Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Man this chick like straight up detests me now :pachaha:

I'm like how you go from getting orgasm on orgasm from me saying you love me to two weeks later telling me you don't care when i tell you I'm doing fine. Just pure cold, emotionless vibes. Hung up on me and I had to laugh. Like I don't deserve this shyt so you stay over there in your misery cuz its obviously something wrong up stairs. Was I too "nice"? Did I give too much stability? probably. But if I really got to be on my toes all the time to keep a bytch around I can do bad by myself tbh.

Women are pyschos breh... I used to get mad trying to rationalize their actions
but now after realizing they feel their way through everything.... I just laugh


Ignore their complaints and just drop 'em ... I don't even block 'em :yeshrug:

All in all...I've stopped taking women in my personal life seriously
 

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You can't go all out for these women, it sucks that this is the time we are in but honestly you just cant do it.

They dont respect a man that puts them 1st, they want it. They enjoy the idea of it, but once its in place they get bored and complacent. I'm telling you this from both personal experience 2nd hand experiences and observations.

Even the women with the best of intentions do this.

So from me, to all the brothers here that are like me who actually enjoy putting there woman 1st and spoiling them.

Dont, keep it spontaneous and few and far inbetween.

And for goodness sake don't come out the gate with it. A surefire way to get your feelings hurt and join team #HOH.



I'm not saying don't treat your woman like a queen, you should. But treat her like family 1st and once some time has past then a lover.
I did that shyt. and i got indirectly chucked to the bushes. rightfully so. i came off as needy and just looked like a lost dog.:scust: ill never go back to that shyt. i remember after that breakup i started fukking with someone else less than a day later in an attempt to feel a bit better and she gets mad. Why?:mindblown:
 

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You can't go all out for these women, it sucks that this is the time we are in but honestly you just cant do it.

They dont respect a man that puts them 1st, they want it. They enjoy the idea of it, but once its in place they get bored and complacent. I'm telling you this from both personal experience 2nd hand experiences and observations.

Even the women with the best of intentions do this.

So from me, to all the brothers here that are like me who actually enjoy putting there woman 1st and spoiling them.

Dont, keep it spontaneous and few and far inbetween.

And for goodness sake don't come out the gate with it. A surefire way to get your feelings hurt and join team #HOH.



I'm not saying don't treat your woman like a queen, you should. But treat her like family 1st and once some time has past then a lover.
Its crazy how true this is. Like I said they want the renaissance man while bringing the minimum to the table.
 

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Yo anyone remember the name of that movie with the simp showing up at a party with flowers just to see his crush making out with some other guy and then he gets back in his car and starts crying and the movie ends??? Lmao that was mad sad. Someone posted it here before.
The last American virgin
 

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If yall remember few pages back i had 2 females toss me to the:trash: because i was so cheap. I learned my lesson and the lord gave me a second chance, this time with a Nigerian:whoo::ohlawd:

I wont trick but i wont be so damn cheap. Hoping this materializes into something. I lost out on an Ethiopian last year, its time to redeem myself:wow:
 

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Women are pyschos breh... I used to get mad trying to rationalize their actions
but now after realizing they feel their way through everything.... I just laugh


Ignore their complaints and just drop 'em ... I don't even block 'em :yeshrug:

All in all...I've stopped taking women in my personal life seriously

I've become the sweetest a$$hole.

:smugdraper:

edit* that sounded bad.:mjlol:

I've just gotten to the point where it's ultimately me first... mixed in with some feelings for "her" here and there. We can build if we're on the same page. Most women are already in this state of mind as is so why not roll with it. The women who get all of me will be few and far between.

:yeshrug:
 

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:mjcry:@ this whole thread! I can relate to it.... definitely.
 

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I've become the sweetest a$$hole.

:smugdraper:

edit* that sounded bad.:mjlol:

I've just gotten to the point where it's ultimately me first... mixed in with some feelings for "her" here and there. We can build if we're on the same page. Most women are already in this state of mind as is so why not roll with it. The women who get all of me will be few and far between.

:yeshrug:

That's not a risk I'm willing to take...

It's me and nothing else...her feelings don't matter one iota

You give a girl an inch...she'll take an entire solar system



If yall remember few pages back i had 2 females toss me to the:trash: because i was so cheap. I learned my lesson and the lord gave me a second chance, this time with a Nigerian:whoo::ohlawd:

I wont trick but i wont be so damn cheap. Hoping this materializes into something. I lost out on an Ethiopian last year, its time to redeem myself:wow:



Get some pride about yourself and focus on gettin $$$

Women are savages and only see what you can do for them and when ya pockets are fat :wow:
 
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That's not a risk I'm willing to take...

It's me and nothing else...her feelings don't matter one iota

You give a girl an inch...she'll take an entire solar system

This much is true.

I'm naturally a selfish person but women nowadays have me worried about nothing else but self.

:salute:
 
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