Youseenmywork
KING
damnit breh
He anit lying either .
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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He anit lying either .
Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
I told y'all I met the shawty at hooters and got her number last Friday. Well it ain't even been a week and her number blocked already.
Met her Friday night and gave her a ride home that night. We talked and exchanged numbers when I dropped her off. She said she get off at 5 tomorrow and we can go bowling or some shyt. I said aight cool. But I wasn't tryna spend money on a girl I just met so I said lets go to this beach/park type place and walk around.
Picked her up from work st 5 the next day and dropped her off so she can change. So we went to the beach and we was talking, everything was cool. Then this nikka walked by and she said that was her exs brother and they said hi.
So we talked about our past relationships and I was just like "shyt my last girl was crazy and it was a bunch of drama. So hopefully you ain't crazy or ur ex ain't crazy cuz I ain't got time"
15 minutes later I see this nikka speed walking up to us and she say omg that's my ex. I'm likethis shyt on the first "date"?
So this nikka came up, and was like you lying to me? She said what are you doing here I ain't lying about nothing. Then I was sitting there laughing cuz it was funny. Then he turned to me asking what was funny I said nothing. Then he said "real shyt breh I ain't coming for you but is y'all talking
I said "nikka I known her for 2 days" then he walk off. And she sitting there saying "omg sorry that's so embarrassing "
I said "it's cool, what y'all got going on is between y'all" then we leave and I drop her off and she say "hopefully you still text me back."
I said "if you hit me up aight "
Later that day she sent me a text saying "you really cool and funny and I wanna hang out again. That's just my crazy ex none else" I said aight whatever it's cool.
Fast forward 2 days later. We texting and talking on the phone occasionally, nothing deep. Then one day she randomly text me "do u like me?"
I'm looking at the text like
I ain't known this girl for even a week yet. And that's some middle school shyt. If I'm hanging out with u and spending time with you then obviously I feel some way towards you.
So I reply back saying "I think you cool and cute but ion know you" and she replied back saying "ok just wondering."
I texted her back asking "that was outta no where why u wondering?" And she ain't text back.
So I called her like 4 hours later and she ain't answer. Then she texted me back 2 minutes later saying "I'm with my bf we back together" I'm like
So I deleted the message thread and texted her back like 3 hours later saying "oh fr, wish y'all the best"
Then this bytch texted me back like 4 hours later at 2am saying "don't text me I'm not interested in u and it makes my boyfriend mad." So I left her on read and blocked her number.
I ain't hurt or nothing cuz I ain't even known her for a week but I'm like tf these hoes crazy
. Yesterday we was riding around and she was saying how funny I am and showing me the 5 pages of text her was texting her...and I'm like "you must got some good puzzy, why he so crazy over you" and she just laughed.
So yea charge to the game. I ain't got time for no crazy ass ex and I ain't even hit it
I don't block numbers
I even keep texts of chicks who curved me so it can make me stronger
Youseenmywork
KING
Basically no pedestalizing?
Why put a women you just meet on a pedestal JUST because you hope to smell her kneecaps at the end of the night. What I bring to the table is ALWAYS worth more in the long run.
Youseenmywork
KING
-However, you must understand that every man has three banks that he must protect at all cost: The Time Bank, The Money Bank, and The Energy/Desire Bank. In order to be truly successful and achieve greatness at whatever you strive to accomplish you will more than likely need to devote a significant amount of your time, money, and energy. The problem is that by being involved in a serious relationship or marriage you have (whether intentionally or not) communicated to your woman that she is numero uno in the hierarchy of important things in your life (otherwise you would have never committed to her exclusively right?).
This is where conflict arises. So you want to create the next social media site to knock Facebook on its ass? Good luck telling your girlfriend/wife you can’t take her to the movies because you have various manuals to read on source coding.
Which brings me to the Energy/Desire Bank; do you honestly think that after getting off from your 9-5 and jumping head first into building your side business or pursuing your hobbies that you will have the energy or desire to put up with what will be the constant nagging of your woman? You’re relationship will resemble the movie Groundhog Day with repeated naggings of “We barely spend time together anymore” and “You haven’t taken me anywhere nice since you’ve been spending all your money on that stupid project” and my favorite “It’s like your mind is always somewhere else when we hangout, you’re not the same guy I fell in love with”. And guess what gentleman; she’s right. Women aren’t designed or conditioned to play second fiddle to anything let alone the business idea that you’ve been spending so much of your time, money, and energy on to get off the ground. Women just don’t understand sacrifice and will rarely if ever see the big picture.
