Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

This much is true.

I'm naturally a selfish person but women nowadays have me worried about nothing else but self.

u should be. an ex hit me up after a few months. says she wants us to be civil to each other. next conversation we have, she sends me an email about "gift ideas" i can get her for her birthday which was coming up. i read that email and straight up laughed. needless to say, i ignored the email. this is the same chick i posted about many pages back who blasted me and called me all sorts of names. now she has the audacity to think she can disappear for a few months, come back right before her birthday and expect a gift.

wasn't too surprised because in her emails that i read in the past. she was like that to all her previous exes. asking for outlandish sh1t.

 

[Cynic]

When I get off the clock... I'll tell you guys a story. Deal?

No. Go to The Salon with your attention seeking ass.

Unless you are a lesbian then that's a whole different story...

Deal ​

Be an emotional tampon for attention whores brehs

 

[Lo-Co]

No. Go to The Salon with your attention seeking ass.

Unless you are a lesbian then that's a whole different story...





Be an emotional tampon for attention whores brehs

Not my intention. I just like a good story.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Man this chick like straight up detests me now

I'm like how you go from getting orgasm on orgasm from me saying you love me to two weeks later telling me you don't care when i tell you I'm doing fine. Just pure cold, emotionless vibes. Hung up on me and I had to laugh. Like I don't deserve this shyt so you stay over there in your misery cuz its obviously something wrong up stairs. Was I too "nice"? Did I give too much stability? probably. But if I really got to be on my toes all the time to keep a bytch around I can do bad by myself tbh.

Your (former) broad sounds unstable as fukk even by chick standards. You'd do best to avoid messing with her or you will go nuts. I'm very sensitive to other people's state of mind, emotions so I try real hard to avoid negative energy. A chick like yours would make me want to put a bullet in my head.

 

[Deafheaven]

Your (former) broad sounds unstable as fukk even by chick standards. You'd do best to avoid messing with her or you will go nuts. I'm very sensitive to other people's state of mind, emotions so I try real hard to avoid negative energy. A chick like yours would make me want to put a bullet in my head.

I went over there on tuesday to see where her mind was at and drop off a harmless letter explaining i'm okay with the breakup and shyt and to talk a lil. She wouldn't answer the door (her mom said I came by) so she probs told her family I'm crazy or some shyt when her moms loved me then texts me like you okay. I call her up and its just dead dead dead. I'm in a good mood and you can hear it but shes just so fukking...lifeless sounding towards me. Like damn what did I actually do to you. Like I know nikkas who cheated on they baby moms who talk with more warmth about them. Eventually I just told her I left and a letter, and why'd you even pick up the phone (if she was going to be a lifeless doll) and she hung up texted her I'm coolio and enjoy your life. I still think about her (mostly because we live a few minutes from each other and a lot of shyt I do around town I would do with her) but I'm at that point where I'm like good riddance. Did I make mistakes, yeah, small ones imo. So I'll fess up to that. But the bytch takes zero accountability in life and thats going to fukk her in th elong run so w/e.

But enough about that idiot girl we popping bottles with the homies tonight

 

[TRUEST]

I went over there on tuesday to see where her mind was at and drop off a harmless letter explaining i'm okay with the breakup and shyt and to talk a lil. She wouldn't answer the door (her mom said I came by) so she probs told her family I'm crazy or some shyt when her moms loved me then texts me like you okay. I call her up and its just dead dead dead. I'm in a good mood and you can hear it but shes just so fukking...lifeless sounding towards me. Like damn what did I actually do to you. Like I know nikkas who cheated on they baby moms who talk with more warmth about them. Eventually I just told her I left and a letter, and why'd you even pick up the phone (if she was going to be a lifeless doll) and she hung up texted her I'm coolio and enjoy your life. I still think about her (mostly because we live a few minutes from each other and a lot of shyt I do around town I would do with her) but I'm at that point where I'm like good riddance. Did I make mistakes, yeah, small ones imo. So I'll fess up to that. But the bytch takes zero accountability in life and thats going to fukk her in th elong run so w/e.

