Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NeilCartwright]

So a girl i met through a mutual friend tossed me to the bushes

We went out twice, but we both paid our own way. We're both in school (21) and we both work so we're both on a budget...

Then last night she tells me those werent "dates" and bc i didnt pay for her i set the tone for a friendship instead of a relationship...I told her my financial situation and how who pays for what shouldnt determine the tone of the evening but she's just old fashioned smh

 

[Truefan31]

So a girl i met through a mutual friend tossed me to the bushes

We went out twice, but we both paid our own way. We're both in school (21) and we both work so we're both on a budget...

Then last night she tells me those werent "dates" and bc i didnt pay for her i set the tone for a friendship instead of a relationship...I told her my financial situation and how who pays for what shouldnt determine the tone of the evening but she's just old fashioned smh

Man tell her to kick rocks then. 3 billion women out there.

 

[TRUEST]

So a girl i met through a mutual friend tossed me to the bushes

We went out twice, but we both paid our own way. We're both in school (21) and we both work so we're both on a budget...

Then last night she tells me those werent "dates" and bc i didnt pay for her i set the tone for a friendship instead of a relationship...I told her my financial situation and how who pays for what shouldnt determine the tone of the evening but she's just old fashioned smh

next time a woman chastises you, be very quick to go overboard with your disrespect. what have you got to lose?

her: u didn't pay for our dates so blah blah blah
you: are you stupid?
her: *stunned**no idea how to respond since very few men have ever been this blatantly disrespectful to her*
you: you talk like u have no common sense
her: blah blah
you: fucck you. dont ever hit me up again unless u've matured into a woman.

she'll calm herself down and try to justify her reasoning to you. at which point u tell her, listen, we're dating. i'm obviously far smarter than you. smart enough to know there's no reason for me to pay for ur dinners when u can be out there juggling multiple men. i dont know u. i'm trying to get to know u. and if u are this childish and irrational in your thought and actions, i cant help you.

this back and forth right here will set the tone of the relationship, with u in the driver's seat. very few men can pull this off because it requires u to be very resolute and prepared for the whatever happens. she may never talk to you again, in which case, u have to be ok with that and not care.

 

[Throwbacksample]

next time a woman chastises you, be very quick to go overboard with your disrespect. what have you got to lose?

her: u didn't pay for our dates so blah blah blah
you: are you stupid?
her: *stunned**no idea how to respond since very few men have ever been this blatantly disrespectful to her*
you: you talk like u have no common sense
her: blah blah
you: fucck you. dont ever hit me up again unless u've matured into a woman.

she'll calm herself down and try to justify her reasoning to you. at which point u tell her, listen, we're dating. i'm obviously far smarter than you. smart enough to know there's no reason for me to pay for ur dinners when u can be out there juggling multiple men. i dont know u. i'm trying to get to know u. and if u are this childish and irrational in your thought and actions, i cant help you.

this back and forth right here will set the tone of the relationship, with u in the driver's seat. very few men can pull this off because it requires u to be very resolute and prepared for the whatever happens. she may never talk to you again, in which case, u have to be ok with that and not care.

thats true. But that's only if she is attracted to him or peaks his interest. If she has no feelings towards him, i doubt she cares if he pops back at her.

 

[TRUEST]

thats true. But that's only if she is attracted to him or peaks his interest. If she has no feelings towards him, i doubt she cares if he pops back at her.

attraction can be sparked by your attitude alone. a girl may not necessarily be all that into you at first. but will be if u put her in a place, something she rarely ever encounters, she'll look at u different. and will see u as a figure of authority. if the girl is hot, u can bet most men cower in her presence and will be very polite or overly agreeable to everything she says.

trust, u gain nothing by keeping ur annoyance about a girl to yourself. be very quick to tell her to fucck off and be prepared to accept it if she does.

 

[YouMadd?]

Brehs, I just hate the fact you can't trust chicks these days.

What happened to meeting someone at the mall or school, y'all go out, both have a good time with each other. Keep chatting/texting with each other afterwards, talking about ur next date. You're not even THINKING about her going out searching for a new dude the next day. At least she's waiting a few days to see where things go.


Nowadays, you and a chick you met on Tinder/POF hit it off on a 1st date, ya'll still texting each other afterwards, talking on the phone, planning another date.....then you see her logged onto Tinder.


I'm not saying "we go together" after just a couple of dates.....but damn, you're already looking for other dudes while telling me how much fun you had and want to hang out again. And I'm supposed to be paying for these dates?

Am I just paying you to enjoy your company/time? I might as well just get a prostitute.


From here on, as long as you're actively searching on dating sites, we're SPLITTING costs of dates. Even the seemingly nicest woman could be using you for dinner/dates, while having another dude who comes thru late at night.

