Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Youseenmywork]

I had to like double back to find out what you were talking about. The trick to that Instagram thing is this. You're a decent looking girl with an iPhone, low cut tops, some makeup and some photo-editing apps. You mass follow people like 2000-3000 at a time. Naturally, they follow back. After like 2 weeks, you unfollow all those people so that your follower count will look way higher than those who you follow. You do this a few times and you get to 10k, 15k, 20k, 50k. The way you determine if this is the case is check the average amount of likes the girl gets on a picture vs how many people follow her. Her likes on a picture will not usually ever exceed even 3% of the follower count. I'm actually friends with a few of the girls you guys make threads about and know for a fact that this is how you reach that amount of followers. So when you encounter a girl like this, have this in the back of your mind. Perception isn't reality. That's why I don't participate in that foolery. The gram is not paying me.

That girl who you're texting is a regular girl with way too much time on her hands. Now, the effect remains the same. A false sense of importance. Whether you go out on the date with the girl or not, remember this. You're not just another guy in a line, because there isn't really a line. Social media commenters are just that- pump fakers. Your IG girl is a regular girl who fights over regular guys, like regular. Reggie. Trust me.

With that in mind, treat it as so. If she's being wishy washy, hit spin cycle. And if you actually do go out on that date, treat her like everybody else. Just don't make allowances you wouldn't make for any other girl.

See that is why I only have a instagram ( i like photoand I signed up for Twitter but havent used it yet. One of these days I'm break down how women or a group of 4...and it be one girl that be writing the text for the girls in that group. It be one girl that's be coming up with all the bs for the other women to text to men.

 

[Ohene]

I had to like double back to find out what you were talking about. The trick to that Instagram thing is this. You're a decent looking girl with an iPhone, low cut tops, some makeup and some photo-editing apps. You mass follow people like 2000-3000 at a time. Naturally, they follow back. After like 2 weeks, you unfollow all those people so that your follower count will look way higher than those who you follow. You do this a few times and you get to 10k, 15k, 20k, 50k. The way you determine if this is the case is check the average amount of likes the girl gets on a picture vs how many people follow her. Her likes on a picture will not usually ever exceed even 3% of the follower count. I'm actually friends with a few of the girls you guys make threads about and know for a fact that this is how you reach that amount of followers. So when you encounter a girl like this, have this in the back of your mind. Perception isn't reality. That's why I don't participate in that foolery. The gram is not paying me.

That girl who you're texting is a regular girl with way too much time on her hands. Now, the effect remains the same. A false sense of importance. Whether you go out on the date with the girl or not, remember this. You're not just another guy in a line, because there isn't really a line. Social media commenters are just that- pump fakers. Your IG girl is a regular girl who fights over regular guys, like regular. Reggie. Trust me.

With that in mind, treat it as so. If she's being wishy washy, hit spin cycle. And if you actually do go out on that date, treat her like everybody else. Just don't make allowances you wouldn't make for any other girl.

that was the plan...but homegirl. Went from for the most part answering messages promptly to going ghost when i am confirming where to meet me at so fukk it. number deleted

 

[TRUEST]

that was the plan...but homegirl. Went from for the most part answering messages promptly to going ghost when i am confirming where to meet me at so fukk it. number deleted

not sure how u handled this. but experience has taught me, next time u meet a chick u really like, set up a date (one that she agrees to), then stay away from texting or calling her till the day of the date. not gonna say anymore than that. but trust, it'll save u from putting ur foot in ur mouth.

in this day in age, guys like me who hate talking on the phone have text messages to thank for giving us a way out. text messaging is a commodity. use it sparingly and watch the weight of the few words u do type carry a significance equivalent to the weight of gold to these women.

 

[Ohene]

not sure how u handled this. but experience has taught me, next time u meet a chick u really like, set up a date (one that she agrees to), then stay away from texting or calling her till the day of the date. not gonna say anymore than that. but trust, it'll save u from putting ur foot in ur mouth.

in this day in age, guys like me who hate talking on the phone have text messages to thank for giving us a way out. text messaging is a commodity. use it sparingly and watch the weight of the few words u do type carry a significance equivalent to the weight of gold to these women.

Fam....that's EXACTLY WHAT I did lol except instead of messaging her the day of i messaged her yesterday.

