Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yeah that's what I told her straight up :francis: I would be lying if I said I wasn't a little hurt by the L but I'm just glad I came out of this like a man
And that's all that matters. L's are good because they keep you honest and give you something to learn from. Take pride in them like battle scars breh and may your W's be plentiful :blessed:
 

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been in a slump. over the last four months i've had no problem meeting women but closing the deal has always been an issue. either we live too far from one another, the girl busy, the girl a virgin, the girl flakes etc. i want some p*ssy but its looking like ima have to retreat :francis:
 

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been in a slump. over the last four months i've had no problem meeting women but closing the deal has always been an issue. either we live too far from one another, the girl busy, the girl a virgin, the girl flakes etc. i want some p*ssy but its looking like ima have to retreat :francis:


yeah man, i know what you mean

A few posts ago I mentioned this white girl i was messing with - serve the dikk one time and became obsessed. So I had to break it off with her... but somehow, eventually we started talking again. I do miss dikking her down, definitely the best freak i've ever had - swallowed nut like it was a glass of water :mjcry: She's cool as a friend, but I don't know. I don't want to get into that jam again (no pun intended). I know she wants to get with me - she even offered to buy a me a motorcycle (i told her i wanted one when we first go together), but i'm not like that - using a woman and all.

Truth be told, there some thigns i'm kinda iffy about - such as she looks like a middle aged white woman - that's because her being 39 and all. And she's at the BBW stage - something I don't really rock with. She has pale skin, so every time I bone this chick, it feels like i'm sticking a pig :skip: I think if she loses like 25 pounds, she'd be straight. Plus, she has been working out. Not sure what i'm gonna do about this brehs. I know for one thing though - i'm not getting into no relationship. fukk that:smugdraper: I'll let her know from the jump, that i'm not looking for any type of relationship, we can be cool, we can fukk, but that's about it. I think she may be down for it, but I won't bring it up unless she's trying to get he back blown out.:youngsabo: One thing I don't want to do, is lead someone else on like that - that's bad business right there.
 

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My ex texted me last night. Mostly bullshyt about that Lemonade and my thoughts on it. Weird thing was that a few weeks ago she acted like she never wanted to speak with me again and how she doesn't care how well i'm doing etc. and now shes asking if I'm alright, how is my fitness going, how I'm doing type shyt. I told her I'm straight and lets go for a walk sometime. She told me that wouldn't be good idea, at least not yet. I just agreed with her and said yeah I've had a lot of positive changes since we broke up, glad youre doing well too. No reason to stop the progression for either of us and ended the convo. I'm kind of like wtf because 3 weeks ago it was utter contempt, now she wants to dwell in a grey area :what: Probably realizing that fukk, a lot of nikkas really are fukking trash what have I done. whatever. I almost wish she didn't contact me cuz now I'm going to be thinking about it.
I got a couple dates this weekend already, one that is probably gonna lead to sex since I've chilled with her like 4 times already and have gotten hot n heavy but no ass :ld: . Its probably not the best idea to have her on my mind with other chicks. Would be selfish as fukk.
I'm gonna be real with you right now bro; you need to stop talking to your ex and take a break from women for a while. You're letting her mess with your mind when you should be focusing on you (not her, not other chicks, just YOU). The advice to run out and find another chick or distract yourself with multiple dates can cause more harm than good. It prevents us from working on ourselves, and you need to focus on you for a while. When's the last time you were truly single and only worried about yourself?

You've gotta do what's best for you, but I hope you consider this advice. At the very least stop talking to your ex. There's no going back and the quicker you accept the quicker you can heal up.

Coli brehs:

What I do if the girl has a boyfriend and is certain it'll last for a while ?
You made it clear you don't want to be friends so leave it alone. Don't fall for that "let's just be friends nonsense" breh. You put your bid in, she's got a dude, keep it moving. There's plenty of cuter, funnier, better chicks out there.
 

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yeah man, i know what you mean

A few posts ago I mentioned this white girl i was messing with - serve the dikk one time and became obsessed. So I had to break it off with her... but somehow, eventually we started talking again. I do miss dikking her down, definitely the best freak i've ever had - swallowed nut like it was a glass of water :mjcry: She's cool as a friend, but I don't know. I don't want to get into that jam again (no pun intended). I know she wants to get with me - she even offered to buy a me a motorcycle (i told her i wanted one when we first go together), but i'm not like that - using a woman and all.

