Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CASHAPP]

You see little girl cousins and sisters around 8 or 9 years already showing signs of being overly dependant and acting like little 4 year olds and showing early signs of the spoiled attitude.....

9 years old and never washing dishes in your life



And I seriously think its a female thing. These women need to start being raised better. But it is true that even those raised well, just turned spoiled and become far too materialistic than what they were taught.

I got this girl in my lab class who gets angry at this other guy for each lab because after we get signed out by the professor and work on the rest of the lab report the following days(we never are able to finish because the lab sessions are very short)....

anyway since the semester started, for each lab she has gotten mad at him because he does not email or answer her texts about the certain diagrams, or charts needed and calls him "selfish" or curses him out.......

When in all actuality he could either be sincerely busy or he doesn't get it.

But I guarantee god forbid if a guy did that to her, she would call them lazy or being too thirsty and not giving her space

Another note to add, when I bring up 9 year old girls people may predictably say that they are just little kids and it shouldn't be a big deal. I'm not asking for them to be rocket scientists.....

But at least do things that wouldn't show your a drama queen who is too spoiled. It's great to be a black girl growing up with two parents and not a stereotypical single parent home. But in the case of my sister, its like her father caused her to get this way and yeah some people may say I am overexagerrating but I am honestly worried about what will happen when she gets older.

Imagine having tons of Nintendo DS games bought for you over the past 3 years(obviously im too old for that lol) and still finding the time to whine and complain.

This may seem like a double standard or sexist but I don't think its as BIG a deal when its a little boy acts dramatic. Hopefully kevm3 understands what I am saying.........With a boy All you do is sort him out quick and he can make a complete 360.

But with girls its like if they are acting like this now, then it gives signs of how they are gonna act in the future. What I am using as examples is just the "little things" but the little things are an indicator also. Remember these women were all little once too....That's why I am also bringing up examples of young girls.

I still cannot get over this bullshyt, being 9 years old and continuing to put dishes into a sink and never ONCE washing them.....



Replacing the "daddy'" whose arms you run into to get away from trouble with mommy when your a little girl.......with a simp boyfriend in your late teens and early 20s(heck the rest of your life)......after "daddy" gets tired of your narcissim.

It really is disgusting how this ends up happening. If I ever do have kids, I am just hoping it is a boy. But if I have a girl I am gonna make sure to give a right balance(not too strict and not too nice) and raise her well without being like all these other fathers that spoil her and give this "Daddy's little girl" bullshyt mindset that is the reason why so many women today act like their shyt don't stink and take glee in "playing games".....because they were taught they can get away with it.

 

[MikelArteta]

Im starting to think this chick has a bf...
• she never spends the night
• never invites me to her place
• never has her phone on her around me

a bf or kids

yyour just a friend or a friend with benefits

 

[Nintendough]

@ this cashier chick who likes me asking me straight up if I have seeds just because I picked some diapers up for somebody. She proceded to go in for the win once I told her I didn't have any. These thirst buckets man, do your job.

 

[Fatboi1]

I aint trying to get killed over some puzzy breh

I know what you mean I'm just saying I don't like coming across needy or thirsty by asking if she got a BF. Some chicks say yea and they don't be having one.

 

[Jesus]

Should your friend's ex girlfriend have any contact with you at all?

My best friend's ex is wanting to hang with my and another friend while she is in the country for the moment. I did know her before they dated...and she did try to fukk me before they were together never during. I never told him though...doesn't matter I supposed.

My best friend and my other friend are acting like nothing is awkward about this...I think homeboy is fronting. shyt seems disrespectful to me.

 

[MikelArteta]

Should your friend's ex girlfriend have any contact with you at all?

My best friend's ex is wanting to hang with my and another friend while she is in the country for the moment. I did know her before they dated...and she did try to fukk me before they were together never during. I never told him though...doesn't matter I supposed.

My best friend and my other friend are acting like nothing is awkward about this...I think homeboy is fronting. shyt seems disrespectful to me.

nope they do that to fish for your information on their ex, dont do it. im respectful, when i had fb and my friends girls added htem once they broke up i deleted.

 

[CASHAPP]

nope they do that to fish for your information on their ex, dont do it. im respectful, when i had fb and my friends girls added htem once they broke up i deleted.