Understand we are not talking about Lebron’s high school sweetheart that stuck it out with him until his NBA dreams came to fruition. We are talking about regular ole you with ambitions to be the first multi-millionaire in your family. Girlfriends/wives have a hard time picturing “regular ole you” achieving the types of things that only a small percentage of people ever will. Does this mean she doesn’t love you? Of course not. Does this mean she doesn’t believe you have the drive or intelligence to pull it off? Sometimes. But more than anything your girlfriend or wife has been programmed from birth to believe she’s the most important thing on earth and that any man who would put her at number two for “some silly business idea” doesn’t deserve her.
3 Parts Of The Matrix You Must Unplug From
^^^Expert from this article
See yall come October. Just wanted to leave you with something to chew on .
This is where conflict arises. So you want to create the next social media site to knock Facebook on its ass? Good luck telling your girlfriend/wife you can’t take her to the movies because you have various manuals to read on source coding.
Which brings me to the Energy/Desire Bank; do you honestly think that after getting off from your 9-5 and jumping head first into building your side business or pursuing your hobbies that you will have the energy or desire to put up with what will be the constant nagging of your woman? You’re relationship will resemble the movie Groundhog Day with repeated naggings of “We barely spend time together anymore” and “You haven’t taken me anywhere nice since you’ve been spending all your money on that stupid project” and my favorite “It’s like your mind is always somewhere else when we hangout, you’re not the same guy I fell in love with”. And guess what gentleman; she’s right. Women aren’t designed or conditioned to play second fiddle to anything let alone the business idea that you’ve been spending so much of your time, money, and energy on to get off the ground. Women just don’t understand sacrifice and will rarely if ever see the big picture.
Understand we are not talking about Lebron’s high school sweetheart that stuck it out with him until his NBA dreams came to fruition. We are talking about regular ole you with ambitions to be the first multi-millionaire in your family. Girlfriends/wives have a hard time picturing “regular ole you” achieving the types of things that only a small percentage of people ever will. Does this mean she doesn’t love you? Of course not. Does this mean she doesn’t believe you have the drive or intelligence to pull it off? Sometimes. But more than anything your girlfriend or wife has been programmed from birth to believe she’s the most important thing on earth and that any man who would put her at number two for “some silly business idea” doesn’t deserve her.
3 Parts Of The Matrix You Must Unplug From
^^^Expert from this article
See yall come October. Just wanted to leave you with something to chew on .
Damn I haven't been in this thread in a WHILE.
Had a little funny encounter a few weeks ago. My cousin was having a babyshower and when I got there, I saw familiar faces and whatnot, my EX being one of them(she's not the focus of this though and we're cool so nothing really), and this other girl that I talked to briefly back then for a few weeks until I found out she was kind of young.
Fast forward and I see her and her sister and her sister was looking cute as hell that night. I swear I kept seeing her sister every few minutes somewhere in my field of vision and in my head I'm like "Is it just me or this chick just so happens to keep crossing my path?"
All throughout the night I'm seeing her but I say nothing to her since I don't know her but I recognize her since she's the girl I used to talk to's sister and another girl I know's cousin.
At one point, I was outside chilling with this other dude I know and she was right behind me standing against the wall on her phone with this other girl. I had other girls I was talking with that night but all this felt kind of funny. Nothing happens though. The next day I go to my other cousin house to bring her some stuff from the store and when I get in there, those same two girls was over. I was like
in my mind. I said hello and then my cousin like "oh this my cousin Fatboi" and the girl that I used to talk to was like "I kno.. 
"
What happened between us is that girl's cousin one time called me and then asked me why I haven't been speaking to this girl, let's call her C in a while and I told her it's because I didn't know she was still young. Then the girl texts me calling me a bytch or something because she was mad and then that was it. This was at least 5-6 years ago.
Her sister was there looking cute though and I just chilled in the house for like an hour as my other cousins were all there(My cousin was cooking food for them.)
I kept thinking about that girl sister a lot those past few days after the babyshower and then I went online and saw her on FB. I didn't add her as I felt that'd be corny as hell seeing as though how I saw her and didn't talk to her at all but yet online wanna talk...
Had a little funny encounter a few weeks ago. My cousin was having a babyshower and when I got there, I saw familiar faces and whatnot, my EX being one of them(she's not the focus of this though and we're cool so nothing really), and this other girl that I talked to briefly back then for a few weeks until I found out she was kind of young.
Fast forward and I see her and her sister and her sister was looking cute as hell that night. I swear I kept seeing her sister every few minutes somewhere in my field of vision and in my head I'm like "Is it just me or this chick just so happens to keep crossing my path?"
