Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[PinotNoir]

Such hatred? Are you talking about my post?

Lol no the poster named after the bird....maybe he was responding to you but his advice is horrible and he clearly has issues which he's selfishly using as advice to you guys. I'm sorry but I have to let people know when I see something so wrong happening..

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Went on the date on friday with ol girl. Cute lil Sinead O Connor ass chick

Was kind of aloof at first but being in a relationship you sometimes forget just how charming you are as a dude. Within like a half hour shes completely into me and we leave the bar go back to my crib, I throw some aphex twin on and use some of my Esthetician skills to give her a massage and shes putty. Pure fukking putty. We didn't have sex but made out for a while and she def has the googly eyes already. Bought me drinks and smoked me up already and she a chef with ambition. Body not as trill as my ex but some huge t*ts on a small frame

At the least she'll be a cool chick to have on the roster for the fact her musical taste is great and she loves to dance and do drugs.

at using aphex twin to seduce. if you gone fukk to electronic music breh all i can say is you better have the stamina you can't be out of beat. we are talking 45 strokes a minute breh

 

[Deafheaven]

at using aphex twin to seduce. if you gone fukk to electronic music breh all i can say is you better have the stamina you can't be out of beat. we are talking 45 strokes a minute breh

I dont want to toot my horn but my sex game A1.

And she said she loked the shyt and I happen to be a actual fan so

 

[DanniC]

Yo! This happen to me last weekend. She was on some white supremacist tip fukkery. I charged her to the game by outing he rout on snapchat of my experience with her at the beach that day. She send me a snap telling me I was a "lame" and will never get a gf, all that bs women say to you when they are mad. Following week I go to the gym to sign up and she is there. She looks at me with anger and storms off into the bathroom. Before I gave her my number she kept hitting me up to go to the beach I kept avoiding her cause I always been curved and lead on by women so I was skeptical of her thinking she will run game on me. 3rd week I finally gave her a chance and she was alright, but then she got comfortable and started her racist nonsense and other bs. Her personality is rude and disrespectful and she has low self esteem. She looks alright but her personality kills it. She always talking ish about anyone including kids. Anyway I'm thinking she gonna hit me up this Saturday for the beach, but I always go to the beach solo n gonna run into her. I ain't trippin over her cause I really don't care for her n talking to other chicks. What y'all think of this?

 

[Crayola Coyote]

its like I said if your not a womans number 1 your wasting your time. YOu don't have to be the richest, treat her best, the sexiest you can be dead broke, in an dout of jail, treat her like dirt but if you are her number 1. I'm not saying treat a woman bad, but I've realized through life if you are a womans number 1 you don't have to simp or go over and about.

Uummm... I think my friend is like this. When I go to her city she treat her current BF as a pushover.

 

[Deathstroke]

Brehs. If only y'all knew the truths that has been written in this thread. I was involved with a chick recently for like a month or two. She was so involved at first , sending me morning messages, going out of her ways to make long convos, but she started acting weird recently, not hitting me up as much as she used to. I tried giving her excuses like "maybe she's busy", "she's still flirting with me" , " i gotta step my game up". Well today i found out from a mutual friend she was seeing someone. When i got the news, I felt relieved because I knew all this worrying and stressing about her would be over. So i hit her up. This is how the convo went:
Me : Huh you got a boyfriend?(with the rudy gay face too lmao)
Her: Omg who told you, it wasn't official until a couple days ago...
Me: Should have told me earlier!
Her: (BLABLABLA long ass essay)......
But i wanted to tell you. It went so fast. Im sorry. The opportunity didn't present itself....
Me: For sure.

And deleted the number on this note. I'm not here for the bs. And honestly I kind of feel good about it because I knew something was up but I kept thinking she was different and would tell me if anything changed between us. I made sure she knew I wasn't for that friendship before we started. And it's sad how she kept acting like nothing was wrong when we talked yesterday. Funny how right after this happened,she went and checked my most recent snapchat story when she hasn't been checking the last ones before. Probably to see if I deleted her on social medias and ish. But nah I ain't with that. She can have a courtside ticket to see my dope life. So brehs, don't waste overthinking. If they with it they with it. If not, bye bye.

