Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Solano707]

wow. 3 to 5? really?
i already know from date 1 if a chick is worth it. i say after date 1, if that chick aint enthusiastic to meet up u need to dead that sh1t quick.
my experiences with women have been, after the first date they already know if they're really into u. and they'll be blowing up ur phone talking about their day and all that crazy sh1t. all that "wooing" sh1t only happens in the movies.

I don't know, tha't just my personal preference. I'm at 34 years old, so I for me - i'm looking for more into quality. I'm not into digging out a chick on the first date beacuse I know once I do, my interest for her after that skeet goes So i need something tangible between her and I for me to be connected with. Unless she's a harlot and I'm just trying to get this nut off real quick.

 

[Deafheaven]

I mean yeah chick can be totally into after a first date but doesnt mean shes gonna fukk you. I gotten shirts off, pants off, titties in mouth on first dates. Didnt scrape but did shortly thereafter. I kind of always tried to be as up front and forward as possible with my attraction because as a short pretty nikka girls are either gonna think your gay or their little brother if you take all day to make some advances. So even if Im not fukking on date one I trying at least to set the stage and put the thlught in her head.

 

[Solano707]

I mean yeah chick can be totally into after a first date but doesnt mean shes gonna fukk you. I gotten shirts off, pants off, titties in mouth on first dates. Didnt scrape but did shortly thereafter. I kind of always tried to be as up front and forward as possible with my attraction because as a short pretty nikka girls are either gonna think your gay or their little brother if you take all day to make some advances. So even if Im not fukking on date one I trying at least to set the stage and put the thlught in her head.

yeah, I'm a short breh too at 5'5 feet dangling off the park bench.

But, yeah, be upfront. For whatever reason though- a lot of tall chicks have been coming my way

 

[TRUEST]

I don't know, tha't just my personal preference. I'm at 34 years old, so I for me - i'm looking for more into quality. I'm not into digging out a chick on the first date beacuse I know once I do, my interest for her after that skeet goes So i need something tangible between her and I for me to be connected with. Unless she's a harlot and I'm just trying to get this nut off real quick.

what u goto understand is this. just because u're playing it slow and dont wanna try to fucck her the first night dont mean she wont or hasn't done it in the past. its better u find out early by trying than to fool urself into thinking u got urself a great one just because u didn't move fast enough to try to sleep her until the 4th date.

the point is, just because u didn't try to bed her early doesn't mean she wouldn't have allowed u.

 

[Deafheaven]

yeah, I'm a short breh too at 5'5 feet dangling off the park bench.

But, yeah, be upfront. For whatever reason though- a lot of tall chicks have been coming my way

I just decided to own that shyt and it gives me free reign to be as sexual as.possible pretty fast because chicks dont expect such confidence from a lil nikka. Ive been called a prince doppleganger from the vibe i give off and i look nothing like him rip to the legend

 

[MikelArteta]

Patience brehs, so what if a chick ain't feeling you. You know nothing about her, maybe she has full blown aids, maybe she's cheated on every bf in the past, maybe she's 100k in debt, maybe she's a whore, maybe she's has an abusive jealous ex bf who'd put a slug in you. All we see is a pretty fit and nice body and feel if it doesn't work out.



If you applied for a bunch of jobs paying 10 a hour and got no replies back or just thanks but no thanks, but if you get a job paying 15 a hour your not going to be thinking of those ten dollar ones that rejected you.

 

[Solano707]

what u goto understand is this. just because u're playing it slow and dont wanna try to fucck her the first night dont mean she wont or hasn't done it in the past. its better u find out early by trying than to fool urself into thinking u got urself a great one just because u didn't move fast enough to try to sleep her until the 4th date.

the point is, just because u didn't try to bed her early doesn't mean she wouldn't have allowed u.

i get that, but I guess hwat I meant to say is that usually if i have sex with a woman pretty fast, the dynamics change from my end like not wanting to be with her or having anything to do with her. if i find that im interested in her, i tend to hold on to that moment till later on.

 

[Illuminatos]

Aight so ya'll know the Haitian chick I made that thread about the other day when I got her number?

So we have a class assignment to do at the American Museum of Natural History in Manhattan and she wants me to go with her. But the weird part is that I went last week and I did the assignment. I even told her that I went and did the assignment and that I was gonna redo the assignment and give it to her to copy.

I'd say she wants to hang out with her but I'm more convinced that she just isn't listening to me.

 

[Ohene]

Aight so ya'll know the Haitian chick I made that thread about the other day when I got her number?