It's even worse in expensive cities like SF where a lot of these women can barely afford to live there. They love the free meal and drink.

 

[delta]

When it comes to messaging chicks I fall short

I try humor,jokes make a comment on one of they pictures. Even the fat broads who match with me don't reply back .

Online dating ain't for me I don't think.

I give up.

I dont understand how I come off as a creep with 2 sentences or I lack confidence by making a joke. I've tried different approaches too,so it ain't like I haven't been trying.

I think the chicks take a second look at my pics and go and keep it moving. I've tried the bullshyt compliments,being myself that shyt don't work.

breh, chill. are you getting the same tepid reaction in real life as well?

get your aesthentics/looks up. hit the gym, fix your skin (no dark circles/ razor bumps / acne scars ) and get your hair/teeth right. if a hoe think you 'fine', she will laugh @ every dumb joke you make. period.

That's the game nowadays = hoes don't give a fukk don't really care bout your humor / job / qualities if you look good. either play it or sit on the bench

 

[DonKnock]

My ex's birth control failed with her new boyfriend

This thread put me up on game awhile back to drop her like a hot rock
Now this fertile Myrtle ass bytch hit me up telling me she was the .04% chance of failure
Needed somewhere to let this info out cause I agreed not to tell anyone else

Shout out to you brehs dropping gems in here saving lives

 

[Throwbacksample]

attraction can be sparked by your attitude alone. a girl may not necessarily be all that into you at first. but will be if u put her in a place, something she rarely ever encounters, she'll look at u different. and will see u as a figure of authority. if the girl is hot, u can bet most men cower in her presence and will be very polite or overly agreeable to everything she says.

trust, u gain nothing by keeping ur annoyance about a girl to yourself. be very quick to tell her to fucck off and be prepared to accept it if she does.

i can dig that...because if dude keeps quiet then her mind is already made up. If he shows aggresiveness, it might change her mind about dude.

 

[selectorZen]

It's even worse in expensive cities like SF where a lot of these women can barely afford to live there. They love the free meal and drink.

These women out here be on the tinder diet -- dates for free food.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Brehs humor me for a second why do women give you their phone number out if they have a man ? I have my theories but what is yall .

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Brehs, I just hate the fact you can't trust chicks these days.

What happened to meeting someone at the mall or school, y'all go out, both have a good time with each other. Keep chatting/texting with each other afterwards, talking about ur next date. You're not even THINKING about her going out searching for a new dude the next day. At least she's waiting a few days to see where things go.


Nowadays, you and a chick you met on Tinder/POF hit it off on a 1st date, ya'll still texting each other afterwards, talking on the phone, planning another date.....then you see her logged onto Tinder.


I'm not saying "we go together" after just a couple of dates.....but damn, you're already looking for other dudes while telling me how much fun you had and want to hang out again. And I'm supposed to be paying for these dates?

Am I just paying you to enjoy your company/time? I might as well just get a prostitute.


From here on, as long as you're actively searching on dating sites, we're SPLITTING costs of dates. Even the seemingly nicest woman could be using you for dinner/dates, while having another dude who comes thru late at night.

True indeed. A wise man once said this to me:

Pac, you trust women? I said not all but there are a few that you can trust. He said, Pac, you are in a relationship, does your old lady trust you; especially around other women?
I said, shyt hell no! Any women I have ever dated have also said they never trust any women friends, especially other women.

He said, see, they don't even trust their own kind, and neither should you... They know what's up...

My face went from to to


Don't trust em. Period!

 

[jadillac]

Brehs humor me for a second why do women give you their phone number out if they have a man ? I have my theories but what is yall .

1. They may want a backup plan.
2. They want to see if they still got it so to dpeak. She got ver main dude and ur texting her, it boosts her ego. She likely will just lead you on bc it makes her feel good. Then they can tell their friends about all the dudes sweatin her. Lol

 

[EffYou]

I've been walking a thin line fellas....new girl I'm talking to I've been fcking raw every session. I just wipe off the pre cum or when I do cum I pull out wipe it out eat/finger blast her for a bit before going in for some more.




p*ssy just feels too good for me to gk back to condoms but the chances of this b*tch getting pregnant are eating me up...I need her to hop on birth control asap

 

[EffYou]

Brehs humor me for a second why do women give you their phone number out if they have a man ? I have my theories but what is yall .

Branch swinging they just want to have an available option to move onto if their current situation doesn't work out.


Funny thing is every girl does it(they don't technically cheat on you but ever notice how girls get over break ups faster than guys?) They have a guy on backup while us guys have to go actively searching for a new woman.