Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So yesterday was my B-day and this chick I've been talking to kept bucking my head up for the last two weeks telling me we were goin to have fun. So I go to calling her and she put me straight to voice mail :francis:. Than she txt me at 1:30 in the morning telling me she hope I enjoyed my b-day

She's talkin to other dudes so cut her off. Ignore her. If she come back around u could still chill but only if u are the one dictating. I hope u didn't reply to her.
 

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Chick took me back then broke up with me because I would not let her see my phone that I pay for. She for real kick me out her house screamed at me never come back again. Then went bragging on twitter that she single ,while I just went home to play xbox. I bet then next few days she going to glam herself up to post thirst pics on twitter for more thirsty nikkas to jump in her DM.

I'm kinda mad because before that I just sat down in a chair the whole time watching tv before she demanded my phone. How fukking simple is that.

Coli you don't know how much I did to make this shyt work, first she told me she would not block this guys number who knows her since they was 5 who likes her stay calling her or txt her even tho she has a man and she told him that. (I should fukk ol boy up for doing that but his punk ass never came down to my state) But I let her talk to him cuz she told me it nothing they just friends ( Me giving her more trust like she wanted)
Second she told me she was cool with not having a snapchat she would just use mine which was going great for a month then all of sudden she want to reopen her account.( She had my account on her phone so she could see if anybody was sending me something/ yet when I ask her if she let me have her account info she say I don't trust her)
Third she rode home behind me stalked me with her sister till I got home one night, but yet got in a fight that lasted 3 days over me asking her to turn her Iphone location on. (which lets me see where she at since she always with her phone) This has never been problem in the past she was always cool with having it on before we broke up the first time.

I don't feel mad or sad or happy ATM , I feel like I'm just existing but that has nothing to do with her.

Kinda was rant just had to tell somebody about this bullshyt I deal with.

if u can get in a state of mind where nothing a girl does affects u, my dude, u will have these girls eating out the palm of ur hands.

that scenario of her kicking you out the house woulda been a total mind fukk if u didn't even argue with her.

her: let me see ur phone
you: wtf is wrong with you? for what?
her: **starts screaming. u must be doing some shady sh1t fukk u get the fucck out my house**
you: ** you gently get up, pack ur sh1t and walk out, without looking at her or saying a word**
her: ***she texts u all kinds of insults***
you: **dont respond**
her: **calls you and texts u to pick up the phone u punk ass b1tch**
you: **you dont respond**

days later

her: hi how are you?

:laugh:
 

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just goes to show you that the average hoe got 5 guys in rotation, few for smashing and the rest for free dinner and shyt.
Duh. Like you hoes got chicks (they may not be quality) that you use for sex, then some you actually like. Personally, I know alot of women who just want to sex some guys, but actually like others. nikkas might not like it, but oh well.

Some nikkas you just fck and thats cuz you horny. Some dudes you dnt fck right away cuz you care about what ol boy think of you and you like him. Like I said..wont make sense to nikkas but yall hooting how you hate hoes but chase chicks thats easy p*ssy dont make sense to us.
 

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I swear this girl is giving me the easiest layup to smash that I can recall. All I would have to do is just act on it...but I'm being scary af for some reason :sadcam:

This chick might literally have to come after me if anything is going to end up happening :mjlol:











































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So yesterday was my B-day and this chick I've been talking to kept bucking my head up for the last two weeks telling me we were goin to have fun. So I go to calling her and she put me straight to voice mail :francis:. Than she txt me at 1:30 in the morning telling me she hope I enjoyed my b-day
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Duh. Like you hoes got chicks (they may not be quality) that you use for sex, then some you actually like. Personally, I know alot of women who just want to sex some guys, but actually like others. nikkas might not like it, but oh well.

Some nikkas you just fck and thats cuz you horny. Some dudes you dnt fck right away cuz you care about what ol boy think of you and you like him. Like I said..wont make sense to nikkas but yall hooting how you hate hoes but chase chicks thats easy p*ssy dont make sense to us.



I don't chase women that's number one. I have better things to do with my time. I believe once men UNDERSTAND the ...real value of a man that's stop a lot of the thirst or giving women who don't deserve your time and be a bit more selective. Men have to realize that all the charm ....the intellectual conversations...being funny all that IS a man's vagina MEN'S sex is cheap. Most men have work 5 to 10 yrs or more on there personality. Women just have to show up and breath. Men have TO start making women bring more to the table than just looking good and a vagina ....a lot of this IS the thirsty nikkas fault. In my mind women don't have "HOES" but whatever.
 
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I don't chase women that's number one. I have better things to do with my time. I believe once men UNDERSTAND the ...real value of a man that's stop a lot of the thirst or giving women who don't deserve your time and be a bit more selective. Men have to realize that all the charm ....the intellectual conversations...being funny all that IS a man's vagina MEN'S sex is cheap. Most men have work 5 to 10 yrs or more on there personality. Women just have to show up and breath. Men have TO start making women bring more to the table than just looking good and a vagina ....a lot of this IS the thirsty nikkas fault. In my mind women don't have "HOES" but whatever.

Thank you. I've BEEN saying this.

Men who devote so much time to chasing women simply don't have shyt to do.