So we have a class assignment to do at the American Museum of Natural History in Manhattan and she wants me to go with her. But the weird part is that I went last week and I did the assignment. I even told her that I went and did the assignment and that I was gonna redo the assignment and give it to her to copy.

I'd say she wants to hang out with her but I'm more convinced that she just isn't listening to me.

just say "didnt i tell you last night i did the assignment? I'm good on going there again but how about we do such and such afterwards?"

and giving hoes assignments to copy? nikka please dont do that for anybody let alone a chick unless you're going to some trash school that would be none the wiser (or i guess if youre allowed to do it in groups *shrug*). Never trust somebody to copy you in a way that wont alert the professor that youre cheating. People are dumb and lazy.

brehs we need to stop overthinking our dealings with these women. If you have to think twice about whats going on and become insecure you're already in too deep. Take everything at face value. If a girl asks you to go somewhere and you dont wanna go...dont inconvenience yourself and jump through hoops to go. Suggest something else and if there's friction keep it moving. Stop feeling like you have to appease to them. They aren't above you just because you find them attractive. They're your equal (at best) lol.


PS: you're probably right in that she wasnt listening.

 

[lamont614]

Patience brehs, so what if a chick ain't feeling you. You know nothing about her, maybe she has full blown aids, maybe she's cheated on every bf in the past, maybe she's 100k in debt, maybe she's a whore, maybe she's has an abusive jealous ex bf who'd put a slug in you. All we see is a pretty fit and nice body and feel if it doesn't work out.



If you applied for a bunch of jobs paying 10 a hour and got no replies back or just thanks but no thanks, but if you get a job paying 15 a hour your not going to be thinking of those ten dollar ones that rejected you.

the jewels yall be dropping

 

[lamont614]

Well, the Nigerian engineer went cold on me Monday. Asked about her test that day and tried to set something up for the weekend, left my ass on read

I have some yams in another city, but she's 30 min away. She doesnt drive and who has gas/time to make that tripbut just yesterday a chick in one of my classes hooked me up with one of her homegirls. She's not all that but she's decent looking, religious, and an AKA

This shii literally has me likebecause im 22, got my career together, own car, own place, etc. I lift 4-5 times a week and even get approached every so often by women But still not GTD (or in a relationship) how id like to lol. I think its because im so lowkey. I dont run with a large group and i only go out every now and then

I think this is next on my to-do list. Learning how to be more social

just keep shooting nikka dont dwell on it

 

[360dagod]

Aight so ya'll know the Haitian chick I made that thread about the other day when I got her number?

So we have a class assignment to do at the American Museum of Natural History in Manhattan and she wants me to go with her. But the weird part is that I went last week and I did the assignment. I even told her that I went and did the assignment and that I was gonna redo the assignment and give it to her to copy.

I'd say she wants to hang out with her but I'm more convinced that she just isn't listening to me.

you might as well start over with another female

 

[Illuminatos]

you might as well start over with another female

Why? We're gonna spend some time together tomorrow.

 

[TRUEST]

Why? We're gonna spend some time together tomorrow.

ur basically bribing her. that's a no no. its very pathetic. its in ur best interest to make this girl work for whatever you do for her. i mean, how the fucck are u going to spend so much time doing work and give it to some random girl (yes she is random) in hopes that she'll like u?????

 

[True Blue Moon]

Always put vibe and connection over arbitrary rules. It's a thin line between avoiding being strung along and trying to validate your manhood based on whether or not she allows you to fukk in a timely manner. You also might be letting yourself off the hook for having to be the man and lead.

For instance, let's say it's the third date and yall are making out, but she stops you when you go to unzip her pants. Even though she's feeling you, a quality woman will always demand your presence, so it might be that you just fukked up the vibe in that particular moment.

Rather than just hitting her with "I thought you were feeling me. What's good "

Regroup, take a step back and heat her back up. Women always take longer to get turned on, even if they like you. And that's not just about catering to her - you can easily pressure a chick into giving it up, but you never want to logic your way into the p*ssy. That's when you start settling for wack sex just to validate yourself in the fact that she let you fukk. Whether it's your wife or a one night stand, you want her to be wet and begging for the dikk, and that requires you to be on your shyt and lead the dance.

Now if a chick is wasting your time then cancel her. But if it's a matter of you not properly putting your bid in and connecting, that's going to be an issue even if you meet the downest of chicks, because it becomes even more important when a chick is used to you and you're figuring out how to keep it fresh and preventing boredom.