Speaking about simps again, on Jazmine Cashmere's twitter page hours ago she put up some tweet about how she needs "Netflix" right now when she knows that anyone can get a 30 day free trial.

Of course a couple simps flocked and this one guy said he was not able to now because he was stationed in Afghanistan....


Kevin Baking‏@TheBakerzMan

@JazmineCashmere ill DM you my login boo no worries

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7hSquaresOut MyCircle‏@Mr_WestSide864

@JazmineCashmere you can use my account while im in Afghanistan... netflix isnt available in this area of the world lol

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7hNO CHAINZ‏@TEALHARRIGAN

@JazmineCashmere BORROW SOMEBODY PASSWORD

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6hJoseph‏@supremejoseph

@JazmineCashmere can you share one of them account info with me they might as well give up the credit card info too lol.

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27mNicholas‏@LegendJJporn

@JazmineCashmere You know you can sign up for a 30 day free trial right?




^The guy above who said he would send his login info to her she actually retweeted and thanked him that she now has Netflix thanks to_______username

As a man I would be embarrasssed to do something like that. I mean I jerk off to that hoe lol but don't ever simp like that ESPECIALLy to a pornstar even if Jazmine is retired.

I mean how does that guy feel about himself. Have some self respect.

She knew what she was doing when she put up that tweet. Its because of guys like that, that we have narcissistic women like that. And please no one respond saying that Jazmine is "cool" and isn't cocky like the other ones. Not everyone is blatanty narcissistic like an Ice La Fox

Some hide it better what they are doing.

But this guy that actually used his login info to give to a pornstar who could care less about him and will never meet him or do favors for HIM ......




^that is all i can say.

complete embarrassment

Nicholas‏@LegendJJporn

@JazmineCashmere @TheBakerzMan Damn!!!!! I was beaten with the simping by mere hours...so close....

 

[MikelArteta]

Speaking about simps again, on Jazmine Cashmere's twitter page hours ago she put up some tweet about how she needs "Netflix" right now when she knows that anyone can get a 30 day free trial.

Of course a couple simps flocked and this one guy said he was not able to now because he was stationed in Afghanistan....


Kevin Baking‏@TheBakerzMan

@JazmineCashmere ill DM you my login boo no worries

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Retweet

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7hSquaresOut MyCircle‏@Mr_WestSide864

@JazmineCashmere you can use my account while im in Afghanistan... netflix isnt available in this area of the world lol

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7hNO CHAINZ‏@TEALHARRIGAN

@JazmineCashmere BORROW SOMEBODY PASSWORD

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6hJoseph‏@supremejoseph

@JazmineCashmere can you share one of them account info with me they might as well give up the credit card info too lol.

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27mNicholas‏@LegendJJporn

@JazmineCashmere You know you can sign up for a 30 day free trial right?




^The guy above who said he would send his login info to her she actually retweeted and thanked him that she now has Netflix thanks to_______username

As a man I would be embarrasssed to do something like that. I mean I jerk off to that hoe lol but don't ever simp like that ESPECIALLy to a pornstar even if Jazmine is retired.

I mean how does that guy feel about himself. Have some self respect.

She knew what she was doing when she put up that tweet. Its because of guys like that, that we have narcissistic women like that. And please no one respond saying that Jazmine is "cool" and isn't cocky like the other ones. Not everyone is blatanty narcissistic like an Ice La Fox

Some hide it better what they are doing.

But this guy that actually used his login info to give to a pornstar who could care less about him and will never meet him or do favors for HIM ......




^that is all i can say.

complete embarrassment

Nicholas‏@LegendJJporn

@JazmineCashmere @TheBakerzMan Damn!!!!! I was beaten with the simping by mere hours...so close....

simps gon simp

these guys arent even being "nice", if it was some ugly hag who wanted it they would be like no but because its some dirty ass trollup they are like here. chick cant afford 7.99 a month?

so pathetic, its no difference than the chicks who write "im bored" on fb and 10 simps are ready to ask her out for dinner etc.

 

[Malta]

Speaking about simps again, on Jazmine Cashmere's twitter page hours ago she put up some tweet about how she needs "Netflix" right now when she knows that anyone can get a 30 day free trial.

