Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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My parents have been separated for a while, but my mom has been staying with my dad for the last year on and off. The divorce just finalized in March. Sister justfound out that my mom has been talking to another nikkas since August. My dad has been a civil trick and still paying for her stuff and she's been talking to another nikka the whole time. Guess he was just lonely and used to being married this whole time. Her and this other guy are apparently in love. My dad wasn't the most perfect dude and the main factor the marriage was a failure, but still. My sister had to convince her to move out and stop using him.....She'd take these trips and say she was going to church conventions or something. I bought her tickets and her hotel for her bday and I prolly paid to have another nikka blow her back out. :mjcry:

Idk if I could ever meet this dude and idk if I should speak to my mom about this....:francis:


fukkkkk :mjcry:

was your pops a good dude tho? :lupe:
 

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Man I'd like to personally apologize to the brehs who were giving me actual advice in here :snoop:

The last 5 minutes of this vid was like ether to my soul.

 

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Man I'd like to personally apologize to the brehs who were giving me actual advice in here :snoop:

The last 5 minutes of this vid was like ether to my soul.


im glad u youtubed him. now make sure u follow his advice. and dont let those silly thoughts get to u.
 

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I went from throwing my ex in the bushes to juggling three new prospects. I don't know how y'all manage talking to multitudes of women, this shyt is literally draining.

I don't think im cut for this cutthroat life, because i like all the new prospects equally. I don't want to be a dawg brehs :snoop:


Just be straight up, you dating and that's it. You don't have to jump in a relationship, which is something totally different.
 

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My parents have been separated for a while, but my mom has been staying with my dad for the last year on and off. The divorce just finalized in March. Sister justfound out that my mom has been talking to another nikkas since August. My dad has been a civil trick and still paying for her stuff and she's been talking to another nikka the whole time. Guess he was just lonely and used to being married this whole time. Her and this other guy are apparently in love. My dad wasn't the most perfect dude and the main factor the marriage was a failure, but still. My sister had to convince her to move out and stop using him.....She'd take these trips and say she was going to church conventions or something. I bought her tickets and her hotel for her bday and I prolly paid to have another nikka blow her back out. :mjcry:

Idk if I could ever meet this dude and idk if I should speak to my mom about this....:francis:
LL
 

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I went from throwing my ex in the bushes to juggling three new prospects. I don't know how y'all manage talking to multitudes of women, this shyt is literally draining.

I don't think im cut for this cutthroat life, because i like all the new prospects equally. I don't want to be a dawg brehs :snoop:

wtf? so don't be a dog.. you can literally treat bytches how they treat other nikkas.. talk to them rarely and have them take you out on dates so they can hopefully get some dikk.. you doing this all wrong
 

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I used to think women needed drama to be satsified in a relationship but I think its more nuanced than that. They need that dangerous game of knowing they dude can bounce at any time (even if they are madly in love) and that keeps them in check. I made the mistake of making empty promises all the time like I'll always love you and shyt like that and for a while its fine but eventually they'll get bored with the lack of challenge no amtter how good you treat or fukking them. cole worl lesson lernt

This doesn't even have to be a game. When you work on yourself to become successful, that automatically comes with the territory. I'm a young successful dude, so I don't take no type of nonsense from women and they know that off rip. All the shenanigans they try to pull is limited because they know I'm not afraid to leave the situation with no remorse :blessed:
 

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I went from throwing my ex in the bushes to juggling three new prospects. I don't know how y'all manage talking to multitudes of women, this shyt is literally draining.

I don't think im cut for this cutthroat life, because i like all the new prospects equally. I don't want to be a dawg brehs :snoop:

Like someone said above, just be upfront and say you're just dating right now until once exclusively gets all of your attention. Just don't blow bread on all of them :ufdup:, make them work for it.
 

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I went from throwing my ex in the bushes to juggling three new prospects. I don't know how y'all manage talking to multitudes of women, this shyt is literally draining.

I don't think im cut for this cutthroat life, because i like all the new prospects equally. I don't want to be a dawg brehs :snoop:

POLYGAMY...:ld:

embrace it:banderas:
 

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Is going out solo that big of a deal?

Just met a Nigerian chick and she told me to go to this probate tonight at her school. Of the 3 dudes I'm close with (who id go with) only one is in town and he's bullshytting. I don't go to her school.

She's a problem:wow:...Fat ass, engineering major, well spoken, etc so I don't wanna fck up my chances dealing with my homeboy who doesn't wanna come out the house. But to be real I always felt weird rolling to a function solo:yeshrug:

Am I trippen over this or nah.


Go out on your own and have your own night

Women love attention, you'll get there amped up and she'll introduce you to 5 other n1ggaz

then leave to go slurp another n!gga nuts

If you go....bring another chick to that event and introduce her as a friend
 

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Go out on your own and have your own night

Women love attention, you'll get there amped up and she'll introduce you to 5 other n1ggaz

then leave to go slurp another n!gga nuts

If you go....bring another chick to that event and introduce her as a friend
meh. just go solo @NeilCartwright I've done it a one two time while I was in school and it has worked out before.
truth is typically i would go out to parties with people and have to ditch em and do my own thing anyways. shyt was good for nothing but a couple free beers at predrinks and splitting cab fare.

going out alone though? Dont gotta worry about homies trying to listen to your game, worrying about what they think or having em mess up as wingmen. Dont gotta worry about ppl wanting to leave early. You can just be yourself and go for yours.
 

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meh. just go solo @NeilCartwright I've done it a one two time while I was in school and it has worked out before.
truth is typically i would go out to parties with people and have to ditch em and do my own thing anyways. shyt was good for nothing but a couple free beers at predrinks and splitting cab fare.

going out alone though? Dont gotta worry about homies trying to listen to your game, worrying about what they think or having em mess up as wingmen. Dont gotta worry about ppl wanting to leave early. You can just be yourself and go for yours.

meh. just go solo @NeilCartwright I've done it a one two time while I was in school and it has worked out before.
truth is typically i would go out to parties with people and have to ditch em and do my own thing anyways. shyt was good for nothing but a couple free beers at predrinks and splitting cab fare.

going out alone though? Dont gotta worry about homies trying to listen to your game, worrying about what they think or having em mess up as wingmen. Dont gotta worry about ppl wanting to leave early. You can just be yourself and go for yours.

Yea i ended up going, but i brought an old friend from my old school.

The night went well, we both had fun:ehh:

Lol and maybe ill end up going solo soorner or later..it might be diffeent when you're older but from 20-23 people (for some reason think it's weird). These females wonder "Where this nikkas friends/boys at?:what:"

Social proofing is a mf:ld:
 
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Yea i ended up going, but i brought an old friend from my old school.

The night went well, we both had fun:ehh:

Lol and maybe ill end up going solo soorner or later..it might be diffeent when you're older but from 20-23 people (for some reason think it's weird). These females wonder "Where this nikkas friends/boys at?:what:"

Social proofing is a mf:ld:

I tend to have an easier time when I'm with a group. Social proofing is REAL.
 
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