Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[BossmanChad]

Don't go back outside of your normal routine. She said what she said but if you actually came back at night for the sole purpose of gettin her number, she's probably gonna be like

That's exactly what I thought. Explained the situation to a friend. He told me to go with him weeks from now and see her reaction.

 

[EA]

That's exactly what I thought. Explained the situation to a friend. He told me to go with him weeks from now and see her reaction.

Yeah, that's the best thing. If she's like "Aww I havent seen you blah blah blah" then you might have a way in.

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

That's exactly what I thought. Explained the situation to a friend. He told me to go with him weeks from now and see her reaction.

Yea and next time don't ask for the number, ask for a Facebook or something

 

[kevm3]

Being good and nice and treating good means nothing in the end. I always say you can save your enemy from burning building and he'll have you back for life. You can save your gf from a burning building and get a sorry it's just not the same the next day.



You could have been aggressive a a$$hole, treated her crap and you'd be in the same spot, don't worry about the whys, concentrate on the what

Generosity is often wasted on women a man is trying to date. That just gets you stuffed in the provider category aka some guy used for resources.

 

[Ohene]

Yea and next time don't ask for the number, ask for a Facebook or something

nah fukk that. ask for numbers

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

Got on tinder after ending it with my ex for good. Already got some stuff lined up to meetup on Sunday..I threw out my options for brunch with this girl and she just hit me with, "not a big fan of that place.". But I'm sure if I throw out particular options she'll bite.

Kind of rubbed me the wrong way how she did it...maybe I'm reading to much into it though.

 

[The ADD]

Got on tinder after ending it with my ex for good. Already got some stuff lined up to meetup on Sunday..I threw out my options for brunch with this girl and she just hit me with, "not a big fan of that place.". But I'm sure if I throw out particular options she'll bite.

Kind of rubbed me the wrong way how she did it...maybe I'm reading to much into it though.

Have you met her before?

 

[Turbulent]

the whys and the what

dont concentrate on the whys
why did she cheat
why did she dump me
why did she go back to her


concentrate on what occurred
she cheated trust is gone
she dumped you relationship is over
she left you

basically stop wasting time wondering why it happaned, if you could have done things differently focused on what and the now its done and over now you start over

sooner dudes understand this, the more they will accomplish in life.

 

[Urbanmiracle]

I hate dealing with broken women. They take out their poor choice of men on the next guy then when they over it, revert right back to the same type of men who broke them again. Sad really...

 

[The ADD]

I hate dealing with broken women. They take out their poor choice of men on the next guy then when they over it, revert right back to the same type of men who broke them again. Sad really...

Went left with the last one.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Advice;


One of the best things you can learn how to discern is when to stop taking shots. Alot of times there are good women that just arent into you like that and depending on your personality alot of men handle or take this wrong and burn bridges when it doesn't have to be all that..

If your the type that know's that rejection or non responsiveness results get to you, stop taking shots at the same chick or type of chicks.

1st thing you need to realize is women have options, plenty. Any decent looking chick can go out, or even better yet go on the internet post a picture or just say "I'm...." and droves of supports will hit them up.

its really a blessing in disguise for us men but its hard to see it that way.

Like anyone thats good at anything you have to know when to take your shots and when to pass it on.


Focus on yourself and if you have family them too.

 

[Lo-Co]

Advice;


One of the best things you can learn how to discern is when to stop taking shots. Alot of times there are good women that just arent into you like that and depending on your personality alot of men handle or take this wrong and burn bridges when it doesn't have to be all that..

If your the type that know's that rejection or non responsiveness results get to you, stop taking shots at the same chick or type of chicks.

1st thing you need to realize is women have options, plenty. Any decent looking chick can go out, or even better yet go on the internet post a picture or just say "I'm...." and droves of supports will hit them up.

its really a blessing in disguise for us men but its hard to see it that way.

Like anyone thats good at anything you have to know when to take your shots and when to pass it on.


Focus on yourself and if you have family them too.

im kinda starting to learn how to do that. i was a pestering crash test dummy. im somewhat thankful im realizing that. i used to stick around and wait for scraps like a street rat. im better than that. i didnt see my self worth previously. now, i see clearly.

 

[Beerus]

I'm so happy brehs.
So fukking happy.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

im kinda starting to learn how to do that. i was a pestering crash test dummy. im somewhat thankful im realizing that. i used to stick around and wait for scraps like a street rat. im better than that. i didnt see my self worth previously. now, i see clearly.

I'm the same way but to be honest I'm not so happy these days because it was alarming seeing these chicks for what they are and how they really don't add any value to your life. I must have been living in some sort of fantasy. funny how pursuing chicks can completely warp how you look at things.

 

[Lo-Co]

I'm the same way but to be honest I'm not so happy these days because it was alarming seeing these chicks for what they are and how they really don't add any value to your life. I must have been living in some sort of fantasy. funny how pursuing chicks can completely warp how you look at things.

the naivety was like looking at a wall, of just sunshine and oblivious happiness. until you make a 180. and turn around to see that your surrounded by a ruin of reality. and then you start to question everything.