Of course a couple simps flocked and this one guy said he was not able to now because he was stationed in Afghanistan....


Kevin Baking‏@TheBakerzMan

@JazmineCashmere ill DM you my login boo no worries

Expand Reply
Retweet

Favorite





7hSquaresOut MyCircle‏@Mr_WestSide864

@JazmineCashmere you can use my account while im in Afghanistan... netflix isnt available in this area of the world lol

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7hNO CHAINZ‏@TEALHARRIGAN

@JazmineCashmere BORROW SOMEBODY PASSWORD

Expand








6hJoseph‏@supremejoseph

@JazmineCashmere can you share one of them account info with me they might as well give up the credit card info too lol.

Expand








27mNicholas‏@LegendJJporn

@JazmineCashmere You know you can sign up for a 30 day free trial right?




^The guy above who said he would send his login info to her she actually retweeted and thanked him that she now has Netflix thanks to_______username

As a man I would be embarrasssed to do something like that. I mean I jerk off to that hoe lol but don't ever simp like that ESPECIALLy to a pornstar even if Jazmine is retired.

I mean how does that guy feel about himself. Have some self respect.

She knew what she was doing when she put up that tweet. Its because of guys like that, that we have narcissistic women like that. And please no one respond saying that Jazmine is "cool" and isn't cocky like the other ones. Not everyone is blatanty narcissistic like an Ice La Fox

Some hide it better what they are doing.

But this guy that actually used his login info to give to a pornstar who could care less about him and will never meet him or do favors for HIM ......




^that is all i can say.

complete embarrassment

Nicholas‏@LegendJJporn

@JazmineCashmere @TheBakerzMan Damn!!!!! I was beaten with the simping by mere hours...so close....

That is pathetic on many levels.

 

[kevm3]

Another note to add, when I bring up 9 year old girls people may predictably say that they are just little kids and it shouldn't be a big deal. I'm not asking for them to be rocket scientists.....

But at least do things that wouldn't show your a drama queen who is too spoiled. It's great to be a black girl growing up with two parents and not a stereotypical single parent home. But in the case of my sister, its like her father caused her to get this way and yeah some people may say I am overexagerrating but I am honestly worried about what will happen when she gets older.

Imagine having tons of Nintendo DS games bought for you over the past 3 years(obviously im too old for that lol) and still finding the time to whine and complain.

This may seem like a double standard or sexist but I don't think its as BIG a deal when its a little boy acts dramatic. Hopefully kevm3 understands what I am saying.........With a boy All you do is sort him out quick and he can make a complete 360.

But with girls its like if they are acting like this now, then it gives signs of how they are gonna act in the future. What I am using as examples is just the "little things" but the little things are an indicator also. Remember these women were all little once too....That's why I am also bringing up examples of young girls.

I still cannot get over this bullshyt, being 9 years old and continuing to put dishes into a sink and never ONCE washing them.....



Replacing the "daddy'" whose arms you run into to get away from trouble with mommy when your a little girl.......with a simp boyfriend in your late teens and early 20s(heck the rest of your life)......after "daddy" gets tired of your narcissim.

It really is disgusting how this ends up happening. If I ever do have kids, I am just hoping it is a boy. But if I have a girl I am gonna make sure to give a right balance(not too strict and not too nice) and raise her well without being like all these other fathers that spoil her and give this "Daddy's little girl" bullshyt mindset that is the reason why so many women today act like their shyt don't stink and take glee in "playing games".....because they were taught they can get away with it.

I understand where you are coming from. The problem a lot of these women have is that no one ever checks them on their behavior, they are always catered to, and in a lot of cases their bad behavior is actually justified. The cute to the very pretty ones experience this the most, since simps don't apply standards fairly. They will treat a pretty woman way better than an average one.

I actually blame simps for a lot of this behavior. THis happened way back in middle school and I still remember this. I asked some guy for a pencil since I didn't have one but he told me he didn't have one but later a girl asked him for one and he produced it immediately. So ultimately, I can see why women don't really respect simps since they have no kind of standards of even treatment. They will treat a women they are after like absolute gold. If she turns him down, his behavior completely shifts into a bitter, passive-aggression... and this simp won't treat a girl he isn't attracted to with nearly the same respect.

