Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Something funny happened today. The chick who I Iike who's on my bus route ... today I took the late bus again and I saw her and her brother get on (I say brother because he looks too much like her to be anything else). They came right by to where I was sitting and started chatting with the lady sitting in front of me (they were standing). The bus was full and the driver was requesting everybody to move all the way back. In order to appease the driver and still talk to her friend she had to contort herself into this awkward pose and her skirt kept brushing on to me. I was :noah:brehs the entire bus ride. Once we reached the stop I got out right behind her and stood on the platform to wait for the subway a little bit to her left. She was still talking to her friend and her brother so I couldn't really talk to her but i wanted to stay close enough such that if there was an opening I would move in. Anyways, the train arrived at the station and it was packed as hell. This was during rush hour so it's normal but it's still kind of fukked up cuz a nikka was already late, i didn't wanna have to wait for another packed-ass train. Anyways, I managed to get in somehow and was looking to my left to see if she got in too. Kept scanning for her head but couldn't tease her out. So I was just like :yeshrug: "lemme wait till the train clears up a little bit. I kept my gaze directed towards the exit doors, windows. When the train started moving can you believe I saw the chick STILLL standing on the platform ... by herself!?? I guess her bro and her friend managed to get in but she couldn't. Brehs I was kicking myself hard when I saw her standing there alone. If I was right close to her I could've been slick and stayed back and shot my shot, letting the goddamn cockblockers get drawn away by the train :mjlol: but alas :yeshrug:

Another morning, another loss ...

I can't win brehs :manny:

Theres seldomly a perfect time to talk to females. If you keep looking for the perfect time you'll just keep waiting. I bet if u were alone with her on the platform u still wouldn't of said nothing....another excuse woulda came up.

How do you attract hood/ street females if you're from the suburbs? Detailed answers please

Lmao seeing how u asked that question it ain't gonna work. "Hood/street" females are regular females..lik every female.

Just be cool and don't be lame :yeshrug:
 

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Its a real cold game out there fellas. Apparently I seen this chick on my timeline(which I'm cool with) posting with her new dude just like a week or 2 after breaking it off with her ex.

Now keep in mind, Her ex was the one that spent time in helping her lose weight, getting on that serious diet plan, boosting her confidence when she felt fat and even encouraged her when she didn't feel she can work out(She said all of this when everything was all good). They were even workout buddies at this point.

So now she looks like a brand new person, she's getting a lot of newfound attention, IG giving her a platform and most likely shorty felt she didn't need ol dude any more. So they split(which was obvious because I haven't seen them post anything together) But yet now she posted up with her new dude and calling themselves "swolemates",

May have saved shorty's health and this the thanks he get :stopitslime:
 

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Its a real cold game out there fellas. Apparently I seen this chick on my timeline(which I'm cool with) posting with her new dude just like a week or 2 after breaking it off with her ex.

Now keep in mind, Her ex was the one that spent time in helping her lose weight, getting on that serious diet plan, boosting her confidence when she felt fat and even encouraged her when she didn't feel she can work out(She said all of this when everything was all good). They were even workout buddies at this point.

So now she looks like a brand new person, she's getting a lot of newfound attention, IG giving her a platform and most likely shorty felt she didn't need ol dude any more. So they split(which was obvious because I haven't seen them post anything together) But yet now she posted up with her new dude and calling themselves "swolemates",

May have saved shorty's health and this the thanks he get :stopitslime:


Cole world :mjcry:
 

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I learned early in life never be the tony dungy in Tampa/mark Jackson, go through the hard Lean years build up a team only to get canned and have another dude reap the benefits while you sit on the sidelines

Now I'm the Steve Kerr John gruden

Its a real cold game out there fellas. Apparently I seen this chick on my timeline(which I'm cool with) posting with her new dude just like a week or 2 after breaking it off with her ex.

Now keep in mind, Her ex was the one that spent time in helping her lose weight, getting on that serious diet plan, boosting her confidence when she felt fat and even encouraged her when she didn't feel she can work out(She said all of this when everything was all good). They were even workout buddies at this point.

So now she looks like a brand new person, she's getting a lot of newfound attention, IG giving her a platform and most likely shorty felt she didn't need ol dude any more. So they split(which was obvious because I haven't seen them post anything together) But yet now she posted up with her new dude and calling themselves "swolemates",

May have saved shorty's health and this the thanks he get :stopitslime:
 

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Its a real cold game out there fellas. Apparently I seen this chick on my timeline(which I'm cool with) posting with her new dude just like a week or 2 after breaking it off with her ex.

Now keep in mind, Her ex was the one that spent time in helping her lose weight, getting on that serious diet plan, boosting her confidence when she felt fat and even encouraged her when she didn't feel she can work out(She said all of this when everything was all good). They were even workout buddies at this point.

