Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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Me and the girl I've been talking to got snowed in yesterday before we had a chance to go to the movies. Were gonna see Deadpool. Chilled, dabbed out, and watched shyt on kodi all day instead. Really good time. Random Valentine's day shyt. I took her home 1pm today and have been feeling happy all day for it.
Just not gonna get my hopes up though.
Just not gonna get my hopes up though.
Bless't
Living the dream
I need to learn the signals that a girl likes me. I'm going in blind here. I know that I'm mentally there, meaning I can be a funny interesting dude if she throws convo back at me. But I still need to physically work on my weight. That still discourages me from approaching. 
Youseenmywork
KING
Okay I'm 31 breh. Let me tell you if you settle with a fat chic just to get your rocks off ....what other areas of your life as a man are you settling in APART from women? As a man even when I get turned down I still approach the women that I'm attracted to I don't settle. And if we're honest it a man's fault why you or any other man has to settle to get a fat chic. Some these guys myself included have to trouble shoot your game or mouth piece.
Youseenmywork
KING
Say hello to 5 women a day for 8 weeks straight. Dont be outcome dependant as well. All you have to is take rejection on the front end.
I need to learn the signals that a girl likes me. I'm going in blind here. I know that I'm mentally there, meaning I can be a funny interesting dude if she throws convo back at me. But I still need to physically work on my weight. That still discourages me from approaching.
you just need to flop your dikk righ
Rejection is the worst thing amongst all others.
u in hs/ college? if so, i recommend starting in the minor leagues. sounds like you are talking yourself out of p*ssy. date ugly hoes / fat bytches / whatever under your high standard. get your mouthpiece up. Learn failure. B/c right now, you got no game. you should be completely relaxed when talking to a female.
I need to learn the signals that a girl likes me. I'm going in blind here. I know that I'm mentally there, meaning I can be a funny interesting dude if she throws convo back at me. But I still need to physically work on my weight. That still discourages me from approaching.
IOI's - Indicators of Interest
but don't get too caught up in that. sounds like you're afraid of rejection? you're shouldn't be worried about the outcome. don't be writing down mental checklists. Just have a good, regular conversation. If the convo is smooth, she's smiling or whatnot - man up and ask for her number. Always. ot
I feel like I need to change how I look. I'm built like Warren Sapp. And I've barely gotten glances. Besides all of the physical Hindrances I don't think I'm a loser. I just overthink everything. That's my problem I think too much. I'm just overly self conscious.
. IDK if I'm the right guy you want to talk to. ima type of n1gga that think looks >>> game every day of the week. hoes know within 2 seconds of glancing at you whether they will let you hit. I always seen it like athleticism (looks) vs skill (game) in AAU basketball. The more athleticism a cat may have possess , the easier it is to dominate and get attention /scholarships from schools that don't care how a n1gga don't know how to dribble or pass, just that he can do a 360 windmill....
In your current shape, your game has to be that much more sharper than a better-looking n1gga... to me, that's not fair and it is a waste of effort just to appease a bytch. in my experience, being sexually attractive (even average) and having a decent mouthpiece is better (i do OK, i can't manufracture a convo like some n1ggaz, but I will never an awkard convo w/ a chick
You got any brehs in RL you can chill with? hit the gym together and better yourself. Not for females, for YOURSELF. Yes, use girls as motivation, but not the main goal. A better body gets you more respect from not just females, but guys too. And it's an easy convo topic for girls who are looking to express their interest ("wow, do you lift weights" etc.)
for the mental part... you really need to dig deep within yourself and find 'why' you think that. it's a good 1st step that you recognize your weaknesses. maybe your parets raised you up wrong, maybe a traumatic experience, maybe bullying, bad high school experience, etc. You need to find that origin and deal with it. Either confront the problem, forgive/fight whoever wronged you, or move on. this process can't really be done in weeks. you've probably been thinking negatively so wrong, it's part of your DNA by now. it's gonna be a years-long struggle, but you will make it to the other side.
The physical and mental improvements you are going to make - don't just make them to get females.
root_eruditorium_org
All Star
basic bytches will give you just as much hell if not more. personally I go for the nice looking girls -- if I don't get them I stay single. I rather stay single than take shyt from an average looking bytch
i'mma dap you breh, you came correct with this homes. Do things for YOURSELF, yes kocking off hoes is a good thing, but that's only short sighted goals. The end game should be you.
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Don't let your weight bring your self esteem down fam that's the worst thing you can do and it will discourage you in the future. With that being said, just gotta man up, get fit and your confidence will skyrocketI need to learn the signals that a girl likes me. I'm going in blind here. I know that I'm mentally there, meaning I can be a funny interesting dude if she throws convo back at me. But I still need to physically work on my weight. That still discourages me from approaching.
Trust me I had the same problem
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Lool I hear you. But with this chic it ain't one of those. I got a nice furnished basement, home theatre and I've been itching to entertain females down here