Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[StarGirl]

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[fkthisgaysite]

Italicized- Yeah, that's exactly why. Truth be told, she's immature- and still immature if she didn't just speak. Also I didn't even know that was a thing- like you could see the day the nudes were taken . She's not worth it and it's ridiculous that she played those games and still wants to play those games. Some people just feed off drama, you stop enabling it and they find somewhere else to get their fix. Don't waste anymore time on her. The fact that you don't have social media is also a major factor and so her only way of getting attention was that little show. Obviously it didn't work. Expect to hear back from her soon when she realized her attempt failed.

Bolded- Yeah it usually happens that way. We're in the era of the 'bad bytch', and everyone thinks they're one. Which is why I thought she must've been attractive to have the balls to pull something like that and think it was gonna work. But nope, the average girls have the most confidence it seems.

Yup. As long as the photos were taken on an iPhone, your phone will give you that info. Also, if you're interested, Google "Exif Data" -- tells you everything you need to know about a photo.

Anyway, trust me, if any time were to be wasted on her it would have happened the instant I saw those photos.

She is indeed very immature and it's frustrating. Again, if you have something to say to me then say it. What's the point in all these little games? I swear she messages me when her relationships aren't going her way, thinking I'm going to cape. I used to be there for her out of general kindness but a nikka gets tired of the bullshyt.

She really should stop because it's getting to the point where I want to knock her down a couple knotches but I'ma chill and continue to focus on myself instead of someone who doesn't even fukking live here. Lol

I'm expecting one of two things: either a long ass bullshyt text about how much she misses me/blahblahblah or to never hear from her again because honestly wtf do you say to someone who didn't reply to "the best" feature of your body? (her thinking -- not mine)

Well, this era sucks. The attitude some of these broads have is so annoying. If you have nothing else to offer me aside from flesh, get out of my face.

I appreciate the replies. I put a little
more effort into this situation than I wanted but at least my wondering/curious mind can chill.

 

[StarGirl]

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[fkthisgaysite]

That's just bad manners to send someone old/recycled nudes. But I know I've waited a day or two to drop some piff and that Exif Data thing is looking real scary.

Yeah, but you're thinking from a logical perspective. She probably thought, well clearly it'll work because IDK girls think guys are ruled by their d*** I don't know what to tell you. Because sometimes they are. It just didn't work this time. And yes, you should definitely expect the text. Part of me would want to delete your number and act like I never had my text ignored, but the other part would be like why didn't it work and attack it from that other angle i.e. I miss you. And that second part would outweigh the first because I'm gonna seek to restore my ego.

And no it's fine. You intuitively knew what was going on before I even said anything. Which means you're a lot wiser than you were before when you were both playing the games. You gained the upper hand in the situation by refusing to play, and I learned a lesson- that it's not always physical control.

Although I agree, I'm not even worried about it. Just glad that isn't my daughter passing shyt around.

Exif Data is nothing to be afraid of. It's a tool for photography, it literally just gives you every detail you'd ever need on a photo -- most of which is only useful if you're a photographer. It isn't "hacking" or anything. The worst that can happen is someone finding out about you having nudes on deck.

Anyway, a lot dudes definitely think that way but there's some who don't. My head is set on things thay interest me and cater to my happiness without the help of another person, if that makes sense. So it's easy to not care about shyt like this.

It's cool that you took something from this tbh. I appreciate the kind words but it really isn't about having the upperhand or some type of "power". If I cared about something so petty, that would put me on her level. She wants me to be sad and upset over her, while I simply want her to be happy and fine. Tbh, I have a certain level of appreciation for her as she taught me a lot of shyt. I know exactly what I want and don't want out of a woman because of her. Not to mention so much more that I don't have the patience to type on this dumb ass phone.

I was genuinely confused on what the fukk was going on in her head but you helped clear that up.

 

[EffYou]

Big problem:

Me and chick finally getting it on but as soon as I try to enter she's in a lot of pain bruhs(virgin girl BTW)....idk what to do she was pretty wet down there and we tried multiple times. I plan on buying lubricant and trying again hopefully next time goes a lot smoother she's a cool chick but if we can't FCK then.......

 

[Turk]

A girl's booty don't even gotta be necessarily big for me to find it attractive. This petite girl really doesn't have much of it...but that nice bubble makes me every time i see her

 

[Krazy]

Why do chicks think they can just demand calls at like midnight?
A nikka tryna sleep and you getting all pissy because I aint tryna call you tonight
Wanted a call? Should've told me earlier on!!

But maybe I should've on she was supposed to come round today

Edit: She pissed, do I apologise or keep it a g say shyt happens baby

 

[DJSmooth]

Big problem:

Me and chick finally getting it on but as soon as I try to enter she's in a lot of pain bruhs(virgin girl BTW)....idk what to do she was pretty wet down there and we tried multiple times. I plan on buying lubricant and trying again hopefully next time goes a lot smoother she's a cool chick but if we can't FCK then.......