So now she looks like a brand new person, she's getting a lot of newfound attention, IG giving her a platform and most likely shorty felt she didn't need ol dude any more. So they split(which was obvious because I haven't seen them post anything together) But yet now she posted up with her new dude and calling themselves "swolemates",

May have saved shorty's health and this the thanks he get :stopitslime:
You can only assume but you don't know why they broke up. He could've gotten jealous of the attention she was getting, heck she could be posting that new guy to make the ex jealous, hell the ex could've broken up with her and she's trying to get at him via xyz. You're on the outside looking in.
 

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Brehs been talking to this pyt for 6 months.....shyt started off heavy...then she decided that she wanted to take things slow, I said cool....we were going out...I was helping her get all the new Jordan's (gotta connect in a shoe store) getting dinner etc. periodically she would flip out on some wild shyt...but she's young so I didn't really sweat it at first......
Lately she's been on some other shyt..flip flopped between coming to my birthday party (she came) we were supposed to go eat a restaurant the following week...she came pissed off and left immediately because because the wait was longer than 20 minutes...(later apologized)...I didn't sweat it though because I immediately went out to eat with a female friend that I called up after she left...then last Friday she bailed on a movie that we were too go see in order to go out with her female friends...I said fukk it and made plans with my boys...later on she texted and said never mind my friends bailed...I promptly informed her that I already made plans and we would get together later....
Went out to eat on Sunday and she barley spoke...so eventually we got on what was our situation...she said she didn't want a relationship so I was like ok....so I bushed her....she hit me up asking about random questions and I barley responded....chick was salty...she went on my Twitter and proceeds to retweet a comment that wasn't about her, and try to start an argument with me :russ::patrice::jawalrus:...I respond like :smugfavre:....and this just makes her madder....saying I met her mom, and you can't trust ppl and she's single and happy.....but my pov is if your single and happy why are you going apeshyt because your not getting attention...:jbhmm: ....anyways thanks brehs this thread helped me get back on point......

And in the immortal words of Future: Can't Trust None of These bytches Gotta Stay Cautious:scust:
 

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Brehs been talking to this pyt for 6 months.....shyt started off heavy...then she decided that she wanted to take things slow, I said cool....we were going out...I was helping her get all the new Jordan's (gotta connect in a shoe store) getting dinner etc. periodically she would flip out on some wild shyt...but she's young so I didn't really sweat it at first......
Lately she's been on some other shyt..flip flopped between coming to my birthday party (she came) we were supposed to go eat a restaurant the following week...she came pissed off and left immediately because because the wait was longer than 20 minutes...(later apologized)...I didn't sweat it though because I immediately went out to eat with a female friend that I called up after she left...then last Friday she bailed on a movie that we were too go see in order to go out with her female friends...I said fukk it and made plans with my boys...later on she texted and said never mind my friends bailed...I promptly informed her that I already made plans and we would get together later....
Went out to eat on Sunday and she barley spoke...so eventually we got on what was our situation...she said she didn't want a relationship so I was like ok....so I bushed her....she hit me up asking about random questions and I barley responded....chick was salty...she went on my Twitter and proceeds to retweet a comment that wasn't about her, and try to start an argument with me :russ::patrice::jawalrus:...I respond like :smugfavre:....and this just makes her madder....saying I met her mom, and you can't trust ppl and she's single and happy.....but my pov is if your single and happy why are you going apeshyt because your not getting attention...:jbhmm: ....anyways thanks brehs this thread helped me get back on point......

And in the immortal words of Future: Can't Trust None of These bytches Gotta Stay Cautious:scust:

experience has taught me, when a chick starts to act irrational, u cant ignore it. u must dead that sh1t quick and make her pay for it through consequences. her leaving cause the wait at the restaurant was too long was just too great of a disrespect. there are times when u are allowed to go apesh1t on these women. this is one of them. and the way u chastise her is not from a position of equality but more of a superiority, like a father to a child. "how dare you do that? are you stupid? do not have any common sense?". these should have been some of the things u said to this girl.
 

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I won't, i just want to know how to attract them. They always look so good :mjcry:

If your a square/etc, your mouthpiece gotta be extra sharp...even more than your looks to an extent:ld:

Its really about separating them from the lifestyle they show to others and the real them...

I build with every hood chick i fukked with...and i dont judge..

they are open with me and i get to know the real them...i actually invest time to understand them because i genuinely care...

they will hold you down and look out...even years down the line:obama::obama:

the cons are they arent the best decision makers and they are in environments where those decisions are looked at as option 1..

and they deal with nikkas who sometimes lack logic and are highly emotional..
 

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If your a square/etc, your mouthpiece gotta be extra sharp...even more than your looks to an extent:ld:

Its really about separating them from the lifestyle they show to others and the real them...

I build with every hood chick i fukked with...and i dont judge..

they are open with me and i get to know the real them...i actually invest time to understand them because i genuinely care...

they will hold you down and look out...even years down the line:obama::obama:

the cons are they arent the best decision makers and they are in environments where those decisions are looked at as option 1..

and they deal with nikkas who sometimes lack logic and are highly emotional..

:ohhh: Really?

Interesting.

:jbhmm: Dressing tips? What they like to see on a man?
 
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