All throughout the night I'm seeing her but I say nothing to her since I don't know her but I recognize her since she's the girl I used to talk to's sister and another girl I know's cousin.
At one point, I was outside chilling with this other dude I know and she was right behind me standing against the wall on her phone with this other girl. I had other girls I was talking with that night but all this felt kind of funny. Nothing happens though. The next day I go to my other cousin house to bring her some stuff from the store and when I get in there, those same two girls was over. I was like
in my mind. I said hello and then my cousin like "oh this my cousin Fatboi" and the girl that I used to talk to was like "I kno.. "What happened between us is that girl's cousin one time called me and then asked me why I haven't been speaking to this girl, let's call her C in a while and I told her it's because I didn't know she was still young. Then the girl texts me calling me a bytch or something because she was mad and then that was it. This was at least 5-6 years ago.
Her sister was there looking cute though and I just chilled in the house for like an hour as my other cousins were all there(My cousin was cooking food for them.)
I kept thinking about that girl sister a lot those past few days after the babyshower and then I went online and saw her on FB. I didn't add her as I felt that'd be corny as hell seeing as though how I saw her and didn't talk to her at all but yet online wanna talk...
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Its been awhile since I posted in here, but the dating game has been up & down for me. I had to let go of the Nigerian chick because she was too unbalanced and couldn't overcome her personal issues. Months later, I had met this cute black chick off a dating app that was cool, took me out for my birthday and everything. The issues I had with her was that she was a bigger girl and shown flashes of having a poor attitude. So, I cut had to cut her off. I've dated bigger women before, its just now...I'll rather date a chick that's smaller/in decent-good shape.
Just a few days ago, I started talking to a thick ass dark sista from Alabama that just moved here. I didn't ask her to hangout with me until like the 3rd day we texted. I tried to setup this past Friday but she went ghost on me. So, I ended up getting fukked up and going to the Huddle House with my uncle to smash some food. Yesterday, I called her instead of texting because texting gets stale after while. She only lives like a couple min from my crib. I asked her if she wanted to chill once again. She said "cool, we can do that but isn't about to rain outside"?
I checked my weather app and saw it wasn't going to rain until like Monday.
Then she hit me with the "Let me call you back".
and of course she never did
I just took it as a sign that she isn't that interested or she just wants a texting buddy. I can't do that
I'm actually going be moving 5 hours away next month near Chicago where my dad lives. We just found out about each other like 2 years ago. I don't think its a good idea to get involved in a woman here I might end up liking to a point I don't wanna leave. Its not like the majority of the women here are special anyway.
He already told me as soon as I come there, I'm gonna be feasting and he got women lined up for me.
Just a few days ago, I started talking to a thick ass dark sista from Alabama that just moved here. I didn't ask her to hangout with me until like the 3rd day we texted. I tried to setup this past Friday but she went ghost on me. So, I ended up getting fukked up and going to the Huddle House with my uncle to smash some food. Yesterday, I called her instead of texting because texting gets stale after while. She only lives like a couple min from my crib. I asked her if she wanted to chill once again. She said "cool, we can do that but isn't about to rain outside"?
I checked my weather app and saw it wasn't going to rain until like Monday.
Then she hit me with the "Let me call you back".
and of course she never did
I just took it as a sign that she isn't that interested or she just wants a texting buddy. I can't do that
I'm actually going be moving 5 hours away next month near Chicago where my dad lives. We just found out about each other like 2 years ago. I don't think its a good idea to get involved in a woman here I might end up liking to a point I don't wanna leave. Its not like the majority of the women here are special anyway.
He already told me as soon as I come there, I'm gonna be feasting and he got women lined up for me.
I ran into ''The Ex'' at a family bbq tonight I said fukk being petty and went to say hi and kim, I go chop it up with my cousins I haven't seen in a few years then I come back she's talking with my sister I just sit and eat my food, my sister hit me up about her complaining that I was distant and she was looking into trying to get close to me again 
I ran into ''The Ex'' at a family bbq tonight I said fukk being petty and went to say hi and kim, I go chop it up with my cousins I haven't seen in a few years then I come back she's talking with my sister I just sit and eat my food, my sister hit me up about her complaining that I was distant and she was looking into trying to get close to me again
What the hell was an ex doing at a family BBQ?
She's my cousin best friend I've been skipping hanging out around her for awhile but my cousin is pregnant
suggestion. don't know if you covered it already but i saw a post of you talking about how your gut will tell you what it is. You should make a video talking about that concept more in depth. about how we need to listen to our gut and how we don't always need proof of what it is to take action. how we don't need to justify anything to anyone if our gut is telling us the real.