Truth be told, there some thigns i'm kinda iffy about - such as she looks like a middle aged white woman - that's because her being 39 and all. And she's at the BBW stage - something I don't really rock with. She has pale skin, so every time I bone this chick, it feels like i'm sticking a pig :skip: I think if she loses like 25 pounds, she'd be straight. Plus, she has been working out. Not sure what i'm gonna do about this brehs. I know for one thing though - i'm not getting into no relationship. fukk that:smugdraper: I'll let her know from the jump, that i'm not looking for any type of relationship, we can be cool, we can fukk, but that's about it. I think she may be down for it, but I won't bring it up unless she's trying to get he back blown out.:youngsabo: One thing I don't want to do, is lead someone else on like that - that's bad business right there.
Kind of how I feel. I aint trying to be serious right now unless you blow me away.

also on the body tip man I feel that.
I'm gonna be real with you right now bro; you need to stop talking to your ex and take a break from women for a while. You're letting her mess with your mind when you should be focusing on you (not her, not other chicks, just YOU). The advice to run out and find another chick or distract yourself with multiple dates can cause more harm than good. It prevents us from working on ourselves, and you need to focus on you for a while. When's the last time you were truly single and only worried about yourself?

You've gotta do what's best for you, but I hope you consider this advice. At the very least stop talking to your ex. There's no going back and the quicker you accept the quicker you can heal up.


You made it clear you don't want to be friends so leave it alone. Don't fall for that "let's just be friends nonsense" breh. You put your bid in, she's got a dude, keep it moving. There's plenty of cuter, funnier, better chicks out there.
Ive been working on myself heavily tho breh. Back working, working out, going to get my massage license in the fall, meditation, reading, doing shyt I enjoy. I havemt just been festering away aince the breakup at all.
 

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My ex texted me last night. Mostly bullshyt about that Lemonade and my thoughts on it. Weird thing was that a few weeks ago she acted like she never wanted to speak with me again and how she doesn't care how well i'm doing etc. and now shes asking if I'm alright, how is my fitness going, how I'm doing type shyt. I told her I'm straight and lets go for a walk sometime. She told me that wouldn't be good idea, at least not yet. I just agreed with her and said yeah I've had a lot of positive changes since we broke up, glad youre doing well too. No reason to stop the progression for either of us and ended the convo. I'm kind of like wtf because 3 weeks ago it was utter contempt, now she wants to dwell in a grey area :what: Probably realizing that fukk, a lot of nikkas really are fukking trash what have I done. whatever. I almost wish she didn't contact me cuz now I'm going to be thinking about it.
I got a couple dates this weekend already, one that is probably gonna lead to sex since I've chilled with her like 4 times already and have gotten hot n heavy but no ass :ld: . Its probably not the best idea to have her on my mind with other chicks. Would be selfish as fukk.

Stop responding to her. Ignore everything.

She's just seeing what type off hold she has on you

And your let's reconnect after you disrespected me act
is weak and she's probably subconsciously disgusted


If you feel the urge to talk to her... just write it down and burn that sh!t
Or when she hits you up...just tell her what you told us

I been seeing this girl for 4 times and haven't got the booty hoping
to smash this weekend..


Because not being selfish is working out for you huh ?:mjlol:
 

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Stop responding to her. Ignore everything.

She's just seeing what type off hold she has on you

And your let's reconnect after you disrespected me act
is weak and she's probably subconsciously disgusted


If you feel the urge to talk to her... just write it down and burn that sh!t
Or when she hits you up...just tell her what you told us

I been seeing this girl for 4 times and haven't got the booty hoping
to smash this weekend..


Because not being selfish is working out for you huh ?:mjlol:
Sorry breh not everyone capable of fukking girls in 2 hours like you :ld:
 

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Sorry breh not everyone capable of fukking girls in 2 hours like you :ld:


I look forward to the next post about ya ex manipulating you:stopitslime:

You think she's questioning her selfishness when she ridin other dikk ? :lolbron:
 

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I look forward to the next post about ya ex manipulating you:stopitslime:

You think she's questioning her selfishness when she ridin other dikk ? :lolbron:
nikka i meant itd be selfish to the other bytches im messing with to be dealing with them with my ex in my mind wtf :pachaha:


Also i never really claimed to be a game ubermensch, im still learning everyday :ld:
 

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nikka i meant itd be selfish to the other bytches im messing with to be dealing with them with my ex in my mind wtf :pachaha:


Also i never really claimed to be a game ubermensch, im still learning everyday :ld:



Y'all ain't a couple so why you denying these other girls the obelisk ?:dame:
You think they care ? It would be selfish NOT to :lolbron:
 

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Y'all ain't a couple so why you denying these other girls the obelisk ?:dame:
You think they care ? It would be selfish NOT to :lolbron:

Im trying to fukk them breh just havent yet :dame:


I always felt 3-5 dates was the limit to smashing new chicks so if I don't after this time then yes I have problems with one of them :dame:
 

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Im trying to fukk them breh just havent yet :dame:


I always felt 3-5 dates was the limit to smashing new chicks so if I don't after this time then yes I have problems with one of them :dame:

It used to be ...but women are thirstier now and within the first date they wanna f*ck :dame:
 
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