She's probably thinking because you guys just met, then all the bullshyt isn't worth it. Who wants to deal with a crazy ex, especially so early when she doesn't even know if you're worth the hassle yet? Life's too short for that nonsense and needless drama. She sounds like a wise lady.
You can pursue it and see what happens. Anything's possible.
she does sound like a wise lady. but if ol boy wants a chick that'll be into him, he'll need to call her back up and at least keep her as a side chick since his main girl aint acting right. one thing i know about women is, they may say they dont like to fight over a man, or may avoid any situations that involve a crazy jealous ex, but the fact that someone else is pinning for the man they're with gets them wet.
years ago. the girl i was dating at the time came by my house unannounced since i didn't answer my phone. we had an argument earlier and i told her to go fucck herself. so she came by my house unannounced and parked outside my apartment building. i had another girl in my house. me and this girl were gonna fucck that night. but she wanted to go out and grab something to eat. so we left the house. soon as we stepped out, i see my girl's car parked directly infront with her just fuming.
my heart skipped a beat cause i know shes crazy. so i told ol girl to go wait for me by her own car and i went to talk to my ex. she jumps out the car and starts slapping the sh1t out of me. goes up to the poor girl, told her, did he tell u he has a girlfriend? she was horrified. she goes "no" in a very shaky voice. my girl proceeds to slap me all over. and this other girl seeing all this goes like "u know what, i'm gonna leave". so she leaves, and me and my girl ironed it out later that night.
i bring up this story because, a day or so later, that other girl IMs me and goes "please delete my number". since she reached out, i used that opportunity to apologize for the situation. then she goes "when are you free to hang out again? i've been cheated on in the past and i know how it feels, but i really could care less now". this was the same girl that saw with her very own eyes my girl. and how violent she was. but the thrill of fuccking someone another girl is so passionately into made her want to risk all that sh1t again.
i never did fucck that girl cause i was really into my girl and i didn't want to cheat...back then i was young and a dumbass.
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I wouldn't be with this woman for 10+ years if I didn't care for her. A lot. 
IDK why yall keep using words like "play", "act" and "pretend". 
I'm real about mine. Nonchalant, stoic, g... yeah, that's just my personality. I'm a laid back, chill type of dude I guess. 
After a while it just becomes who you are. No acting. At first you may feel like it's forced. That's called change. If a fat person wants to lose weight and be healthy they gotta change their lifestyle, feel me? Are they "acting" or "pretending" when they first start working out? Of course not. They're just changing their ways and thought process.
for his whole life. Hanging off every word she says. Being super interested in every aspect of her life. To me, THAT would be acting. If I don't care, I'm not gonna be rude about it but a simple 
will suffice.
That's just the way it goes, man. I don't make these rules. And there doesn't really seem to be an in between either. And I won't even front I actually LIKE simping. 
