Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NerdNash]

@kevm3

Spoke to my ex yesterday morning. She still crying out how she ain't happy. I'm in my head just laughing cuz she swore she was happy.

 

[MikelArteta]

All she has to say he's harassing me or something and bye bye

It's not worth it at all

Unless the chick is an intern or working with you on a temporary status, you should NEVER get involved with a coworker. Most relationships fail, and you don't want to deal with the awkwardness at your place of work. That's not even mentioning the possible HR risks. Men will get the short end of that stick 99 times out of 100.

 

[Lo-Co]

Def need one.

Definitely. Have a different guest host every few weeks to a month. with a main topic and a few sub topics.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Im fighting the urge to start cheating here in the ATL.

Theres just so many women and you only live once

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Youseenmywork]

@kevm3

Spoke to my ex yesterday morning. She still crying out how she ain't happy. I'm in my head just laughing cuz she swore she was happy.

Breh you still talk to your ex ? Why ?

 

[Brandsdale]

@kevm3



You gotta come to Twitter bro

I know these girls are dumb but man I ain't know you get flack like this

 

[NerdNash]

Breh you still talk to your ex ? Why ?

Idk Bro. 9 years. Hard to just cold turkey.

 

[NerdNash]

I know these girls are dumb but man I ain't know you get flack like this

Everyday bro

 

[Mike Ock]

Idk Bro. 9 years. Hard to just cold turkey.

You playin' yaself bruh. It's gonna feel real cold when she find some dude she's really into and tells you straight up she don't think it's cool to communicate with you anymore. Unless you find a chik first and do it to her. At this point what are you really getting out of communicating with her? Making sure she miserable without you? Ultimately you still don't benefit unless you're hoping to get back together.

 

[Mickey Kane]

I'm 50/50 about talking to exes.

I'm actually cool with it because I try to resolve things post break-up.

 

[KingHurst]

Don't reward low moral women. IF she has a boyfriend or husband, cut the convo short there. That's how dudes end up getting killed... and how can we say we want quality women if we're rewarding broads with time and attention when they are engaged in snake like actions?

When you say you met her at your job, you mean she works with you or no? Because if she's a coworker then you should not proceed at all. Keep it strictly platonic, especially if she's a single mother, man. If you care about that job at all then keep it nothing more than friends.


Same question as to the other breh, you mean she works with you or you met her while you were at work? Because if she works with you then drop it immediately. That type of situation rarely works out, and you know who gets the worst end of things when it goes up in flames? The man.

Also, she has a kid and boyfriend? Come on man, don't even bother with that situation. It can go sideways fast and no chick looks good enough to deal with that risk. How would she bring value to your life?

brehs i met this girl at my job she doesnt work with me and lives like half hour away from me. i am just trynna smash and keep it moving honestly its not like im trying to be in a relationship or anything along those lines. When i met her she told me she was leaving the country in October before her visa expires but the BF thing threw me off because i got paranoid about dude finding out and popping up at my job.

i texted her yesterday and asked how she was doing and wrote back and the second msg i sent her i asked her when she was going to be free to hangout and she never wrote back, i just feel like this girl is playing games and wants me to chase her a bit but maybe im wrong about that brehs so idk what the yall brehs think? you think i should call her up and see what she says or leave her alone? thanks for the feedback brehs

 

[Brandsdale]

.....Are you my clone????

Breh I dunno what it is man. I'm actually a boring ass nikka, but find the time to have fun and shyt, especially having friends in the city to hang out with but it's like these chicks want the "fun" nikkas. So Im trying to look for the boring chicks too. Trying not to like a chic is simply based on how flakey these girls can be because down the line they want the total "fun" guy.

 

[RealAssanova]

Man I just realize at the end of the day, I constantly hear men talking about improving themselves and bettering themselves to make themselves a better catch for women, but I never hear that reciprocated. I rarely, if ever see articles about women actually doing something positive to retain a man. Instead, it's about doing less and demanding more. Cooking and cleaning is 'slavery'. Shaving arm pit hair and losing weight is not being 'body positive.' I can go on and on.

