Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Fellas, it's been a loooong minute since I've been in this thread. I've probably missed out on at least 50 pages of gems.


Check these links I've posted.

And they wonder why Team GMB exists and why dudes refuse to tie the knot anymore:

Just Jane: I'm stuck with a dull husband

I’VE only been married to my guy for three months but I’m already regretting it.


The problem is that marriage is just so crushingly boring.

All we ever do now is work, watch telly, clear up and go to bed.

And, even when we’re in bed, the sex is nowhere near as raunchy as it used to be.

Then there’s all the housework and the endless bills. I never realised it before but my bloke is a neat freak, and the pressure to keep things pristine is doing my head in.

But most of all I can’t stand having sex with the same guy. It’s dull and predictable.

I long for my old, wild days when I had three different fellas a week.


I lived at home, my parents took care of all the dross and I was free. In contrast my husband has never been more content.
It's called being an ADULT. :heh: If this chick wanted to sleep around and not be with the same guy then why get married??! :mindblown:



Just Jane: Evil wife wishes I was in a coffin

I CAN’T help thinking that my wife would rather I was dead.


Sometimes I catch her looking at me with so much distain and hatred that I genuinely fear for my life.

Nothing I say is right. I’m constantly told I am annoying and stupid. Sex is an ordeal. She just barks her orders and I desperately try to second-guess and please her – only I never succeed. She frequently tells me I’m unsexy, floppy and a massive disappointment. I hear her telling her friends that she’s unfulfilled and frustrated, which makes me feel like a washed-out old fool.

On top of all that, she never lets me forget that we have several life insurance policies in place and I’m actually worth more dead than alive. She openly “jokes” about what she’d do if she were on her own. Luxury cruises, couture clothes, secret lovers – apparently there’s nothing she doesn’t fantasise about.

I’m no wimp, but I find a lot of what she says deeply upsetting. Just the other day my parents came round and she actually started talking about my death to them. My mother was horrified and told her to shut up. She called my wife an ungrateful monster and a terrible row followed. Later my mum rang urging me to leave home. Now I have a bitter family feud to contend with too.

I work long hours but my wife is always on at me to take on more overtime to earn extra cash. She lines up jobs with her relatives and friends at weekends so that I’m never still and never have time to rest. Several people have told me I look exhausted.

I admit that I’m stressed and anxious. Can there be anything worse than knowing that the person you sleep alongside would like to see you in a coffin?
Does this guy really even have to ask questions?

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So many dealbreakers in this one, there was no point in me even highlighting anything. The fact is, there are ALWAYS red flags that dudes refuse to take notice of. Someone doesn't just suddenly turn into that kind of monster overnight without there being warning signs beforehand. This is why you have to really work on yourself and make sure you have your life in order and use discernment. Too many men with low self esteem are food for these type of females.

Just Jane: My caring hubby is a bedroom bore while badboy lovers give me passion

MY HUSBAND has never made me orgasm.


He’s a lovely guy, but there is no spark between us. When we have sex, he humps away while I compose everything from my next shopping list to the hymns I’d like at my funeral. He makes the most horrible noises as he climaxes and then gasps: “How was it for you?” Naturally I lie and pant: “Amazing, darling, you hit the bullseye again.”

But I think he and I both know that he couldn’t make me scream if he pinned me to the bed from now until Christmas. As a result I cheat on a regular basis because our relationship is so darn boring. I crave passion. I need physical rough-and-tumble and a challenge. Wild I fancy men who are the complete opposite of my husband – men who are tricky and difficult to control.

My current lover is an ex-bank robber, while others have been crooks, wide boys and wheelerdealers. It’s like I’ve got a selfdestruct button, as I’m only attracted to the most unsuitable guy in a room. With my current lover, the sex is wild and I’m left absolutely exhausted after our afternoon sessions in my marital bed.

My partner tends to get home very late in the evening, so I make sure that I’m upstairs in bed – pretending to be asleep – by the time he walks through the door. My problem is that one minute I feel alive and on top of the world. The next I’m racked with guilt and self-loathing.

Recently, at a party, I overheard my man tell my oldest friend that he loves me with all of his heart and couldn’t possibly live without me. He actually said that he’d die if anything happened to us. Now I feel terrible for messing about behind his back.


The price you pay for being a simp and a nice guy. Did dude really tell her friend all that shyt? :what: Some people just have to learn the hard way.
 
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Fellas, how do you deal with a woman who you have strong feelings for only wanting to be friends? :mjcry:


Flip the chess board you losing already. Go tell her you like more than just being friends. If she just likes you for a friend DO NOT BE HER FRIEND. To win a game you have to be willing to take an......L. It a concept that a lot if guys in this thread haven't grasped. Your going to take losses. If she is a women about it she will respect your HONESTY. Me personally I will go as far as to say it NEVER is time to lie to a chic cause for one you lose points and 2 you have to keep coming up with MORE lies.
 
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Sohh...

Back when I was married and was stationed at Fort Sill, we had a couple that we were friends with - well my exwife and the other couples wife were friends. When is I say friends, I mean barely. My ex would not take her serious, low-keyed dogged her out. Let's call this girl Anna. Anna was a nice snow bunny - not thick, but she had a nice shape, great t*ts (fake) - but she was genuninely a nice person.

fast forward 10 years ago till last week. Anna hits me up out of the blue on facebook and added me as a friend. I didn't recognize her at first, but i knew her name. She gained a little weight but not bad - i like em chubby anyways. So, she goes on to ask how i was and i said that I got a divorce. I told her everythign that went down. She was like, I'm giong through the same thing as well - on the verge of divorce. Her husband has just be dogging her out. So, if she is the same person i known ten years ago then :wow: crazy how someone would treat a woman like that -she was very kind hearted, I can tell she loved her husband very much.