But enough about that idiot girl we popping bottles with the homies tonight

dude wtf???? wtf????? wtf????

dude, everything i've told u to do in this thread were the things that created very giant doors for this girl to come back into ur life. but everything u just did was continue to shut any chances of ever having anything to do with this girl again.

do you not realize how weak u come off writing a damn letter to a chick after she broke up with u??? wtf is wrong with u??? u've got guys in here telling u not to do sh1t, and here u go chasing after her. wtf is ur problem man? i get that ur hurting. we've all hurt. and when i spoke to your situation, i knew deep down u still wanted this girl and i told u what u needed to do. albeit, i didn't say at the time why i was giving u the advice. but now i am.

when girls break up with u, the most potent weapon u have at your disposal is the power of indifference. all that went out the window the minute u went to see this girl. i mean gadamn it man. w're not all talking just to talk here man. we know women pretty well and this behavior from ur girl is all too familiar.

i forbid u to ever contact this girl again. starting right now. u get that?? i forbid u.

if she hits u up to see how ur doing, dont say sh1t to her till u post in this thread.

 

[Deafheaven]

dude wtf???? wtf????? wtf????

dude, everything i've told u to do in this thread were the things that created very giant doors for this girl to come back into ur life. but everything u just did was continue to shut any chances of ever having anything to do with this girl again.

do you not realize how weak u come off writing a damn letter to a chick after she broke up with u??? wtf is wrong with u??? u've got guys in here telling u not to do sh1t, and here u go chasing after her. wtf is ur problem man? i get that ur hurting. we've all hurt. and when i spoke to your situation, i knew deep down u still wanted this girl and i told u what u needed to do. albeit, i didn't say at the time why i was giving u the advice. but now i am.

when girls break up with u, the most potent weapon u have at your disposal is the power of indifference. all that went out the window the minute u went to see this girl. i mean gadamn it man. w're not all talking just to talk here man. we know women pretty well and this behavior from ur girl is all too familiar.

i forbid u to ever contact this girl again. starting right now. u get that?? i forbid u.

if she hits u up to see how ur doing, dont say sh1t to her till u post in this thread.

Well, now i am pretty indifferrnt and wont be contacting her again so I guess mission accomplished. If I messed up wirh her forever then its W/E. Millions of women in this country.

I now realize the cardinal sin that popper it all off. After 8 months I showed a insecurity and a week later ahe dont feel the same any nore. So at least its a good lesson learned.

 

[TRUEST]

Well, now i am pretty indifferrnt and wont be contacting her again so I guess mission accomplished. If I messed up wirh her forever then its W/E. Millions of women in this country.

I now realize the cardinal sin that popper it all off. After 8 months I showed a insecurity and a week later ahe dont feel the same any nore. So at least its a good lesson learned.

stop saying stuff u dont mean. next time u'll post, u'll be telling us about how u sent her flowers and u tried seranading her from outside her bedroom window. stop talking about her. start talking about the new women ur getting with.

 

[Deafheaven]

stop saying stuff u dont mean. next time u'll post, u'll be telling us about how u sent her flowers and u tried seranading her from outside her bedroom window. stop talking about her. start talking about the new women ur getting with.

I feel you man, i havent been congruent at all

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

this nikka borrowed money from his boss And sold most of his stuff to get this chick abortion money. and nursed her back to health, told her he loved her kissed her and bought her a gold locket for her birthday. once he gets to the party this nikkas friend that got her pregnant just rolls up like

L'S EVERYWHERE

shyt...everytime I watch this clip it gets me in my feelings....

fukking brutal

 

[Paradise]

No. Go to The Salon with your attention seeking ass.

Unless you are a lesbian then that's a whole different story...





Be an emotional tampon for attention whores brehs

Maybe I just want some male insight on a problem...

but anyway you have a good night.

 

[Lo-Co]

shyt...everytime I watch this clip it gets me in my feelings....

fukking brutal

i dont necessarily use the alpha/beta terms and shyt. but this was a good video breaking down certain shyt in the movie.

 

[Turk]

I'm lowkey heavy in the friendzone with this chick...and It's all my fault i was so hot and cold with her in the past and i have a pretty aloof personality. A lot of the time it seemed like i didnt care. Idk if there's any way to climb out this ditch i built. She's a dope good chick and ion wanna hurt her . But if i stay stuck in the the friendzone imma go ghost

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

I'm lowkey heavy in the friendzone with this chick...and It's all my fault i was so hot and cold with her in the past and i have a pretty aloof personality. A lot of the time it seemed like i didnt care.

Stop telling my life story on here breh.

 

[Cynic]

Maybe I just want some male insight on a problem...

but anyway you have a good night.

This thread is about dealing with women

Perhaps you've got advice for brehs facing problems

or are facing problems with your chick


You have other options for your man issues

-The Salon
-Starting a thread dedicated to your issue