Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[root_eruditorium_org]

She came over again, we fukked talked about "Us" fukked and she left.

I feel so used

Damn, I didn't know old heads dealt with this kind of drama

What's good bruh? You the one supposed to be kickin game to us young nikkas. You got over 50 years of HOH experience

Why you feel used though? You the one who turned this chick into a high functioning alcoholic. Idk man, both of you already sound like a typical "dysfunctional" married couple, might as well wife that and help her get over those trust issues by being a stand up guy.

 

[Deafheaven]

Damn, I didn't know old heads dealt with this kind of drama

What's good bruh? You the one supposed to be kickin game to us young nikkas. You got over 50 years of HOH experience

Why you feel used though? You the one who turned this chick into a high functioning alcoholic. Idk man, both of you already sound like a typical "dysfunctional" married couple, might as well wife that and help her get over those trust issues by being a stand up guy.

To expand on this thought. My mom and dad broke up when I was young as fukk. Now they older and having dealt with bad relationships since I ever I could remember (probably why I had such a fukked up perspective on what love is) they trying to get back together It seems whether 19 or 56 people deal with the exaccctttt sammmeeee shyttttt. Its pretty sobering tbh.

 

[kevm3]

Well, the Nigerian engineer went cold on me Monday. Asked about her test that day and tried to set something up for the weekend, left my ass on read

I have some yams in another city, but she's 30 min away. She doesnt drive and who has gas/time to make that tripbut just yesterday a chick in one of my classes hooked me up with one of her homegirls. She's not all that but she's decent looking, religious, and an AKA

This shii literally has me likebecause im 22, got my career together, own car, own place, etc. I lift 4-5 times a week and even get approached every so often by women But still not GTD (or in a relationship) how id like to lol. I think its because im so lowkey. I dont run with a large group and i only go out every now and then

I think this is next on my to-do list. Learning how to be more social

That's just how women are these days. They have so many options, they'll go cold on you in a whim and you might end up questioning yourself, but don't. That's just how modern women are.

 

[The Mad Titan]

That's just how women are these days. They have so many options, they'll go cold on you in a whim and you might end up questioning yourself, but don't. That's just how modern women are.

good advice

 

[EffYou]

I have to learn to find a right balance between bushing a girl for being a thot and bushing a girl for not putting out.

Basically two girls are in my life at the moment; one is a real cool chick who I could see myself holding a successful relationship with if one were to blossom. Anyways she's playing this "I'm not easy like other girls" bs, now she's only done it once where I would usually bush a b*tch I let it slide.

Chick 2: hot,attitute, bad b*tch. I could fukk her today. I most likely won't take her serious just for the fact its easy.



I was proposing applying a 2-3 date rule for me to smash before I bush. That should create a decent balance.







*I'm high asf just ranting on this b*tch*

 

[Deafheaven]

I have to learn to find a right balance between bushing a girl for being a thot and bushing a girl for not putting out.

Basically two girls are in my life at the moment; one is a real cool chick who I could see myself holding a successful relationship with if one were to blossom. Anyways she's playing this "I'm not easy like other girls" bs, now she's only done it once where I would usually bush a b*tch I let it slide.

Chick 2: hot,attitute, bad b*tch. I could fukk her today. I most likely won't take her serious just for the fact its easy.



I was proposing applying a 2-3 date rule for me to smash before I bush. That should create a decent balance.







*I'm high asf just ranting on this b*tch*

I'd say 3-5

after that if you haven't formed a strong enough bond yet then I would def bush.

 

[EffYou]

I'd say 3-5

after that if you haven't formed a strong enough bond yet then I would def bush.

Smh I've always bushed after #1, #2 being the most.

 

[Deafheaven]

Smh I've always bushed after #1, #2 being the most.

Man most girls aren't going to want to fukk someone after seeing them one time if there is 0 history there lol. I get where your coming from tho. my personal limit has always been like 2-4 and if I haven't hit by then Ill just fall back and let her figure out what how to get my attention again.

 

[Solano707]

I'd say 3-5

after that if you haven't formed a strong enough bond yet then I would def bush.

Yeah, 3-5 date range is good, especially if you guys talk a lot between those times.

 

[MikelArteta]

What you have doesn't mean anything.
Elliot Rodgers was rich and drove a Mercedes or Benz



There's a dude broker than you, uglier, than you, weighing less than a Ethiopian refugee, shorter than you, living in a roach infested basement, working min wage that is canoodling and cavorting with a chick.

Well, the Nigerian engineer went cold on me Monday. Asked about her test that day and tried to set something up for the weekend, left my ass on read

I have some yams in another city, but she's 30 min away. She doesnt drive and who has gas/time to make that tripbut just yesterday a chick in one of my classes hooked me up with one of her homegirls. She's not all that but she's decent looking, religious, and an AKA

This shii literally has me likebecause im 22, got my career together, own car, own place, etc. I lift 4-5 times a week and even get approached every so often by women But still not GTD (or in a relationship) how id like to lol. I think its because im so lowkey. I dont run with a large group and i only go out every now and then

I think this is next on my to-do list. Learning how to be more social

 

[Urbanmiracle]

If there was something there it would have happened by now.

I thought you and the nurse were building.

We still are. I'm also have other prospects I'm talking to. I like the nurse but she is broken and I'm not really her "preference". She liked muscles and all and I'm like Shaq. But whatever I'm doing it's keeping her attention on me and we hang out a lot. I'm not gonna sweat it.

 

[The ADD]

We still are. I'm also have other prospects I'm talking to. I like the nurse but she is broken and I'm not really her "preference". She liked muscles and all and I'm like Shaq. But whatever I'm doing it's keeping her attention on me and we hang out a lot. I'm not gonna sweat it.

Unless she is mentioning your physique constantly I wouldn't sweat it. If she is then she needs to kick rocks.

 

[TRUEST]

Yeah, 3-5 date range is good, especially if you guys talk a lot between those times.

wow. 3 to 5? really?
i already know from date 1 if a chick is worth it. i say after date 1, if that chick aint enthusiastic to meet up u need to dead that sh1t quick.
my experiences with women have been, after the first date they already know if they're really into u. and they'll be blowing up ur phone talking about their day and all that crazy sh1t. all that "wooing" sh1t only happens in the movies.

 

[Urbanmiracle]

Unless she is mentioning your physique constantly I wouldn't sweat it. If she is then she needs to kick rocks.

She never mentions it. Always says I dress nice and smell good.

 

[The ADD]

She never mentions it. Always says I dress nice and smell good.

I would throw that out as why it wouldn't work. The other issues are likely valid but just because you aren't her "body preference" should be anything you factor into it. IMO