Women are just like men in that they don't want to deal with members of the opposite sex who allow themselves to be degraded. A man will look at a woman who is hoing it up as crazy or who will let the man do degrading sexual acts to her even if she is trying to please him. Women have the same mentality. If they see they can manipulate you and you ahve no sort of standards in how you demand to be treated, they will look at you as someone who degrades themself and not worthy of being with.

Back to the subject, it's that daddy's little princess, momma 'oohing and ahhing', and saying things like that's so cute' when these little girls demonstrate that attitude is the reason a lot of these women grow up with these halfway insane, bi-polar type attitudes. Just look at what happen to a lot of rich kids who never really had supervision because daddy and mommy are working all the time and their parents always bailed them out of trouble instead of disciplining them. Their attitudes turned out to be rotten.

When these girls don't get her way, they may get to flailing and pouting and daddy feels so sorry for her and gives her whatever she wants. That right there is one example in her mind of manipulation tactics being rewarded and she will continue to use this same thing as she gets older. She wants something, she just has to sweet talk dad. The mom might try to discipline her, but the dad might step in and say don't hurt my little princess. I don't know if you remember, but there was that case of that judge in Texas who spanked his daugther for getting on the computer when he told her not to. The spanking wasn't even that bad, but all of these simps popped out of the woodwork talking about what they wanted to do to that judge for 'abusing that girl'. Then these same people have the audacity to wonder why people are acting so crazy in society.

Another manipulation tactic that is rewarded early is the victim mentality. She can do bad, but all she has to do is act like a victim and blame someone else, preferably a male, and she is let off the hook, because this little sweetheart could never really be capable of that! Think about 2pac and Mike Tyson. A lot of these women go sleep with a guy and regret the encounter and end up reclassifying that sex as rape and saying the guy manipulated them when they were willing participants but just want to escape the guilt. The problem is that society actually rewards that mindset. Think of how a woman could get drunk and if a man has sex with her, he is considered a rapist. If a man was drunk but the female wasn't, the man can't claim she's a rapist and get off child support if he got her pregnant. Think of women who go around talking all kinds of trash and they get checked on it but then come and try to get their man to 'handle it' or their brothers or fathers.

Another huge problem is momma doesn't really teach these girls to look for a guy with good morals. That's not the definition of 'good guy' that she gives her daughter. She defines good guy as a guy who has a good job. Moms will actually tell her daughters, "Get a guy that makes money and who will take care of you!"

Finally, the prettier women actually start to notice from a young age how much different they are treated from their average looking counterparts. They get bailed out of their bad acts much more often, their punishment is less severe if they even get punished at all. Women start to get hip to this and they learn that it's not really them that matters, but rather their beauty and that can lead to resentment... knowing that it's a stroke of luck that men are treating them this well. When they have guys doing any and everything to please them, they notice that they get male attention so easily that they start to look at it as disposable. This is where you get all of those extremely flakey women with the attitude problems. She thinks that if you don't follow her dictates, that she can easily replace you.

A lot of this leads to women who end up miserable and bitter. Contrary to what many may think, being disciplined and held to account and treating people decently makes you happy. Women that never got all the male attention are much more appreciative of it. Women who couldn't 'get over' on men because they weren't pretty enough and actually got checked have a MUCH better attitude and they actually seem happier because they have someone who they can respect and is actually giving them direction and discipline instead of catering to their every whim.

The behavior is so bad I've even seen another female bring it up on her own without prompting. She even stated she can't deal with the bipolar nature, the lies and all of that from these women. The problem in this day and age is you have men afraid to speak on it because they think the ladies will get offended and they won't be able to get sex anymore... which is a manifestation of simping. They will defend this behavior and attempt to be a defender of the ladies and will actually use the same insults the women use. But you hardly ever hear those women of speaking to those lifeguards in a positive light. This sort of behavior needs to be done away with and treating women how you would any other person needs to become commonplace or else this monstrous situation we have now will only get worse.

 

[kevm3]

Should your friend's ex girlfriend have any contact with you at all?

