Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr.Plan B]

I think nikkas really need to make the conscious decision to never let a woman love you less than you do her. If your at a 9 and shes a 8 she can feel it and its eventually gonna blow up. Personally Im never going to let a woman think Im more into her than she is to me, seems to be a recipe for heartbreak.

Man look you can't think like that, yeah some lady are heartbreakers but not all are like this.

 

[TRUEST]

Man look you can't think like that, yeah some lady are heartbreakers but not all are like this.

nah nah nah. that's the perfect way to think. glad he's come to that realization.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

nah nah nah. that's the perfect way to think. glad he's come to that realization.

He sound hurt, don't give these chick the benefit of making you act different way. Because when you find the right one all the rule go out the window.

 

[Deafheaven]

He sound hurt, don't give these chick the benefit of making you act different way. Because when you find the right one all the rule go out the window.

I actually think what I said is a good way to limit hurt

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

He sound hurt, don't give these chick the benefit of making you act different way. Because when you find the right one all the rule go out the window.

So true. That's why I always say take the pieces of advice mentioned here as general guidelines and customize them to suit your specific needs, because for every truism I've seen mentioned here I can point to an exception either in my relationship history or somebody else's. There's just too much diversity out there to paint these chicks with the exact same brush.

 

[TRUEST]

So true. That's why I always say take the pieces of advice mentioned here as general guidelines and customize them to suit your specific needs, because for every truism I've seen mentioned here I can point to an exception either in my relationship history or somebody else's. There's just too much diversity out there to paint these chicks with the exact same brush.

nah. not in this case. humans will always be humans wherever u go. i'm not going to argue about this but trust me when i tell u, it is in ur best interest to apply that thinking to EVERY relationship u get in. trust me on that.
i'm not saying be mean to ur girlfriends or anything. but a man can only lead a relationship the way he should when he's in a solid position where he knows he can do just fine with or without the woman. u r never gonna be in that position if u care MORE than the girl does.

there are some advice worth arguing over. This is not one of them.

 

[Deafheaven]

nah. not in this case. humans will always be humans wherever u go. i'm not going to argue about this but trust me when i tell u, it is in ur best interest to apply that thinking to EVERY relationship u get in. trust me on that.
i'm not saying be mean to ur girlfriends or anything. but a man can only lead a relationship the way he should when he's in a solid position where he knows he can do just fine with or without the woman. u r never gonna be in that position if u care MORE than the girl does.

there are some advice worth arguing over. This is not one of them.

Yeah you articulated exactly how I feel. Ive started to treat every girl the same whether fat, ugly, beautiful, skinny, big ass, w/e...the same since my beakup and the effortlessness of it is so refreshing. And I start to see that all women kind of behave similarly. Indifference, comfidence and having the perception that you have a myriad of options has me eating right now and I havent really changed shyt except ahowing that no I do not need you and Im going to do me regardless.

 

[True Blue Moon]

nah. not in this case. humans will always be humans wherever u go. i'm not going to argue about this but trust me when i tell u, it is in ur best interest to apply that thinking to EVERY relationship u get in. trust me on that.
i'm not saying be mean to ur girlfriends or anything. but a man can only lead a relationship the way he should when he's in a solid position where he knows he can do just fine with or without the woman. u r never gonna be in that position if u care MORE than the girl does.

there are some advice worth arguing over. This is not one of them.

Yeah, honestly this is actually a gift for her too. There are so many sexless marriages and it's usually because the woman isn't attracted to her man in the same way anymore due to comfort. You should always keep that edge and stay a tad bit cooler than her, because women need time and space to warm up. Dudes in love have a habit of getting very comfortable and overloving their woman, thinking it's what she wants instead of keeping the same energy and temperature that had her going crazy in the sexy days. A dude in love will do something goofy like buy flowers EVERY DAY which sounds good in a movie, but trust me, women get smothered after a while.

Always give her some space to heat up and come to you. It's healthy for her to have those big anime eyes for you and trying to get your attention, as opposed to you always chasing her, even if you've been married for a while. The little cat and mouse mating dance never, ever stops.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

nah. not in this case. humans will always be humans wherever u go. i'm not going to argue about this but trust me when i tell u, it is in ur best interest to apply that thinking to EVERY relationship u get in. trust me on that.
i'm not saying be mean to ur girlfriends or anything. but a man can only lead a relationship the way he should when he's in a solid position where he knows he can do just fine with or without the woman. u r never gonna be in that position if u care MORE than the girl does.

there are some advice worth arguing over. This is not one of them.

sorry fam i can't fully cosign your post. there's a lot of YMMV advice passed around here as if its gospel. any sort of unflagging, super firm viewpoints i see ... anywhere ... i look at with suspicion. there's just too many exceptions i've seen to have 100% faith in any one belief system.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

there's fundamentals of the game every guy should learn but outside of that orbit, you are in uncharted territory and not everybody's experience will map to another person's.

 

[TRUEST]

sorry fam i can't fully cosign your post. there's a lot of YMMV advice passed around here as if its gospel. any sort of unflagging, super firm viewpoints i see ... anywhere ... i look at with suspicion. there's just too many exceptions i've seen to have 100% faith in any one belief system.

if you think you're going to meet mrs. right and then u can just relax and throw all game/seduction out the window, u are dead wrong. based on ur post, i get the impression that's what ur envisioning. ur expecting to meet this unicorn girl that u're going to meet and really like, and u will just be urself and dote on her like they do in the movies and she'll forever love u. yeah, its up to you to decide if ur heartbreaks stop now, or years from now.

 

[Prynce]

I really love her

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

if you think you're going to meet mrs. right and then u can just relax and throw all game/seduction out the window, u are dead wrong. based on ur post, i get the impression that's what ur envisioning. ur expecting to meet this unicorn girl that u're going to meet and really like, and u will just be urself and dote on her like they do in the movies and she'll forever love u. yeah, its up to you to decide if ur heartbreaks stop now, or years from now.

nah that's not my objective, i've long ago realized that these hollywood style romeo and juliet relationships just don't happen in real life - my thing is i feel like i'm expending too much brainpower thinking about chicks when i could be doing something more productive with my time.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

double post

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

What's up with all these chicks looking away from a nikka?

They stare at my hair and I try to do a "Hello how are you?" and they just get all flustered and ignore me or look away

It's almost as if they're not used to men talking to them in public or some shyt....but if you look at they dating profile they sounding cocky as shyt

I know the chicks are feeling me and my hair(freeform ) but I won't lie, that looking away shyt be fukking me up for a lil