Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Bush.

:wow:no lips even on a first date is weird to me.

My first date averages are :wow:
Two girls ago I f*cked after the first date sent her straight to bushes after(I'm not heartless so we still talk and are friendly)

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Been talking to a few old friends of mine who've been making moves, doing big things and stuff. Made me realize that I've been slacking a little bit. I have to step it up. & I'm actively not trying to date or deal with girls no more - its just a money pit honestly. At least for me anyways.
 
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She wants me to take her out to Olive Gardens and a movie next week(:deadmanny:). And I was "sure" I will. After we spoke to each other I simply delete/block her number. :obama:

But you're right today's generation of women wants a man that is 6+, good looks, big penis (no homo), a body of a greek God, 6 figures, etc. It's sad but it is what it is. I'm attracted to a smart and ambitious woman. Not gold diggers. I try to go for the smart, educated, kind hearted woman. But it is extremely difficult to find one. In the mean time, I am 22 years old and working on myself.

My cousin told me if I find a woman that is kind, loyal, educated, virgin (nonvirgin too),you should hold on to her.

Kinda hating on the low that you dogged her out like this :obama::sas1:

If I ever got a chance to reject a broad like this I would relish it for years afterwards :blessed::blessed:
 

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I feel like I'm the only single person and it hurt when I found out my ex is now seeing someone, I sorta figured she was these last few months. I blew it I def miss her, she was a great woman
 

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Caught my girl sending messages to other girls again.

Shes out of town so i packed her shyt by the door. Either we both can smash other chicks on the side or she can :camby:

Called off work since im so heated. :fire:
 

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Been talking to a few old friends of mine who've been making moves, doing big things and stuff. Made me realize that I've been slacking a little bit. I have to step it up. & I'm actively not trying to date or deal with girls no more - its just a money pit honestly. At least for me anyways.

i took an L trading stock options last year and lost 6K when the S&P500 tanked (was killing shyt but then I fell down a slippery slope :mjcry: ). That was a summer's worth of savings gone but I've managed to bounce back and hit 12K worth of savings less than 7 months later while helping my parents pay their mortgage mind you.

It would've been harder to do that if I had a steady girlfriend. But yo peep this.

If a girl really really likes you, and you establish that you're a leader, responsible and a hot commodity whose time is precious then it doesnt matter how frugal or cheap you are...a good woman will fall in line and take heed. There is no reason to feel pressure to spend bread on a girl. After a while they become happy just to spend time with you because

A) They know the reason for your cheapness is because you got bigger plans and they wanna be a part of said plans
B) Basking in your presence is satisfactory enough because it's rare...low supply...high demand = higher perception of value

I'm not saying propose a netflix and chill whenever you and a girl you're courting meet up. But communicate your busyness and finesse a situation where you agree to have a date night once a month or something. Works wonders. It's only when a girl sees you and talks to you so often that she becomes bored and then requires doing shyt out of the ordinary.

shyt ...

I remember a 3 month period where I smashed 3 girls last year.

Girl 1: Most I spent on her was LITERALLY a sundae from DQ. Second time we met up I smashed. Shortly after I had this girl trying to impress me with her cooking and bringing ME food when we would kick it. She was a bit too quiet and I like girls who I can talk to about real life shyt; girls I can educate but still learn from. She was too...bland so I deaded it.

Girl 2: Hmmm...First date we went to Salad King and then walked downtown and conversed. Cost about 25 bucks between the two of us. Smashed shortly afterwards...dont think I ever took her on a real date though after. She would either come to the crib or we would meet up after work and just shoot the shyt and catchup. She was on my dikk heavy, but she just wasnt good enough for me to wife. Eventually my arrogance and lack of feelings for her caught up to me and bit me in the ass and she cut me off lol.

Girl 3: Took her to Ripleys Aquarium for the first date. About $55 bucks between us. Smashed that date...(best fukk/head of my life) and the vibe was so bless that she would love just coming over and kicking it with the kid. Didnt matter if I was studying, working from home, watching basketball, watching TV or whatever. She wanted to come over to see a nikka and get this dikk. We got serious and would go on dates once a month. Who paid for the date alternated every month.

Lot of text i typed. But in summary...YOU'RE YOUNG! GET OUT THERE AND fukk THESE HOES. Just dont let them dupe you or run game on you. Keep your antenna up. You can focus on stacking bread, improving your physicality, mentality etc and still get at these hoes. It isn't difficult. Just dont go clubbing and shyt...meet women as you go about your day.
 

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I got a cool little honey dip coming over tonight at the crib. we've been talking on the phone for a while. We met once and had lunch but nothing happened because i was still married at the time (almost a year ago). I don't have my hopes up, but I'm glad she is coming over because that's just one step closer to getting them draws. Other than that, she's a cool chick, very family oriented, church going woman. I'm not expecting a lot out of it though. We'll see. I'll keep yall updated
 

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i took an L trading stock options last year and lost 6K when the S&P500 tanked (was killing shyt but then I fell down a slippery slope :mjcry: ). That was a summer's worth of savings gone but I've managed to bounce back and hit 12K worth of savings less than 7 months later while helping my parents pay their mortgage mind you.

It would've been harder to do that if I had a steady girlfriend. But yo peep this.

If a girl really really likes you, and you establish that you're a leader, responsible and a hot commodity whose time is precious then it doesnt matter how frugal or cheap you are...a good woman will fall in line and take heed. There is no reason to feel pressure to spend bread on a girl. After a while they become happy just to spend time with you because

A) They know the reason for your cheapness is because you got bigger plans and they wanna be a part of said plans
B) Basking in your presence is satisfactory enough because it's rare...low supply...high demand = higher perception of value

I'm not saying propose a netflix and chill whenever you and a girl you're courting meet up. But communicate your busyness and finesse a situation where you agree to have a date night once a month or something. Works wonders. It's only when a girl sees you and talks to you so often that she becomes bored and then requires doing shyt out of the ordinary.

shyt ...

I remember a 3 month period where I smashed 3 girls last year.

Girl 1: Most I spent on her was LITERALLY a sundae from DQ. Second time we met up I smashed. Shortly after I had this girl trying to impress me with her cooking and bringing ME food when we would kick it. She was a bit too quiet and I like girls who I can talk to about real life shyt; girls I can educate but still learn from. She was too...bland so I deaded it.

Girl 2: Hmmm...First date we went to Salad King and then walked downtown and conversed. Cost about 25 bucks between the two of us. Smashed shortly afterwards...dont think I ever took her on a real date though after. She would either come to the crib or we would meet up after work and just shoot the shyt and catchup. She was on my dikk heavy, but she just wasnt good enough for me to wife. Eventually my arrogance and lack of feelings for her caught up to me and bit me in the ass and she cut me off lol.

Girl 3: Took her to Ripleys Aquarium for the first date. About $55 bucks between us. Smashed that date...(best fukk/head of my life) and the vibe was so bless that she would love just coming over and kicking it with the kid. Didnt matter if I was studying, working from home, watching basketball, watching TV or whatever. She wanted to come over to see a nikka and get this dikk. We got serious and would go on dates once a month. Who paid for the date alternated every month.

Lot of text i typed. But in summary...YOU'RE YOUNG! GET OUT THERE AND fukk THESE HOES. Just dont let them dupe you or run game on you. Keep your antenna up. You can focus on stacking bread, improving your physicality, mentality etc and still get at these hoes. It isn't difficult. Just dont go clubbing and shyt...meet women as you go about your day.


nice breh :myman:

I would also say - don't be afraid to take that L when confronting women. Don't, it's gonna happen or it won't. The worst she can do is say no. :smugdraper:
 
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