I've just been pondering what a man needs to do to have a simple, honest, loyal relationship and I've come to the conclusion that we've all done enough. Most of these modern women who are brainwashed through television and no one ever checking them into believing they can wild out until they are flabby and sick and then come nab a stable, hard-working dude who will finance the rest of their life and pay all of the debts they've been accumulating from wild living. Most of these women don't really want 'relationships' in their prime. They want 'resource men', aka a 'boyfriend' who is there to keep them from feeling lonely and who buys them things and listens to their problems while they still hit the club every weekend and while they keep 10,000 male 'friends', 'cousins', and 'brothers' lingering around. They want to do what their single girlfriends are doing while being able to brag about having a 'man' who they aren't respecting in the slightest.

The reason these bums and thugs are getting so many of these women pregnant, even women with great jobs is because these dudes actually have the time and energy to create the circus atmosphere that women love and these guys have no intentions of wifing any of these women, so they are mentally more free to do anything to procure what they want, which is sex.

Modern women aren't interested in leadership, or any of that. They're interested in a feeling... and a lot of this feeling comes from unpredictability and mystery, sort of like the 'forbidden fruit' in the garden of eden. The average man who is working hard and has a stable career is often way too tired and exhausted to come home and create arguments and fights in order to keep this broad entertained. He doesn't have the time to have a second job at home which is to entertain some woman nonstop.

The real problem is that none of these women were reared to actually perform a role in a relationship. As a dude, you were told 10,000 things. You need to provide for your family. You need to protect your family. You need to make money. You need to be in the gym. You need to take control. You need to look great and smell great. You need to be an excellent conversationalist, etc., etc. On the other hand, most of these women are just told, you can do whatever you want to do. They aren't told to get a 'moral and decent' man. They are taught to get a man with money. They aren't told that the partying has to stop at some point and they need to be a homemaker. They aren't told to keep the house clean and make sure their man is satisfied. They aren't told that they shouldn't have a ton of male friends while in a relationship or period.

That and these broads are so swamped with attention from thirsty simps, that to them, men are replaceable and they don't have to put in any work, nor do they have to demonstrate any semblance of courtesy. That's why you get these broads that agree to a date with you and don't show up or give you a call to let you know they can't make it. There are very few people telling them to be courteous and there are no punitive measures for their actions. In fact, dudes think that by trying HARDER and offering more to these broads, that they will act better. No, if a woman pulls something like that on you, the measure is to simply cut her off period. These women need to start getting the notion that their actions have repercussions and that a man's time is valuable.

Finally, one more issue to realize is that most modern women are stimulation addicts. When they are out here partying and sleeping with all of these dudes, it gets hard for them to ever get accustomed to living in a normal relationship because they are constantly searching for that next thrill. They will get that itch for that next round of mystery. This is why you can't turn these hoes into housewives. It's like a drug addict who is always chasing that feeling they got when they first did the drug.

What dudes need to start doing is stop offering these broads more in hopes that these women start to shape up and instead demand that women step their game up. Stop making your company so cheap and allowing a woman to be in your presence without her according you the proper respect. Improve yourself not for the sake of catching women, but because that's something you feel you need to do of your own choosing.

my man kev....

where is the damn rep button.

 

[Gus Money]

brehs i met this girl at my job she doesnt work with me and lives like half hour away from me. i am just trynna smash and keep it moving honestly its not like im trying to be in a relationship or anything along those lines. When i met her she told me she was leaving the country in October before her visa expires but the BF thing threw me off because i got paranoid about dude finding out and popping up at my job.

i texted her yesterday and asked how she was doing and wrote back and the second msg i sent her i asked her when she was going to be free to hangout and she never wrote back, i just feel like this girl is playing games and wants me to chase her a bit but maybe im wrong about that brehs so idk what the yall brehs think? you think i should call her up and see what she says or leave her alone? thanks for the feedback brehs

We've made it pretty clear that you should not even bother with this chick but you're overthinking things. Having a boyfriend or a kid is reason enough to walk away, but this broad has both. You have to think think with your big head. Also, the best way to win when a chick is playing games is for you to walk away, especially with a chick like this who isn't worth stressing about.

You have much better things to do than chase a chick with a kid and a boyfriend.