Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Urbanmiracle]

Update: ol girl hit me up and apologized for the lack of communication. She does work 12 hour shifts as a home visiting nurse. I get it. She also made one of the video collages with my pics. Thought it was cool.

For v day, she not a flowers and candy kinds chick. I know she likes tea so I got this perfect tea maker and some sleepy time tea. Under $20

 

[IceDragon]

How many of you guys and ladies had an ex hit you up recently this month? whether it's text, Facebook, etc. I've had two hit me up Does Valentines day really have people in a mad rush to get a date like that?

 

[TRUEST]

How many of you guys and ladies had an ex hit you up recently this month? whether it's text, Facebook, etc. I've had two hit me up Does Valentines day really have people in a mad rush to get a date like that?

they're lonely. i had two hit me up too. one girl who stopped talking to me early last year cause i didn't want to do sh1t but watch movies, and stay in the house instead of doing the sh1t she wanted.

 

[RealAssanova]

brehs this chick keeps texting me random shyt. She just hit me saying "so I'm making seafood chowder and sausage..."

She's really trying to win me back. I respect that she realizes the error of her ways, but it's too late, she already got replaced

don't you just love when hoes do this.

you can say the most dispicable shyt and do the most disrespectful shyt that would have your own mother shreeking at the thought of her son doing or saying such things....

but it actually works and ole girl acts like its nothing.

but before when you wanted her and went about things in a different way, shorty was on some bullshyt. Makes you realize that not giving a fukk really gets the hoes.

 

[jadillac]

This chick wasn't trying to get down when I wanted her, wasn't completely over her ex, didn't really trust guys, and etc.

When you miss the boat with me, you just miss the boat. I have no room to entertain anymore women

I think women pride themselves on being somewhat delusional. They can find a way to justify much of the foolish stuff they do.

But occasionally that real sets in and theytruly realize they blew off someone good......but then the delusion sets back in b/c they think they are able to get back in with you like nothing ever happened.

 

[NeilCartwright]

Met this thick volleyball player here at school (hbcu). She's dark skinned, 5'10, fat ass, B cup t*ts, etc

The only drawback is she (kind of) has bad skin and she's 19I turn 22 in a month

This is like something out of a movie, finding a chick who looks like serena williams at school who's my height with a fat assbut am i trippen too much over the minor acne and the fact she's 19? I know she's feeling me but shes just so damn young

 

[Solano707]

Met this thick volleyball player here at school (hbcu). She's dark skinned, 5'10, fat ass, B cup t*ts, etc

The only drawback is she (kind of) has bad skin and she's 19I turn 22 in a month

This is like something out of a movie, finding a chick who looks like serena williams at school who's my height with a fat assbut am i trippen too much over the minor acne and the fact she's 19? I know she's feeling me but shes just so damn young

Nikka you 22, that ain't shyt

 

[Atlrocafella]

I think women pride themselves on being somewhat delusional. They can find a way to justify much of the foolish stuff they do.

But occasionally that real sets in and theytruly realize they blew off someone good......but then the delusion sets back in b/c they think they are able to get back in with you like nothing ever happened.

that delusion is real. They will pop up in your face like they didn't curve you for the longest.

 

[Brandeezy]

So here's my problem brehs. So this bbw latina I was talking to on Tinder a while back hit me up out of the blue last week and wanted to hangout yesterday. I was like fukk it and met her at an high school across the street from the house. We talked for like 2 hours and she's cool but I can tell she wants an relationship and I don't. I told her I'm looking for whatever and just going with the flow but really I'm just looking for a FWB type deal. She texted me after she left that she was so glad we met and again when I was sleep saying that she couldn't stop thinking about me She wants to see Deadpool next week and I'm like "sure...."