That is why I don't mess with virgins. shyt is over hyped.

I broke one girl in once. It is easier to start with one finger, then two, then once you can fit 3 in her you can try to stick it in.

 

[twan83]

Big problem:

Me and chick finally getting it on but as soon as I try to enter she's in a lot of pain bruhs(virgin girl BTW)....idk what to do she was pretty wet down there and we tried multiple times. I plan on buying lubricant and trying again hopefully next time goes a lot smoother she's a cool chick but if we can't FCK then.......

u should gently figure her but most important u need to relax dont matter how wet she is if she aint relax she gonna be real tense and tight down there too but anyways u should start with 1 finger then 2 and sometimes u can even go as far as 3 as the one poster said

also no homo if ur big u cant just shove ur shyt in her take ur time gently go inside her and u probably cant fit it all in their if ur big to be honest gotta be smart bout it

once ur inside dont go all jackhammer u gotta be like making love to her but not doing it. what i mean is by take ur time slow strokes till she gets use to it and the pain stops once it does u should ask her if she is ok to be honest u should talk to her often thru it too make sure she is ok it may sound like a pain but it lets her know ur being considerate and it will relax now if she dont want u too talk to her then thats fine proceed to slow stroke and when she gives u the thumbs up u can speed it up and u can officially to start truly breaking her in and off

Why do chicks think they can just demand calls at like midnight?
A nikka tryna sleep and you getting all pissy because I aint tryna call you tonight
Wanted a call? Should've told me earlier on!!

But maybe I should've on she was supposed to come round today

Edit: She pissed, do I apologise or keep it a g say shyt happens baby

honestly if I'm tired and sleep and i dont answer and she get mad thats on her not my problem i be like i was sleep sorry and if she wanna start a damn fight she not even worth my damn time
now if she was suppose to come thru yea u should apologize otherwise keep it moving forward and dont apologize and tell her straight u were tired or sleep simple as that dont tolerate that extra shyt

 

[twan83]

That is why I don't mess with virgins. shyt is over hyped.

I broke one girl in once. It is easier to start with one finger, then two, then once you can fit 3 in her you can try to stick it in.

not all virgins are bad tho believe me when i tell u but i can see why some dont tho it can be a pain if u dont have the patience to deal with it

 

[Jaw-Breaka]

Just fukked my old best friends little sister
She's 19, cute little Darkskin girl

Nutted all up in the p*ssy

Twice

She wanna hang out again tomorrow

Im Tryna get her pregnant so i can pay his ass back for getting with my ex when he knew i wouldn't be cool with that

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Looking at the text convos between my girl and I from when we first met to know and wow the switched dynamic is amazing....I was texting her less and far in between then and she was more into the convos hitting me up out of the blue and replying as soon as I would text. Now the roles seemed to have reversed looking at our updated texting....how in the world? I have to find a way to bring back that initial "thing" that drew her to me and really made her want me.....


Ideas/thoughts?

My only thought is if she ain't seeking attention from u anymore that could be a sign that she is from someone else so you need to find out what's going on soon. shyt happens, these broads get bored but its usually them broads who have no real life/hobbies of their own. Never trust a chick who ain't got female friends and ways to spend time away from a man.

 

[Alfred0Santana]

Just fukked my old best friends little sister
She's 19, cute little Darkskin girl

Nutted all up in the p*ssy

Twice

She wanna hang out again tomorrow

Im Tryna get her pregnant so i can pay his ass back for getting with my ex when he knew i wouldn't be cool with that

Savage

 

[DaRealness]

Im Tryna get her pregnant so i can pay his ass back for getting with my ex when he knew i wouldn't be cool with that

 

[The M.I.C.]

I would have made a thread but I did not want to be accused of attention whoring.

can some of the men give me an honest answer to this scenario:

I've been crushing on this guy that I know for like about 3 or 4 years. I never approached him and told him about it but out of the blue a month and a half ago he offered to take me on a date. It was alright . He was very Much so my type and he has a great personality.

He called me the next day to make plans for our next date. He so called injured himself playing basketball and cancelled.

He hit me up 3 days later wanting to chill at his crib

I agreed to it we never got up tho.

I hit him but no response so I took the L. He hit me today out the blue

Does it mean he was feeling someone more around the time and put me on the back burner or maybe he was going thru some shyt and didn't have the time for me ?

I need answers!!!

Hello,

From your post and his actions, it seems as though you're playing the role of back up.

We, men, will either develop multiple options in regards to pursuing relationships or intentionally make themselves scarce to provoke a reaction (such as yours) from women. You either have to be upfront and ask what's going on (as the amount of no shows is unacceptable) or just leave him alone.