My best friend's ex is wanting to hang with my and another friend while she is in the country for the moment. I did know her before they dated...and she did try to fukk me before they were together never during. I never told him though...doesn't matter I supposed.

My best friend and my other friend are acting like nothing is awkward about this...I think homeboy is fronting. shyt seems disrespectful to me.

This is very disrespectful. Women do stuff like this to 'get back at their ex' and fraudulent homeboys will try to justify this kind of stuff because they probably want to hit it.

You can be friendly as in having a friendly disposition to your boys ex but to have her number and be actual friends on some chopping it up and hanging out is a no-no. Some of these sneaky women will break up long-lasting friendships, but really, what was that friendship worth? All it did was expose a snake type dude's characteristics when an advantageous situation popped up.

Best solution is to not have dealings with the ex of your friend.

 

[Malta]

Another huge problem is momma doesn't really teach these girls to look for a guy with good morals. That's not the definition of 'good guy' that she gives her daughter. She defines good guy as a guy who has a good job. Moms will actually tell her daughters, "Get a guy that makes money and who will take care of you!"

Women need to see this clip -

 

[KiiLove]

I met a guy about a month ago (24) .. I'm 23 we hit it off immediately. We had the type of chemistry and connection people crave to have with someone. He has even come to visit me while I'm away at school finishing up my senior year. We were very comfortable and natural in each others presence. Now of course there's always a but .... But, he's only been out of his last relationship of 8 years for four months. I can't decide wether I am a scapegoat or if this is real. He says although they have been broken up only 4 months, he feels they have been mentally broken up much longer. ehh.. I haven't been in a long term serious relationship before so I do not really understand the dynamics of these things. As far as I'm concerned me and him will never work because how can you leave behind someone whom you share so many intimate moments and memories with. I feel I will never completely have him the way he would completely have me because unlike him I don't have a past holding me back

 

[Malta]

I met a guy about a month ago (24) .. I'm 23 we hit it off immediately. We had the type of chemistry and connection people crave to have with someone. He has even come to visit me while I'm away at school finishing up my senior year. We were very comfortable and natural in each others presence. Now of course there's always a but .... But, he's only been out of his last relationship of 8 years for four months. I can't decide wether I am a scapegoat or if this is real. He says although they have been broken up only 4 months, he feels they have been mentally broken up much longer. ehh.. I haven't been in a long term serious relationship before so I do not really understand the dynamics of these things. As far as I'm concerned me and him will never work because how can you leave behind someone whom you share so many intimate moments and memories with. I feel I will never completely have him the way he would completely have me because unlike him I don't have a past holding me back

Are you a woman?

Just take your time getting to know him, it's only been a month, right Don't give up the goods and if he's still around months from now you'll know he wants to be serious.

Men typically take longer to get over long term relationships and 4 months isn't a long time vs 8 years, you could just be the rebound if you move too quickly. And, considering he's only 24 and been with the same person 8 years, he's probably gonna have a "Knock em down" phase soon.

 

[Turbulent]

I met a guy about a month ago (24) .. I'm 23 we hit it off immediately. We had the type of chemistry and connection people crave to have with someone. He has even come to visit me while I'm away at school finishing up my senior year. We were very comfortable and natural in each others presence. Now of course there's always a but .... But, he's only been out of his last relationship of 8 years for four months. I can't decide wether I am a scapegoat or if this is real. He says although they have been broken up only 4 months, he feels they have been mentally broken up much longer. ehh.. I haven't been in a long term serious relationship before so I do not really understand the dynamics of these things. As far as I'm concerned me and him will never work because how can you leave behind someone whom you share so many intimate moments and memories with. I feel I will never completely have him the way he would completely have me because unlike him I don't have a past holding me back

i disagree because then what you're basically saying is that he'll never be able to be with anyone else.

all that "the chemistry feels right, we feel natural" at the end of the day, as a man, he's instinctively doing what he feels he needs to do/say in order to get the puss. no matter how long you wait before being more intimate, you'll never "know" a man until after you had sex. because before that, he's doing whatever he can not to fukk it up as long as his patience allows it. could be 2 months, could be a year, etc. never think that waiting makes a difference in getting to know him.

if you feel like you're just the rebound chick, tell him that you would rather end it there because you're not comfortable with the relationship and then walk away.