Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

i dont trust females and i advise men out there to never believe a word female tells you especially about their exes.

most of their horrible exes who treated em like garbage are decent guys. Women do devious things and move on to a new guy and bash their ex to make them look good, i see it horrible women who have played me a quck fb search and i see they are married now prob to a simp. Wont bring up how they cheated etc. , basically assuming a new identity.

i remember in my simp days this girl played me , dumped me and two weeks later was in a new relationship with sme guy she met at school, well thsi guy ended up marrying her, i was with this chick for almost a year, you think this chick told that guy, hey i cheated on a good decent guy, because i got bored in teh relationship and didn't know how to end it? nah she was prob telling hm how horrible her last bf was and how he treated her like crap

 

[Lavish]

never tell a girl she took your virginity. we all probably past that stage now...but if you still a virgin and you see this, never give her the satisfaction of knowing she was your first

I lost my ginity to this jamaican girl at 18...and till this day she dont know. and thats how I like it. imagine yall have a messy break up. she gonna have the satisfaction of knowing you will appreciate her forever

 

[George Gooney]

never tell a girl she took your virginity. we all probably past that stage now...but if you still a virgin and you see this, never give her the satisfaction of knowing she was your first

I lost my ginity to this jamaican girl at 18...and till this day she dont know. and thats how I like it. imagine yall have a messy break up. she gonna have the satisfaction of knowing you will appreciate her forever

i found out years later that the girl i lost my virginity to fukked my best friend at that time. it's life and bytches will be bytches.

 

[kevm3]

while she was dealing with you?

 

[George Gooney]

while she was dealing with you?

it's fukked up because we were on and off a bunch of times(teenage love) but he says we were broken up at the time. He told me himself years later because he was afraid of how i would react. so i'm not too sure if we were on or off...

 

[kevm3]

man he sounds kind of like a funny style type fella to me. The fact that he didn't tell you because he was afraid how you'd react makes it obvious that he knew what he was doing was wrong. That's the type of dude you can be 'cool' with, but not too cool, because you never know when he decides to pull something like that again, maybe even on your wife if you decide to get married.

This is why I constantly emphasize avoiding becoming a vagina slave. these cats are the type that be saying lame things like 'vagina runs the world.' They will throw their boys under the bus and knock down their boy's girl just because 'they had to have it.' If he was going to pursue it, he should have at least told you and gave you that head's up, but he backdoor'd it quietly when he found the opportunity.

But man, women be doing that kind of stuff all the time... trying to be cool with a man's friend and as soon as they break up, throw that thang at the homies on the sneak. That's why I'm friendly and cordial with my homeboys' girls, but I am never their friends. I know they are liable to talk some trash behind the homie's back, expect me to be an open door and then possibly throw me that thang.

I have several stories attesting to that... one girl my homeboy was dealing with on a real cool level... he decided he didn't want to make her his woman, but they were real close and pretty much only talking to each other... she even bought him a 360. Well when they broke up, she eventually gets to chopping it with a couple of my other friends and gets at them like, "Don't tell X, but I got something for you." And she sends them nude pics. Then you have another situation where my homeboy had a girl that was living with him... when my other homeboy would come over she would always have on these short shorts... and she'd be sitting on the floor, but making sure her legs were spread and she was facing him. She'd also find everything he said extra funny and always be using that as a way to touch him. I can go on and on with these storise.

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[MikelArteta]

Brehs this morning I found out one of the few women I ever cared about in my life got married, I don't even know why this ish somewhat is bothering me or made me feel a little jealous. It's been years, just sharing this pathetic weak moment before it leaves my mind with my brothers


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[OSUBaneBrowns]

Brehs this morning I found out one of the few women I ever cared about in my life got married, I don't even know why this ish somewhat is bothering me or made me feel a little jealous. It's been years, just sharing this pathetic weak moment before it leaves my mind with my brothers


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Did you had feelings for her but never came out with it?

 

[MikelArteta]

Did you had feelings for her but never came out with it?

Yup

 

[sixsixtwo]

This nikka threw his life away for a single mother of 3.. I swear, you cannot make this shyt up.. No self-worth, no self-esteem.. Totally idiotic..


Pictured: Woman shot dead in hotel room with lover 'by ex-boyfriend as she begged for mercy' | Mail Online


UPDATE:

Killer commits suicide.

KINGSTON, Jamaica - Reports are circulating that Joseph Kernizan, the man suspected to have killed Captain Barkey and his lover Tracy Bennett in a Bronx motel parking lot, has committed suicide.

According to nbcnewyork.com 42-year-old Kernizan killed himself in Florida as a task force moved in to arrest him, a law enforcement source familiar with the investigation told NBC 4 New York.


The law enforcement source said Joseph Kernizan killed himself in Miami as police tried to get into his building to arrest him for allegedly killing 50-year-old Wayne Hamilton (Captain Barkey) and 38-year-old Bennett outside the Holiday Motel in Eastchester early Saturday.

http://www.jamaicaobserver.com/news/...cide-NY-report

 

[Liquid]

Yup

damn breh you never told her anything? Why?

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

I aint eam know dis thread existed. Feel like i just walked in on a therapy session. lol

Props to da brehs trynna heal and those trynna help em heal.

 

[MikelArteta]

Tom leykis just heard it today brehs

"you don't want to love anyone enough to give up the core of who you are, love has a cost, and in most cases that cost is to high, you pay with your free time, your freedom, and you pay and you pay and you pay. With
money, you pay with having to have your lives rearranged, homes rearranged, with kids you don't really want, marrying people when you don't really want to marry. Many guys have such so low self esteem and feel so desperate that you succumb to the demands of a chick, not seeing what your future is going to be, biggest offenders are guys like 16-25, your with a chick and you think she is the hottest chick you have ever been with, and your thinking to yourself it will never be this good again, and when she starts stamping her feet making demands etc., you give in, because you are afraid it will never be this good again, the reality is that you can’t see the future, if only you could see how bright it is, Not bowing to a ultimatum is the key to happiness and success in my life, you must be strong you must say no you must resist all ultimatums"

 

[sixsixtwo]

Reading this give me douche-chills, blech..

"I've been with my boyfriend for 5+ years and we've been living together for 2.5 years. He makes double what I make and yet we still split things 50-50, right down the middle. I have been ok with doing that so far, because my mum sends me $600 a month to go towards my rent. That all ends in December.

We are moving to a bigger apartment, at his insistence, next week, where my share of the monthly rent will be 69% of my bimonthly paycheque.

Every time I bring up the fact that I would like to look into how we can split our finances more fairly, my boyfriend gets upset and seems to think that I'm just looking for a free ride.

That is not the case at all, I just want the same opportunity that he has to pay off his debts. Right now, my bimonthly paycheques bring me juuuuuust back into the clear from my overdraft, but then with all the bills and expenses, I have spent most of my money within 4 days and have to try to last the next week and a half on $100 (impossible).

I have tried to explain to him that a lot of couples split their expenses based on income levels and he seemed repulsed by the idea at first. Now he is KIND of warming up to it, but is only willing to pay an extra $100 for rent/month and pay slightly more for groceries.

That doesn't really help at all and I can't get him to see that this is driving me crazy. I need advice on how to approach him and how to explain why we need to do this. Please, please help!"

My boyfriend makes double what I make and insists that we split payments on everything 50-50. I need advice! : TwoXChromosomes