For me I stay the course and do same when no competition
No fukks given be myself either she feelin me or she not
Ex:
Several guys tried to holler at this one girl and I was observing and its what I always do before making any move on a female to see my surroundings let alone if guys hollering at a particular one that I want too
All I did was bought drink of what I like said excuse me and said my name said what caught my attention about her whether it's her smile or her eyes or how she carried herself it was truth no bs when I say this cuz it's the only reason y I'm gonna holler at u anyways then I go I'll buy u a drink of what I'm having or if u don't drink it's fine and I respect that I'll be over at the bar chilling if u wanna talk too me or get at me coo if not it was lovely meeting u and have a nice night
Majority of the time they come over out of curiosity or are interested a lot cuz I wasn't sweating them and I was polite straight to the point and walked away with no fukks given
Sometimes what I do is also go to the friend nobody talks too and dance with her then continue up the line with the whole group till I reach my goal cuz it shows i don't discriminate and I'm a fun person that everybody gets a chance to have fun with me which also impresses not only her but her friends and even encourage her to get at me
My intention on doing this is just to have fun honestly even if I don't get to have the success I want but in return dancing with her friends can be better cuz a friend could surprise u and have a lot in common with u that u rather talk to her instead of the one u initially wanted too
That tends to happen too me more often to be honest
Happens to
The best of Brehs
This one time I was with this pr/Mexican mix lasted 5 mins and was like

and said hey happens to the best of us if u wanna judge me cuz of this one time that's on u otherwise u can get the true deal next time it's up too u
NEVER HEARD FROM HER AGAIN