 

[RealAssanova]

Fam....that's EXACTLY WHAT I did lol except instead of messaging her the day of i messaged her yesterday.

women are weird as fukk.

they give you their number, their address and agree to going out....but when u tell em what time u gonna be there, they go ghost.

told this bytch i was gonna link up with her last weekend. She agreed and told me where she lived. Called her (not texted) to tell her i was on my way and got no answer or text back.

thank god i never left my house and went to go kick with my nikka instead.

 

[Ohene]

women are weird as fukk.

they give you their number, their address and agree to going out....but when u tell em what time u gonna be there, they go ghost.

told this bytch i was gonna link up with her last weekend. She agreed and told me where she lived. Called her (not texted) to tell her i was on my way and got no answer or text back.

thank god i never left my house and went to go kick with my nikka instead.

I've come to expect it. I don't mind the rejection aspect of it either... My question is why not just reject me from the get go.

But whatever... I'll bag a new chick tomorrow

 

[RealAssanova]

I've come to expect it. I don't mind the rejection aspect of it either... My question is why not just reject me from the get go.

But whatever... I'll bag a new chick tomorrow

that's what i'm saying. Tell me you ain't interested or that you have a man....anything really. But don't give me your number and address and be down to kick it only to go ghost when i holla.

these new age hoes.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

It's like I'm always doing something wrong when I'm comes to women...

 

[MikelArteta]

I've come to expect it. I don't mind the rejection aspect of it either... My question is why not just reject me from the get go.

But whatever... I'll bag a new chick tomorrow

women like you in a state of confusion becaue in a state of confusion you give em the benefit of the doubt

 

[MikelArteta]

I am 18. And yeh I don't want a unstable girl no doubt.

good luck, dont settle breh, think of it like your first job etc. when your 16 working at burger king or mcdonalds, yeah you may have fun but odds are you ain't going to work there forever. SAME THING with women. I got engaged at 21 and I was just a young dumb idiot, And sorry to break it you but most young women just want to explore esp nowadays, they want to talk to 50 different dudes, and have a new bf every few months, and get ran through

 

[MikelArteta]

I was single for years and my life was far from lonely. Women find it hard to fathom that man can livr a great damn life without em.

Oh okay I figured you were between 19-21. Take your time dating around like I said, please stay away from girls into emotional instability because it'll turn you bitter then you'll find yourself 30+ on a website complaining about women being shyt and thots and #gmb, those guys live a lonely existence via hurt but they don't see it's them who's the cause of their torment because they let these women into their lives. Thankfully you're young and you can start on the right track but of course with life nothing is guaranteed and crap happens. Focus on college and join some clubs and I'm very sure you'll come across girls you're interested in and vice verse.

 

[PinotNoir]

I was single for years and my life was far from lonely. Women find it hard to fathom that man can livr a great damn life without em.

No Rein, that's not what I'm talking about. If you choose to be single that's on you...it's funny you say that because if men can live so great without women why spend so much time thinking about them, posting about them, how shady they can be, and so forth. Now that doesn't sound like someone having a great time. Now I'm not talking about you I'm just giving an example.

 

[MikelArteta]

No Rein, that's not what I'm talking about. If you choose to be single that's on you...it's funny you say that because if men can live so great without women why spend so much time thinking about them, posting about them, how shady they can be, and so forth. Now that doesn't sound like someone having a great time. Now I'm not talking about you I'm just giving an example.

because they are half of the population and you encounter them everywhere.

 

[Youseenmywork]

No Rein, that's not what I'm talking about. If you choose to be single that's on you...it's funny you say that because if men can live so great without women why spend so much time thinking about them, posting about them, how shady they can be, and so forth. Now that doesn't sound like someone having a great time. Now I'm not talking about you I'm just giving an example.

....correction sweetheart no matter what your always playing the game it's nature. I've met bitter men ....Men in the anger phase of the redpill etc. That anger and bitterness is apart of the game. The beauty in all this is some men realize there value while not dealing with women. That is the beauty in all this you realize that what you bring to the table NO women really cant compete....(if men have the confidence to continue to better themsleves)men HAVE to be intresting to get women and make this world go round but women will always have some form of inspiration on a man. It's just some time it can be negative. It not that men hate women or are bitter we just wish yall would be a little bit more responsible with power yall do have...and put in more work. By that I mean be creative when dealing with men. Ironically thoe I think it going to take men to respect their value more for women to get in line. So some men use women for whatever type of inspiration...it's still apart of the game. I know why yall personally inspire me I'm leave it at that .

 

[StarGirl]

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