There's a dude on FB I'm friends with by the name of Cory Favier who drops mad gems every day from business, health, spirituality, politics, mental devlopment etc and not once does he ever post shyt about chasing broads. I just bought his book on kindle that I'm going to start reading soon.

I'm working on reaching certain goals by the time I'm 40 and even then I'm not where I feel I should be. After coming back from Florida on Sunday (first time in the states since 2001) I'm already studying two courses, one of which I'm hoping to take the exam on Saturday, as well as starting a new job next week and changing my diet and other things. If a broad can't be a complement in anyway, then it's bushes. The only person I'm performing all these circus tricks for at this stage in my life is myself. I'm not getting any younger.
 

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I don't chase women that's number one. I have better things to do with my time. I believe once men UNDERSTAND the ...real value of a man that's stop a lot of the thirst or giving women who don't deserve your time and be a bit more selective. Men have to realize that all the charm ....the intellectual conversations...being funny all that IS a man's vagina MEN'S sex is cheap. Most men have work 5 to 10 yrs or more on there personality. Women just have to show up and breath. Men have TO start making women bring more to the table than just looking good and a vagina ....a lot of this IS the thirsty nikkas fault. In my mind women don't have "HOES" but whatever.
What do we have..thirsty nikkas?

I agree tho. I tried to tell my lil cousin who got a girl pregnant that his studies were more important than sex/girls because p*ssy can easily ruin your life but I think a nikka gotta hear that from another man they respect..not a woman even tho we're the ones with the inside look.
 

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What do we have..thirsty nikkas?

I agree tho. I tried to tell my lil cousin who got a girl pregnant that his studies were more important than sex/girls because p*ssy can easily ruin your life but I think a nikka gotta hear that from another man they respect..not a woman even tho we're the ones with the inside look.

what you need to do is paint him a picture of what life would be like if he doesn't focus on his studies and making money.

i hate when people say plain sh1t like "go to school. get ur education". but education in what mutherfuccker?

what u need to be saying to ur cousin is:

"this can ruin ur life. u'll be on child support for the next 18 years and ur hardearned money will be forcibly taken from ur paycheck every pay period to give to that woman who has your child. and chances are pretty good she wont even spend that money on the child. she'll spend it on some other n1gga and her self"

that right there is enough to make any self respecting man lividly cautious.

u need to paint a good picture of what the alternate life will be for those who fail to reason. all that, do this or do that, without givng a good enough reason is really senseless.
 

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what you need to do is paint him a picture of what life would be like if he doesn't focus on his studies and making money.

i hate when people say plain sh1t like "go to school. get ur education". but education in what mutherfuccker?

what u need to be saying to ur cousin is:

"this can ruin ur life. u'll be on child support for the next 18 years and ur hardearned money will be forcibly taken from ur paycheck every pay period to give to that woman who has your child. and chances are pretty good she wont even spend that money on the child. she'll spend it on some other n1gga and her self"

that right there is enough to make any self respecting man lividly cautious.

u need to paint a good picture of what the alternate life will be for those who fail to reason. all that, do this or do that, without givng a good enough reason is really senseless.
That nikka is an 18 year old male. Hes bigger and taller than me. I told him how me and his own sister used to play nikkas but nikkas don't take advice from females. If he had his dad, it'd be better but all he has is his sleazy older bro whos a pimp and a knock off hustler. Hes the closest in age to me so we were close but now hes a p*ssy fiend adult. Hate to see cat ruin his life. I just dont have the authority.
 

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Thank you. I've BEEN saying this.

Men who devote so much time to chasing women simply don't have shyt to do.

There's a dude on FB I'm friends with by the name of Cory Favier who drops mad gems every day from business, health, spirituality, politics, mental devlopment etc and not once does he ever post shyt about chasing broads. I just bought his book on kindle that I'm going to start reading soon.

I'm working on reaching certain goals by the time I'm 40 and even then I'm not where I feel I should be. After coming back from Florida on Sunday (first time in the states since 2001) I'm already studying two courses, one of which I'm hoping to take the exam on Saturday, as well as starting a new job next week and changing my diet and other things. If a broad can't be a complement in anyway, then it's bushes. The only person I'm performing all these circus tricks for at this stage in my life is myself. I'm not getting any younger.

I find that a man should always be focused on something else other than women. Why? Because when you invest in other areas of your life, it actually brings a return on time spent. With a woman, she's free to up and leave at any time and you never know when, and all of the gain from the effort you expended on her will be gone. I say to deal with a woman, enjoy her company, but never build your life around her and never get caught slipping if she ups and decides to leave, which most of them will do in this day and age.
 

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I don't chase women that's number one. I have better things to do with my time. I believe once men UNDERSTAND the ...real value of a man that's stop a lot of the thirst or giving women who don't deserve your time and be a bit more selective. Men have to realize that all the charm ....the intellectual conversations...being funny all that IS a man's vagina MEN'S sex is cheap. Most men have work 5 to 10 yrs or more on there personality. Women just have to show up and breath. Men have TO start making women bring more to the table than just looking good and a vagina ....a lot of this IS the thirsty nikkas fault. In my mind women don't have "HOES" but whatever.


Yep, like it or not, the majority of the fault is on men. Men demand, and hence receive nothing from women. In life you will only get what you demand, and if you perceive your own value so low as to not ask for anything, then, in most cases, no one will pay more than your asking price... which, for most men, is unbelievably low.
 
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