just have that gut feeling that I'm fcked(which is usually right)....but there are 0 current signs of anything being wrong.


I've just read too many stories of guys getting fcked by females and seeing what happens to my buddies to let this feeling slide...FCK I wish I was ignorant of the games women play so I could just be happy and enjoy this girls time but its eating me inside waiting for her to FCK up so I can just bush her.



shyts rough for a young in :francis:




Edit: gave myself a answer I was satisfied with I feel very relieved at the moment, would still like to hear others opinions.(my answer to myself was if things go sour oh well, just enjoy the moment if things end their will be other girls;abundance mentality is such a big factor I think a lot of guys could benefit from knowing there will be other girls out there into them)


What do you mean gut feeling that you're fukked? You have to expand on that fam...

Do you think she's being shady, trying to trap u with a seed or something? Or just talking to other niccas? Please explain..

Otherwise you have to answer the question of why you're spidey sense is going off. I think if it's going off that it's clearly something bothering you, so you need to confront her about it otherwise it's going to come out in other ways i.e. how u interact with her etc.
 

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What do you mean gut feeling that you're fukked? You have to expand on that fam...

Do you think she's being shady, trying to trap u with a seed or something? Or just talking to other niccas? Please explain..

Otherwise you have to answer the question of why you're spidey sense is going off. I think if it's going off that it's clearly something bothering you, so you need to confront her about it otherwise it's going to come out in other ways i.e. how u interact with her etc.
Gut feeling in the sense she's going to do something to FCK "us" up by giving me a reason to have to cut her off.

Everything is gucci so far and I want to lower my guard and just enjoy being with this chick but then I feel as if I loosen up and get vulnerable this chick just gone do something goofy to hurt me(so the spidey sense is more of a defense mechanism telling me not to give her my "all" emotionally and putting myself in a situation that could potentially backfire )
 
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