 

[TRUEST]

Brehs. If only y'all knew the truths that has been written in this thread. I was involved with a chick recently for like a month or two. She was so involved at first , sending me morning messages, going out of her ways to make long convos, but she started acting weird recently, not hitting me up as much as she used to. I tried giving her excuses like "maybe she's busy", "she's still flirting with me" , " i gotta step my game up". Well today i found out from a mutual friend she was seeing someone. When i got the news, I felt relieved because I knew all this worrying and stressing about her would be over. So i hit her up. This is how the convo went:
Me : Huh you got a boyfriend?(with the rudy gay face too lmao)
Her: Omg who told you, it wasn't official until a couple days ago...
Me: Should have told me earlier!
Her: (BLABLABLA long ass essay)......
But i wanted to tell you. It went so fast. Im sorry. The opportunity didn't present itself....
Me: For sure.

And deleted the number on this note. I'm not here for the bs. And honestly I kind of feel good about it because I knew something was up but I kept thinking she was different and would tell me if anything changed between us. I made sure she knew I wasn't for that friendship before we started. And it's sad how she kept acting like nothing was wrong when we talked yesterday. Funny how right after this happened,she went and checked my most recent snapchat story when she hasn't been checking the last ones before. Probably to see if I deleted her on social medias and ish. But nah I ain't with that. She can have a courtside ticket to see my dope life. So brehs, don't waste overthinking. If they with it they with it. If not, bye bye.

there's a lot of things i've noticed guys in this thread keep doing wrong. and that is the desperate need to get an explanation from a chick or to have the final word. u didn't need to text this chick to validate whether or not she has a boyfriend. u had no reason. none. absolutely zero. if a chick that use to text u all of a sudden goes silent, u go silent too. i meant wtf.

 

[Deathstroke]

there's a lot of things i've noticed guys in this thread keep doing wrong. and that is the desperate need to get an explanation from a chick or to have the final word. u didn't need to text this chick to validate whether or not she has a boyfriend. u had no reason. none. absolutely zero. if a chick that use to text u all of a sudden goes silent, u go silent too. i meant wtf.

I hear you. But she didn't go silent. She still texted me FIRST this morning before this ish. And I like when things are straight. That's just how i am. Hence why I asked her if she had a boyfriend or not. Had she say no, I guess we still would have gone out after exams like we planned to. But I'm not about to play the side fam.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

there's a lot of things i've noticed guys in this thread keep doing wrong. and that is the desperate need to get an explanation from a chick or to have the final word. u didn't need to text this chick to validate whether or not she has a boyfriend. u had no reason. none. absolutely zero. if a chick that use to text u all of a sudden goes silent, u go silent too. i meant wtf.

I think once you get over the huddle of needing an explanation or having the final word is when you will become fine with relationships and women. It's really that simple. Focus on the what's not the whys like somebody said earlier in this thread. Chicks are not a math equation you can solve, no amount of a priori analysis will ensure you have the right answer. It is a waste of time. Focus on ppl who don't make you feel like you have to jump through all those mental hoops. I have friends who I'm just fine chilling with as myself, whereas others it always feels like I'm molding myself into a completely different person just to fit in or stay on their good side, it's like a kind of prison brehs, don't bother.

 

[Ohene]

Lol no the poster named after the bird....maybe he was responding to you but his advice is horrible and he clearly has issues which he's selfishly using as advice to you guys. I'm sorry but I have to let people know when I see something so wrong happening..

if youre talking to me...my name has nothing to do with birds

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

if youre talking to me...my name has nothing to do with birds

IKR I was like at what she was talking about. Had me googling "asantehene bird" and shyt.

 

[Ohene]

IKR I was like at what she was talking about. Had me googling "asantehene bird" and shyt.

my name means king of the ashanti tribe

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

my name means king of the ashanti tribe

I'm African breh, I already know

Might have just solved the mystery tho. I just noticed you reppin "Byrdgang" fam

 

[Ohene]

I'm African breh, I already know

Might have just solved the mystery tho. I just noticed you reppin "Byrdgang" fam

There we go

 

[Deafheaven]

IKR I was like at what she was talking about. Had me googling "asantehene bird" and shyt.

Breh I was doing the same shyt