Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Jesus Shuttlesworth

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These bytches out here are retarded AF. This girl, my coworker is friends with is bad AF like a 8 or 9. So a while back earlier in the year I told him to hook it up for me, she tells him that I'm not her type or some shyt. I checked her IG today and her bf is some gang signs throwing cat who's currently in jail smh but she writes to him every day and loves him :mjlol: this is why I don't take women seriously, they rather be with the "hood guy" or a dude who's always in trouble but won't take the opposite. I think I should stay single forever Lol seems like an better option

The hood guy probably had balls and stepped to her. You trying to talk to her through an intermediary. You looking at it as hood vs whatever you consider yourself but I guarantee it's confident vs soft in her eyes. Plus she's in a relationship so that does count for something. :yeshrug:

I remember there was this chick I was feeling and we were building but I never made a move. Next thing I know she has a boyfriend, despite the fact she was feeling me too. I'll never forget what she said to me: "He stepped up to the plate." :wow:

So ol girl i said that i wanted hit at work thats always flirting (slappin my head, calling me over the intercom for nothing, pushing me, etc).. yesterday we was behind the register and i had a list i wrote on a piece of receipt paper. She snatched it out my hand and held it up with her back turned so i had yo pretty much "hug" her from behind to reach for it.
:shaq:

We got off at 4 but around 3 something i slid her the digits. Figured fukk IT , I ALREADY KNOW SHE FEELING ME :yeshrug:. Its 12:26 right now the next day and i aint get not one call nor text.
:mjcry:

This is why i don't even try no more brehs.

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Similar situation as above. Why you sliding her your number instead of asking for hers? Just asking her makes you attractive because it shows balls.

You might deny this fact but you were basically delaying rejection. You figured if you asked for her number she might dis you on the spot but if you gave her yours you could elongate your fantasy and not feel dissed until later. You're hurting your chances and torturing yourself at the same time.

She's a female, fam. Think of all your fears in terms of asking her for the number. She's feeling that x10 as a woman, breh. Just because you have her your # doesn't mean she can just shake that anxiety and call. You know damn well you got a # before and was STILL scared to call and you were born with balls. She wasn't. Quit being scared and do what you need to do.

I only speak the real. :yeshrug:
 

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The hood guy probably had balls and stepped to her. You trying to talk to her through an intermediary. You looking at it as hood vs whatever you consider yourself but I guarantee it's confident vs soft in her eyes. Plus she's in a relationship so that does count for something. :yeshrug:

I remember there was this chick I was feeling and we were building but I never made a move. Next thing I know she has a boyfriend, despite the fact she was feeling me too. I'll never forget what she said to me: "He stepped up to the plate." :wow:



Similar situation as above. Why you sliding her your number instead of asking for hers? Just asking her makes you attractive because it shows balls.

You might deny this fact but you were basically delaying rejection. You figured if you asked for her number she might dis you on the spot but if you gave her yours you could elongate your fantasy and not feel dissed until later. You're hurting your chances and torturing yourself at the same time.

She's a female, fam. Think of all your fears in terms of asking her for the number. She's feeling that x10 as a woman, breh. Just because you have her your # doesn't mean she can just shake that anxiety and call. You know damn well you got a # before and was STILL scared to call and you were born with balls. She wasn't. Quit being scared and do what you need to do.

I only speak the real. :yeshrug:

That wasnt me being scared.
That was me not putting the ball in her court.
Had i have asked for her number, even if she gave it to me, she still has the power to ignore my text. If i give her my number, if she hits me up then i know she os forreal and not just looking for an ego boost
 

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That wasnt me being scared.
That was me not putting the ball in her court.
Had i have asked for her number, even if she gave it to me, she still has the power to ignore my text. If i give her my number, if she hits me up then i know she os forreal and not just looking for an ego boost

You're not making sense, breh. How is the ball not in her court while you're at home waiting for her to call? :why:
 

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:lupe: What's a good place to cold approach women? It's a new year, I turn 29 in 8 months and I need to shed this bytchmade beta personality asap, I'm even prepared to get ethered by these women.
 

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:lupe: What's a good place to cold approach women? It's a new year, I turn 29 in 8 months and I need to shed this bytchmade beta personality asap, I'm even prepared to get ethered by these women.
literally anywhere except a girls workplace or the gym. but that is just my personal opinion/experience
 
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The thought of having my relationship end and heartbreak got me scared.:mjcry:



...if she leaves you what would you really miss....you sound young. So as a old head in the game learn leave your ego and conscious some were else when dealing with women. Last but not least we all take "L" but not all of us handle them the same. How will you handle your "L" ?
 

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The hood guy probably had balls and stepped to her. You trying to talk to her through an intermediary. You looking at it as hood vs whatever you consider yourself but I guarantee it's confident vs soft in her eyes. Plus she's in a relationship so that does count for something. :yeshrug:

I remember there was this chick I was feeling and we were building but I never made a move. Next thing I know she has a boyfriend, despite the fact she was feeling me too. I'll never forget what she said to me: "He stepped up to the plate." :wow:

Naw fukk her, it just let's me know what type of person she is but trying to get the hook up from someone who knows her is being "soft"? Lol ok, i'm pretty sure the person who knows a friend of hers would be at more of an advantage than some random guy trying to spit game.

fam...you'll never get through to dudes like flyinhawaiin and brandeezy

:mjlol: Ok, thanks man
 
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