This is the first time I'm dealing with a girl who actually likes me and I've never been in an relationship before so its all new to me. Any advice brehs? I don't want to disappoint her already but

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

So here's my problem brehs. So this bbw latina I was talking to on Tinder a while back hit me up out of the blue last week and wanted to hangout yesterday. I was like fukk it and met her at an high school across the street from the house. We talked for like 2 hours and she's cool but I can tell she wants an relationship and I don't. I told her I'm looking for whatever and just going with the flow but really I'm just looking for a FWB type deal. She texted me after she left that she was so glad we met and again when I was sleep saying that she couldn't stop thinking about me She wants to see Deadpool next week and I'm like "sure...."

This is the first time I'm dealing with a girl who actually likes me and I've never been in an relationship before so its all new to me. Any advice brehs? I don't want to disappoint her already but

She likes you after 2 hours? How could you even disappoint her? She barely knows you. You already know what to do - go with the flow - there's not much more you can do than that. Just don't go overboard on some white knight shyt - but also don't go out of your way to be a scumbag. It's corny but be yourself breh, don't overthink anything.

Wait, I'm kinda confused. Seems like you are interested in a relationship even though at the beginning of the post you said you are more into FWB. Whatever it is, be honest and firm with her about it - don't be wishy washy becuz both of you will just get disappointed with each other eventually.

 

[Brandeezy]

She likes you after 2 hours? How could you even disappoint her? She barely knows you. You already know what to do - go with the flow - there's not much more you can do than that. Just don't go overboard on some white knight shyt - but also don't go out of your way to be a scumbag. It's corny but be yourself breh, don't overthink anything.

Wait, I'm kinda confused. Seems like you are interested in a relationship even though at the beginning of the post you said you are more into FWB. Whatever it is, be honest and firm with her about it - don't be wishy washy becuz both of you will just get disappointed with each other eventually.

I mean we've been texting for a couple weeks and I meant I think she wants an relationship. I don't see me being in an relationship with her, maybe its her weight unfortunately

 

[Ohene]

So here's my problem brehs. So this bbw latina I was talking to on Tinder a while back hit me up out of the blue last week and wanted to hangout yesterday. I was like fukk it and met her at an high school across the street from the house. We talked for like 2 hours and she's cool but I can tell she wants an relationship and I don't. I told her I'm looking for whatever and just going with the flow but really I'm just looking for a FWB type deal. She texted me after she left that she was so glad we met and again when I was sleep saying that she couldn't stop thinking about me She wants to see Deadpool next week and I'm like "sure...."

This is the first time I'm dealing with a girl who actually likes me and I've never been in an relationship before so its all new to me. Any advice brehs? I don't want to disappoint her already but

honestly you gotta get the monkey off your back at this point and fukk. eff her feelings. just go with the flow, and play it cool. dont talk yourself out of the p*ssy.
when youre at the movie be sure to establish some sort of physical presence as well. dont just sit beside her. press up against her a bit, put your arm around her etc.

if you play it cool...theres a fat chance the next time yall kicking it on the ones that youll be able to smash or something. just dont overthink it

 

[Pyrexcup]

I mean we've been texting for a couple weeks and I meant I think she wants an relationship. I don't see me being in an relationship with her, maybe its her weight unfortunately

unless she is bbw sloppy and not bbw cute you should fukk her until you find something better. might as well have something on your roster than nothing

 

[At30wecashout]

If one more mothafukka texts me on some "Happy Valentines day."

Everybody who texting I don't give a shyt about. The ones I wanna hear from, nowhere to be found

 

[Gus Money]

This was my first Valentine's Day without being in a relationship since 2012.... and it was glorious. I hit the gym hard, watched the NBA all star game, and treated myself to dinner. No stressing about plans, no blowing money on some overpriced dinner/gifts, no headaches.

Taking a good, long break from dating is definitely the best thing to do when you get out of a long term relationship. I'm hitting the gym, hanging with friends, and I can't remember the last time I got into an argument about something pointless. My confidence is sky high and I can see how going from relationship to relationship without building myself was hurting me in the long run.

This is the longest that I've been single by choice (broke up with her in August) and I'll admit that I miss the sex/intimacy part of a relationship sometimes, but this freedom is