Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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DaRealness said:
I don't know how this ended up on my recommended list when I rarely even watch these types of videos anymore lol. Straight from the horse's mouth:

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...lol this nikka found a gem on the low :lolbron:. One of the few good videos on intergender relationships.

On another note is that luther in your avi breh?:jbhmm:
 
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Youseenmywork said:


Joe budden telling the truth I like it

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I don't even like him but what he's saying is some truth here. The funny thing is a lot of people will claim that he's using some reverse psychology or claim the dude is gay, when in actuality there are men who are in perfect control of their dikks and know how to be selective in who they fukk. It's the ones like the simps and those who would fukk anything with a pulse that have ruined it for the rest.

I remember there was a thread asking the question why do women lose it whenever their man refuses sex and somebody said something that was really on point: it's more than just the fact they've been turned down for sex which men experience all the time anyway....it's mainly because they come to the realisation that they can't control a dude with their p*ssy. That's really the main ether above anything else. This is why a lot of men who have self control get shamed by some females and cheating on the woman's part is usually excused or justified by society. I don't respect any dude who doesn't have discipline or self control because it's part of the reason why we have so many b*stard children and STDs and breakdowns in our community. Sex can create both life and destruction but most don't take this seriously.
 
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is it a new phenomenon that women just reply to texts with one word answers now, something very arrogant about that im not texting back :camby:
 
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StarGirl said:
Sorry I got back to you so late, but I've thought about it and tried to figure out what to tell you. I was at a really bad point very recently as well, so obviously I'm trying to make sure you hear the things you need to hear. The stuff is just stuff. As someone who spends a lot on material items, I understand the slight frustration, but like you said- they can be replaced and truthfully material items don't mean anything at all.

In terms of your relationship, I think it's important now not to canonize her. I know you said she wasn't a saint, but if you actually remind yourself that she is a human being that you didn't come into life with, it will help you immensely. Things I would suggest is to immediately stop checking her social media, remove her from any favorites on your phone, anything that will make her visible to you- for now. I'll explain. I have never been cheated on. Never ever. And as such I can't tell you exactly how she feels. But I do know that us women have a really forgiving nature- at least when we're in touch with our nature. It's why there's a lot of things we can't see in this world and I feel like you're not going to understand what I mean here, but just know the same way we defy logic in other ways, we operate on the heart and that's going to be the saving grace in this situation.

Her telling you not to contact her is the defense shield your infidelity has caused. Logic is telling her to have you stay away from her. Emotion is why she wrecked your stuff. Honestly, that's a good sign for you. Because that kind of response is a purely emotional one, which bodes better for you than if she just walked out. Take that as a sign that this isn't the last time you'll be speaking to her. But, the best thing at this time is No Contact. Give it some weeks, so that when you actually do reach out to her, she'll be curious as to what it is you want to say. Because in this situation, the dust will have settled and she will now likely want to know why you did what you did. Until then, find other things to busy yourself with. Just remember to remove anything that reminds you of her from your vision, and make sure when you do contact her, you make it count. If she loves you, honestly loves you, the least she'll do is hear you out.

And remember, we're human and we do the best we can. We're flawed, but we do try. And that in itself is worth reminding yourself of. Don't beat yourself up too much about it.

I hope you found even a bit of my long winded essay useful.
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Thank you for the long winded essay. I'm definitely doing the no contact thing but I do have a bad habit of looking at her social media and not keeping myself busy.
 
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