So I tell Anna everything what to expect going through a divorce - all the fukked up feelings and what not. She said that one night she prayed to god to meet someone that will help her out and she said that somehow, I came into her mind (the reason she added me). We are suppose to meet up tomorrow for drinks.

I'm just kinda :jbhmm:not really sure what to take of this. She even said we can hang out next weekend :whoo: and because she lives 2 hours away, she said we can either meet half-way, or she can meet me at my house and if things get late - she'll sleep on the couch:sas2: Oh really?:sas1:
But I guess I write all that to say this, I have to be up front with her tomorrow because I ain't trying to smash a woman that ain't even divorced yet. :why: it goes against all my principles. She said she's gonna see a lawyer tomorrow because he already field, but we'll see. :francis:

What would yall do? I'm still leaning heavy on not fukking with her until them papers are signed sealed and delivered.

But damn, hopefully she is still the prototype snow bunny - blond hair blue eyes, perky t*ts :mjcry:
 
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Sohh...

Back when I was married and was stationeexcited at Fort Sill, we had a couple that we were friends with - well my exwife and the other couples wife were friends. When is I say friends, I mean barely. My ex would not take her serious, low-keyed dogged her out. Let's call this girl Anna. Anna was a nice snow bunny - not thick, but she had a nice shape, great t*ts (fake) - but she was genuninely a nice person.

fast forward 10 years ago till last week. Anna hits me up divorceof the blue on facebook and added me as a friend. I didn't recognize her at first, but i knew her name. She gained a little weismashbut not bad - i like em chubby anyways. So, she goes on to ask how i was and i said that I got a divorce. I told her everythign that went down. She was like, I'm giong through the same thing as well - on the verge of divorce. Her husband has just be dogging her out. So, if she is the same person i known ten years ago then :wow: crazy how someone would treat a woman like that -she was very kind hearted, I can tell she loved her husband very much.

So I tell Anna everything what to expect going through a divorce - all the fukked up feelings and what not. She said that one night she prayed to god to meet someone that will help her out and she said that somehow, I came into her mind (the reason she added me). We are suppose to meet up tomorrow for drinks.

I'm just kinda :jbhmm:not really sure what to take of this. She even said we can hang out next weekend :whoo: and because she lives 2 hours away, she said we can either meet half-way, or she can meet me at my house and if things get late - she'll sleep on the couch:sas2: Oh really?:sas1:
But I guess I write all that to say this, I have to be up front with her tomorrow because I ain't trying to smash a woman that ain't even divorced yet. :why: it goes against all my principles. She said she's gonna see a lawyer tomorrow because he already field, but we'll see. :francis:

What would yall do? I'm still leaning heavy on not fukking with her until them papers are signed sealed and delivered.

But damn, hopefully she is still the prototype snow bunny - blond hair blue eyes, perky t*ts :mjcry:


Breh you failed for the i "prayed for a man line " lol. Like i said in previous posts you cant get too excited when a women reaches out to you . Im 32 im not at all excited when i get a number or go on a date etc. I say that cause things change so fast with women. So i make women EARN every inch at this age. WHAT DO YOU BRING TO THE TABLE BESIDES BAGGAGE ...LOOKS AND OR SEX?. << I think this dealing with all women. I say make her earn every inch. To me thats too fast to be talking about sleeping on a nikka "couch" and see anit divorced yet. NEVER change your principles for ANY women...UNLESS you feel your principls need to change. Now if you just trying to smash ...then treat her accordinly. Some of guys in this thread just get to HYPE when a woman shows some sighs of intrest . At my age i make work for everything cause i know how women change up and anit know telling what other guy she could be entertaining. I got more to say but when i get to approaching women in october im set somethings straight I got a ton of things to say.
 

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Breh you failed for the i "prayed for a man line " lol. Like i said in previous posts you cant get too excited when a women reaches out to you . Im 32 im not at all excited when i get a number or go on a date etc. I say that cause things change so fast with women. So i make women EARN every inch at this age. WHAT DO YOU BRING TO THE TABLE BESIDES BAGGAGE ...LOOKS AND OR SEX?. << I think this dealing with all women. I say make her earn every inch. To me thats too fast to be talking about sleeping on a nikka "couch" and see anit divorced yet. NEVER change your principles for ANY women...UNLESS you feel your principls need to change. Now if you just trying to smash ...then treat her accordinly. Some of guys in this thread just get to HYPE when a woman shows some sighs of intrest . At my age i make work for everything cause i know how women change up and anit know telling what other guy she could be entertaining. I got more to say but when i get to approaching women in october im set somethings straight I got a ton of things to say.


yeah, actually i called her up like an hour ago saying that we can't do anything until she is divorced. I can't do another man like that even if he is married to her, regardless of the situation. I don't want another man to do that to me (which it already has). And being on the recieving end of that sucks bad.

thanks homes

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yeah, actually i called her up like an hour ago saying that we can't do anything until she is divorced. I can't do another man like that even if he is married to her, regardless of the situation. I don't want another man to do that to me (which it already has). And being on the recieving end of that sucks bad.

thanks homes

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lol i dealt with a very similar situation like that just last year.

you did the right thing.
 
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