Bruh you have to start where you at. When you dont have much experience with women, get ANY woman you can, even if attraction is not there. You are never going to get better with women by reading a book/ forums. You get better with women with in field experience in these trenches, by being in different women's faces, learning what works for you and what doesnt.
Best believe your ideal woman wants a confident, funny, well dressed dude, in shape, who knows how to please her in bed & out of bed . Are you that yet??Hopefully by the time you meet her you would have learnt experience from the different women you dated.
The first girl I kissed was obese, but I learnt how to kiss with her, I learnt how to talk to women, how to be comfortable in front of women. She was far for my ideal woman but I enjoyed her giving me handjobs, she had gigantic perky titties, each one almost as big as my head, but I enjoyed sucking on them things. She was the first and last obese girl I dealt with.From then on, each girl I have dated, has got better and better. With each girl Im learning more about women and improving myself to get better women.