Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ohene

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Yea i ended up going, but i brought an old friend from my old school.

The night went well, we both had fun:ehh:

Lol and maybe ill end up going solo soorner or later..it might be diffeent when you're older but from 20-23 people (for some reason think it's weird). These females wonder "Where this nikkas friends/boys at?:what:"

Social proofing is a mf:ld:
nah. keep telling yourself that shyt though.

i was doing that shyt when i was in school...age 21,22. I'm only 24 right now.
 

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This doesn't even have to be a game. When you work on yourself to become successful, that automatically comes with the territory. I'm a young successful dude, so I don't take no type of nonsense from women and they know that off rip. All the shenanigans they try to pull is limited because they know I'm not afraid to leave the situation with no remorse :blessed:



:salute:
 

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I tend to have an easier time when I'm with a group. Social proofing is REAL.

of course it is. the only bars/lounges i go to alone are the ones where i've been to many times with other people. so i'm comfortable there.

the aesthetics of u being the only person at a place not knowing anyone is not a good look.
 

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These women out here are ruthless :wow:






Im not even mad its just their nature
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How do you handle "competition"from others trying to talk to same woman you are?

u dont. and if u must, be the one out of the group that acts and IS extremely nonchalant. u have to have a take it or leave it mentality. everyone else will be extremely kind to her, laughing at her jokes, offering to do xyz for her. do none of those things.
 

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How do you handle "competition"from others trying to talk to same woman you are?

For me I stay the course and do same when no competition
No fukks given be myself either she feelin me or she not

Ex:
Several guys tried to holler at this one girl and I was observing and its what I always do before making any move on a female to see my surroundings let alone if guys hollering at a particular one that I want too

All I did was bought drink of what I like said excuse me and said my name said what caught my attention about her whether it's her smile or her eyes or how she carried herself it was truth no bs when I say this cuz it's the only reason y I'm gonna holler at u anyways then I go I'll buy u a drink of what I'm having or if u don't drink it's fine and I respect that I'll be over at the bar chilling if u wanna talk too me or get at me coo if not it was lovely meeting u and have a nice night

Majority of the time they come over out of curiosity or are interested a lot cuz I wasn't sweating them and I was polite straight to the point and walked away with no fukks given


Sometimes what I do is also go to the friend nobody talks too and dance with her then continue up the line with the whole group till I reach my goal cuz it shows i don't discriminate and I'm a fun person that everybody gets a chance to have fun with me which also impresses not only her but her friends and even encourage her to get at me
My intention on doing this is just to have fun honestly even if I don't get to have the success I want but in return dancing with her friends can be better cuz a friend could surprise u and have a lot in common with u that u rather talk to her instead of the one u initially wanted too
That tends to happen too me more often to be honest

Finally fukked that tall chick. :blessed:

nutted bout quick asa bytch tho :damn:

Happens to
The best of Brehs
This one time I was with this pr/Mexican mix lasted 5 mins and was like :yeshrug: and said hey happens to the best of us if u wanna judge me cuz of this one time that's on u otherwise u can get the true deal next time it's up too u
NEVER HEARD FROM HER AGAIN
:russ:
 

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Got a date on friday. cute indie chick, no expectations but to chill, enjoy myself and hookup.

but we back out here brehs :wow:
good shyt. im trying to set something up this weekend with this girl i know. if she cant go ill just head up there solo. :yeshrug:
 

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For me I stay the course and do same when no competition
No fukks given be myself either she feelin me or she not

Ex:
Several guys tried to holler at this one girl and I was observing and its what I always do before making any move on a female to see my surroundings let alone if guys hollering at a particular one that I want too

All I did was bought drink of what I like said excuse me and said my name said what caught my attention about her whether it's her smile or her eyes or how she carried herself it was truth no bs when I say this cuz it's the only reason y I'm gonna holler at u anyways then I go I'll buy u a drink of what I'm having or if u don't drink it's fine and I respect that I'll be over at the bar chilling if u wanna talk too me or get at me coo if not it was lovely meeting u and have a nice night

Majority of the time they come over out of curiosity or are interested a lot cuz I wasn't sweating them and I was polite straight to the point and walked away with no fukks given


Sometimes what I do is also go to the friend nobody talks too and dance with her then continue up the line with the whole group till I reach my goal cuz it shows i don't discriminate and I'm a fun person that everybody gets a chance to have fun with me which also impresses not only her but her friends and even encourage her to get at me
My intention on doing this is just to have fun honestly even if I don't get to have the success I want but in return dancing with her friends can be better cuz a friend could surprise u and have a lot in common with u that u rather talk to her instead of the one u initially wanted too
That tends to happen too me more often to be honest



Happens to
The best of Brehs
This one time I was with this pr/Mexican mix lasted 5 mins and was like :yeshrug: and said hey happens to the best of us if u wanna judge me cuz of this one time that's on u otherwise u can get the true deal next time it's up too u
NEVER HEARD FROM HER AGAIN
:russ:
This girl like my homie I know ima be hearing her lil jokes about this :beli:
 

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I feel you man, i havent been congruent at all :snoop:
You going over there was a mistake and the only way to fix it is to go complete no contact on her. That means do not contact her in any way.

And the last thing you need right now it a new chick to distract you from your real issues. You don't seem like you're in a good place mentally where you can even have a solid relationship/date without getting caught up. Take a lot of time for yourself (I'm talking multiple months). Lift, improve your wardrobe, focus on friendships that you may have neglected. Just be by yourself for a while.
 
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