Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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You know, as a get I older, I realize that a lot of us are broken and we let the past block us. I can only speak on my personal life but all these women I meet come from messed up and abusive relationships and all I gotta hear is Im going to change, I'm not going to be that loving anymore. Then a nikka gotta play doctor or therapist and that's taxing. I'm not going to let a bad relationship ruin who I am as a person or change how I am as a person. It's not just women, us men do it to. You know they say live and learn? I think there should be a third part: let go. Let go of all that past bullshyt and keep an open mind and heart or else you might miss out.
I feel like my past relationships make me hesitant :francis:
 

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That's what I'm saying. I'm fine if I find someone that accepts me for me. But id rather find someone that I'm immensely attracted to and have numerous things in common with and a strong relationship. I feel like I can do better than the tier I'm in.
Bruh you have to start where you at. When you dont have much experience with women, get ANY woman you can, even if attraction is not there. You are never going to get better with women by reading a book/ forums. You get better with women with in field experience in these trenches, by being in different women's faces, learning what works for you and what doesnt.

Best believe your ideal woman wants a confident, funny, well dressed dude, in shape, who knows how to please her in bed & out of bed . Are you that yet??Hopefully by the time you meet her you would have learnt experience from the different women you dated.

The first girl I kissed was obese, but I learnt how to kiss with her, I learnt how to talk to women, how to be comfortable in front of women. She was far for my ideal woman but I enjoyed her giving me handjobs, she had gigantic perky titties, each one almost as big as my head, but I enjoyed sucking on them things. She was the first and last obese girl I dealt with.From then on, each girl I have dated, has got better and better. With each girl Im learning more about women and improving myself to get better women.
 

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Bruh you have to start where you at. When you dont have much experience with women, get ANY woman you can, even if attraction is not there. You are never going to get better with women by reading a book/ forums. You get better with women with in field experience in these trenches, by being in different women's faces, learning what works for you and what doesnt.

Best believe your ideal woman wants a confident, funny, well dressed dude, in shape, who knows how to please her in bed & out of bed . Are you that yet??Hopefully by the time you meet her you would have learnt experience from the different women you dated.

The first girl I kissed was obese, but I learnt how to kiss with her, I learnt how to talk to women, how to be comfortable in front of women. She was far for my ideal woman but I enjoyed her giving me handjobs, she had gigantic perky titties, each one almost as big as my head, but I enjoyed sucking on them things. She was the first and last obese girl I dealt with.From then on, each girl I have dated, has got better and better. With each girl Im learning more about women and improving myself to get better women.
I learned how to kiss with my second girl. She was big. I learned about sex with her. Learned about romance and good conversation. Second girlfriend I learned about bonding. We were close. Used to hang out everyday, I felt like I could be me and she wouldn't care. It was a tight knit bond. But it didn't translate well to the romance aspect :mindblown:. I don't want perfection at all. Cause it ain't out here. I'd gladly date anyone that I find interesting. She could be big,skinny, dont matter. Most important thing is self improvement. If the entree ain't right everything is fukked up:patrice:
 

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I just need to work my way up. Start with simple greetings, brief Convo and work my way up from there. If I can lose this weight, push myself out there. I got to just go out more. :patrice:
Practice as well, try and get out there and go for as many bytches as you can fam.builds confidence and social skills which will help not just with women but long term general career skills.
 

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Practice as well, try and get out there and go for as many bytches as you can fam.builds confidence and social skills which will help not just with women but long term general career skills.
That's what I need to do. One of these days I gotta buck up. And shoot my shot. Cause I won't remain in the same spot forever
 

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ive learn to be comfortable in who I am right now but also keep a steady pace of improvement. Women like a man who always after a goal and attaining it. I don't want anyone complacent. But don't just do it for the ladies, you gotta be about yours for yourself
 

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ive learn to be comfortable in who I am right now but also keep a steady pace of improvement. Women like a man who always after a goal and attaining it. I don't want anyone complacent. But don't just do it for the ladies, you gotta be about yours for yourself
That's what I'm doing. I want to make myself happy. And accomplish my goals
 

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What to do when your girl doesn't like to give head?

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Its a tricky one, Im kinda in the same situation.My new girl is very inexperienced, lost her virginity last summer.At first she said she dont like giving head, but when I went down on here, she has been obliged to give head anytime I want, I havnt went down on her since.I guess you got do it to her so she feels she has to do it.

My other problem she cant ride dikk for shyt, which fukks with me because my ex fukked like a pornstar. I will be patient with her as she improves her sex game, at least her body count aint as high as my ex lol.
 
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Why do women bring up marriage when you're casually talking?:what: I knew the "You should give me a massage" text was bait.:beli:That shyt kills my mood OD and were not even a couple. :why: I don't even want to beat now. :pachaha:

I haven't ever had to deal with that but I can totally see how it would fizzle the cock
Chloroform is ur friend breh :troll:

It's funny, I am watching a documentary on chloroform right now and if you mess around with the dosage you are liable to kill both yourself and your victim :ohhh::huhldup:
 
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Men want to be honest and open with a women but the devious, sneaky natureto which you act forces us to be honest only when it's convenient for us

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Women will always nitpick no matter what you do.

It's cold and rainy she doesn't have a ride you pick her up she will complain that your car is dirty instead of being thankful for the ride.

You move a big cabinet indoors and upstairs she will nitpick that you wore your shoes to bring it upstairs.

You'll give a chick your kidney on Friday and by Sunday if you don't open the door for her, your insensitive


You'll have a major migraine, but still go to her family gathering and because your quiet you don't care about her family.

Don't be afraid to call them out
 
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Women will always nitpick no matter what you do.

It's cold and rainy she doesn't have a ride you pick her up she will complain that your car is dirty instead of being thankful for the ride.

You move a big cabinet indoors and upstairs she will nitpick that you wore your shoes to bring it upstairs.

You'll give a chick your kidney on Friday and by Sunday if you don't open the door for her, your insensitive


You'll have a major migraine, but still go to her family gathering and because your quiet you don't care about her family.

Don't be afraid to call them out

that's everybody though. everyone becomes too comfortable and starts taking things for granted. some of us are worse than others though. i am a very accomodating guy (a people pleaser to be honest) so i have to make a conscious effort to not let people become too accustomed to my goodwill and kindness and mistake it for weakness.

btw, you change your avatar too damn much breh. i didn't even know it was the great reinscarf posting. raptors ftw.
 
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