I wouldn't say any of us here are mentally battered. Rather we're the ones conscious enough to avoid the mental batterings. The cats who really ARE battered are the ones paying alimony and child support, giving up that house they paid off, all the while his ex love is slurping off some new guy... the cats that are battered are the ones dealing with all the drama in prison because some girl lied on him and said he raped her. Remember that young black kid who had a sports scholarship and lost it because some girl lied to her and they ended up catching her on tape saying the reason she didn't come with the truth was because she didn't want to give up all that money? The ones who are really battered are the ones who built their emotional and financial life around their woman and found out she was nothing like he expected and that deep rooted depression sets in. I really feel bad for that guy.
I would say this forum is for the men who enjoy their peace of mind and don't want to participate in the drama.
you can see in that bus driver thread what it really is. The woman was clearly wrong, cursing out and punching a 60 year old man and she got struck back... and then you got these dudes talking about what they would do to this bus driver. You might have some lieutenant save em all day come in and kill this man, and someone in that man's family retaliates and it will kick off a whole big clan/gang war... and what happened to that loser broad? She's still alive and kicking, screwing up some other man's life while a whole bunch of negroes are dead or in the pen. That's simping to the extreme, putting your life on the line when a woman is CLEARLY in the wrong.
Most men simply like the fantasy of being with the woman than the actual reality. They kind of got this rap video fantasy or movie fantasy of him 'getting the woman', them being in love, her holding him down, riding for him hardcore, being sweet and loyal, etc. More times than not, it's nothing like that when you 'get' a woman, aka commit. That woman might be sleeping with all these other dudes, attempting to manipulate you for all kinds of luxuries, she might be bipolar and on drugs, she might nag you and nag you and nag you. I can go on and on. That's why I don't feel the need to commit. Only way I will commit is if she is bringing a net positive to my life, and not very many women are doing that in this day and age.
Just look at the end result of all of these 'superplayer' athletes at the end of the day. Mike Tyson got sent to prison and got the rapist label off of a woman lying. 2pac got the same thing. Kobe almost got sent to prison on them rape allegations. Look at Evander Holyfield, having to keep on fighting because he's broke due to him having to split child support in so many ways due to all the women he impregnated. Antonio Cromartie is the same way. As soon as he gets the check, it's going out to all these different women. Look at Terrell Owens. Chad Ocho Cinco... He was back playing for his home team, but let Evelyn Lozada in his life and now he's out the league. Look at all those simps that rushed to Rihanna's defense. Rihanna probably provoked the encounter, Chris brown beat her up and all these simps popped out of the wood works trying to fight Chris Brown. Latest we hear, she's right back with him.
I can say I'm relieved more than anything. These negroes who aren't paying attention are caught up in financial slavery, paying all of these women for the next 18 years if not life... and if they can't pay? Time to go to jail. No need to deal with the nagging, the craziness, the constant favors, the financial slave chains, the financial expenditures, the emotions, etc. I can go on and on. I find my current position quite lovely. If a negro wants to be brainwashed and deal with all of that for no benefit in return, it'll be him that's really the one that's 'angry' and 'bitter' when his baby momma is telling his kid that he's a loser even though she's the one keeping him from his son and using the child support payments on herself.
