Man I just realize at the end of the day, I constantly hear men talking about improving themselves and bettering themselves to make themselves a better catch for women, but I never hear that reciprocated. I rarely, if ever see articles about women actually doing something positive to retain a man. Instead, it's about doing less and demanding more. Cooking and cleaning is 'slavery'. Shaving arm pit hair and losing weight is not being 'body positive.' I can go on and on.
I've just been pondering what a man needs to do to have a simple, honest, loyal relationship and I've come to the conclusion that we've all done enough. Most of these modern women who are brainwashed through television and no one ever checking them into believing they can wild out until they are flabby and sick and then come nab a stable, hard-working dude who will finance the rest of their life and pay all of the debts they've been accumulating from wild living. Most of these women don't really want 'relationships' in their prime. They want 'resource men', aka a 'boyfriend' who is there to keep them from feeling lonely and who buys them things and listens to their problems while they still hit the club every weekend and while they keep 10,000 male 'friends', 'cousins', and 'brothers' lingering around. They want to do what their single girlfriends are doing while being able to brag about having a 'man' who they aren't respecting in the slightest.
The reason these bums and thugs are getting so many of these women pregnant, even women with great jobs is because these dudes actually have the time and energy to create the circus atmosphere that women love and these guys have no intentions of wifing any of these women, so they are mentally more free to do anything to procure what they want, which is sex.
Modern women aren't interested in leadership, or any of that. They're interested in a feeling... and a lot of this feeling comes from unpredictability and mystery, sort of like the 'forbidden fruit' in the garden of eden. The average man who is working hard and has a stable career is often way too tired and exhausted to come home and create arguments and fights in order to keep this broad entertained. He doesn't have the time to have a second job at home which is to entertain some woman nonstop.
The real problem is that none of these women were reared to actually perform a role in a relationship. As a dude, you were told 10,000 things. You need to provide for your family. You need to protect your family. You need to make money. You need to be in the gym. You need to take control. You need to look great and smell great. You need to be an excellent conversationalist, etc., etc. On the other hand, most of these women are just told, you can do whatever you want to do. They aren't told to get a 'moral and decent' man. They are taught to get a man with money. They aren't told that the partying has to stop at some point and they need to be a homemaker. They aren't told to keep the house clean and make sure their man is satisfied. They aren't told that they shouldn't have a ton of male friends while in a relationship or period.
That and these broads are so swamped with attention from thirsty simps, that to them, men are replaceable and they don't have to put in any work, nor do they have to demonstrate any semblance of courtesy. That's why you get these broads that agree to a date with you and don't show up or give you a call to let you know they can't make it. There are very few people telling them to be courteous and there are no punitive measures for their actions. In fact, dudes think that by trying HARDER and offering more to these broads, that they will act better. No, if a woman pulls something like that on you, the measure is to simply cut her off period. These women need to start getting the notion that their actions have repercussions and that a man's time is valuable.
Finally, one more issue to realize is that most modern women are stimulation addicts. When they are out here partying and sleeping with all of these dudes, it gets hard for them to ever get accustomed to living in a normal relationship because they are constantly searching for that next thrill. They will get that itch for that next round of mystery. This is why you can't turn these hoes into housewives. It's like a drug addict who is always chasing that feeling they got when they first did the drug.
What dudes need to start doing is stop offering these broads more in hopes that these women start to shape up and instead demand that women step their game up. Stop making your company so cheap and allowing a woman to be in your presence without her according you the proper respect. Improve yourself not for the sake of catching women, but because that's something you feel you need to do of your own choosing.
