Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Being good and nice and treating good means nothing in the end. I always say you can save your enemy from burning building and he'll have you back for life. You can save your gf from a burning building and get a sorry it's just not the same the next day.



You could have been aggressive a a$$hole, treated her crap and you'd be in the same spot, don't worry about the whys, concentrate on the what


Can you explain this to me breh?
 

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She said it was nice for the sake of a reaction. Which is true. I see all the fukk bois around and I thought I deserved better because I was being good to her. I should just be good to bytches because its my character and not because I want to get something in return. I could at least agree with that and thinking back to all my failed relationships I did that shyt all the time. Shes still a goofy ass for simply not telling me about it months ago because its something that sooooo easy to change but...its life.

I pretty much put it all out there and cleared all my demons and by the end fo the night she said she doesn't respect me any more :wtf: like newsflash nikkas do have feelings. Its over with her, I'm pretty sure of that at least. I asked her multiple times do you feel anything for me and she said no multiple times. Said she would try to make it work if she felt any thing. IDK man I got the feeling she wasn't being truthful about it, she cried on my shoulder. I don't fukking know man, its such a fukking clusterfukk.


Dude, whatever you do, don't change who you are - not even for her. Trust me, there are females out there that will appreciate you for who you are. If she don't want that, then move on. How old is she?
 

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Dude, whatever you do, don't change who you are - not even for her. Trust me, there are females out there that will appreciate you for who you are. If she don't want that, then move on. How old is she?
Turned 21 a few months ago
 

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oh fukked that shyt breh, she want them thug nikkas who aint got shyt or aint about shyt... wait till this bytch have a baby or two by a no good ass nikka who left her high and her p*ssy dried... then she gonna be demanding that nikka got his own damn car, house and NO kids smdh
 

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oh fukked that shyt breh, she want them thug nikkas who aint got shyt or aint about shyt... wait till this bytch have a baby or two by a no good ass nikka who left her high and her p*ssy dried... then she gonna be demanding that nikka got his own damn car, house and NO kids smdh
Naw shes def not into thugs and doesnt want kids breh. I just wasnt able to provide whatbshe needed from me i guess
 

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Can you explain this to me breh?

the whys and the what

dont concentrate on the whys
why did she cheat
why did she dump me
why did she go back to her


concentrate on what occurred
she cheated trust is gone
she dumped you relationship is over
she left you

basically stop wasting time wondering why it happaned, if you could have done things differently focused on what and the now its done and over now you start over
 

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Naw shes def not into thugs and doesnt want kids breh. I just wasnt able to provide whatbshe needed from me i guess

No diss breh, but I think you are in denial - you didn't see this a mile away when she hit you up with not being with you. Don't be naive. You may not think so, and she may hidden that fact - but the fact remains broads like these in their early 20's tend to fukk off a lot. It's just part of the hoe stage.

Take it for what it's worth.
 

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No diss breh, but I think you are in denial - you didn't see this a mile away when she hit you up with not being with you. Don't be naive. You may not think so, and she may hidden that fact - but the fact remains broads like these in their early 20's tend to fukk off a lot. It's just part of the hoe stage.

Take it for what it's worth.
Naw breh Ive been completely honest and open with you guys. Shes not really a hoe, shes just as fukked as I am and for w/e just lost that spark. I dont think its aex driven because I fukked her better than anyone shes been with.
 

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Naw shes def not into thugs and doesnt want kids breh. I just wasnt able to provide whatbshe needed from me i guess
alright. thats enough talking about that idiot girl. go find u another chick and start talking to us about the new dates you're going on. this girl is a lost cause. if she came back u need to be in a position of genuine detachment so u can do with her as u please without any real feelings involved.
 

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alright. thats enough talking about that idiot girl. go find u another chick and start talking to us about the new dates you're going on. this girl is a lost cause. if she came back u need to be in a position of genuine detachment so u can do with her as u please without any real feelings involved.
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So there's this restaurant I visit quite often with this cute waitress. Last week my job in that area ended, so I went to the restaurant for sole purpose of asking her out. She wasn't there, so I went yesterday, the moment I came in she comes out and asks me if "I missed her last week?" I said something flirty back.


When my take away order was ready to pick up. I went up to her and clumsily asked her out, she chuckled. She told me that she's not allowed to gove numbers to customers but if I showed up late in the night she might give it to me.

Not sure what to make of this. I'm assuming she rejected me. :mjlol:

What do you brehs think?
 
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So there's this restaurant visit quite often with this cute waitress. Last week my job in that area ended, so I went to the restaurant for sole purpose to ask her out. She wasn't there, so I went yesterday, the moment I came in she comes out and asks me if "I missed her last week?" I said something flirty back.


When my take away order was ready to pick up. I went up to her and clumsily asked her out, she chuckled. She told me that she's not allowed to gove numbers to customers but if I showed up late in the night she might give it to me.

Not sure what to make of this. I'm assuming she rejected me. :mjlol:

What do you brehs think?

Don't go back outside of your normal routine. She said what she said but if you actually came back at night for the sole purpose of gettin her number, she's probably gonna be like :whoa:
 
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