Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Much of what passes for 'game' works at entertaining a broad for a little while until she gets bored with your flavor and decides to take off for greener pastures. Yeah, there are tips and tactics and strategies, aka 'game', that you can learn to increase your success at procuring the attention of a woman and even keeping them around a little longer than usual, but the reality is, a normal relationship shouldn't take all of this work... and a transient broad is still gonna be transient. All that work you put in is down the drain as soon as she leaves.
The real problem is a lack of morality. You can only entertain a ho for so long before she goes back to her hoish ways and is out looking for something new, and the problem is that the majority of women were raised up in the 'sexual revolution' generation, so they have a ho mentality. They simply are not satisfied with one man and most of them likely will never be.
A lot of guys in here are getting flaked on by women or having these women peel off and wondering what is the latest circus trick they can do to keep the broad around. They think that by rewarding these broads with flyer conversation, a flyer look or any of that, that it's going to make them loyal. It won't. It will only keep them entertained for a little longer. Also, it's sending a message that these broads are to be rewarded for their garbage behavior. Instead, if you get garbage behavior from a woman, don't question yourself and reward her by trying harder. Keep it pushing and cut her off and go back to doing something you are interested in.
I have to question what guys have spend all their time chasing these modern women. What are you procuring exactly... spending years learning this and that to be the 40th guy in line to have a turn? The bottom line for me is keep it simple, don't do all of that tapdancing, and if the broad ain't feeling whatever you're bringing to the table, open the door for her and let her walk out. If a broad flakes, oh well, there's another one coming down the line. Don't give these women much thought or effort. Get at her and if she ain't feeling it, let her get on. That simple. Spend the majority of your time doing things that interest you and not worrying about impressing broads or what they like, because it's a huge time sink. You put all this effort into procuring some woman who can walk out at any time for any reason?
Another thing I've learned is never follow up behind a broad, nor let her make you deviate from your principles. You'll feel real lame when she makes you do something out of pocket and then peels off on you. These women come going and they are concerned with doing them, so stand tall on who you are and what you're about and NEVER be a puppy dog following up after some woman.
Dudes have been spending forever thinking about what they could do to make women desire them, but what are women doing to figure out how to impress a man? Dudes are out here cooking and cleaning, turning into a mini bodybuilder, getting super dressed up, improving their conversation, etc and yet these broads are eating burgers, growing out their armpit hair and sleeping around and refusing to do any activity that resembles behavior in a successful relationship. Dudes ain't got no standards is the reason why and will pay attention to these women no matter how little they bring to the table.
The real problem is a lack of morality. You can only entertain a ho for so long before she goes back to her hoish ways and is out looking for something new, and the problem is that the majority of women were raised up in the 'sexual revolution' generation, so they have a ho mentality. They simply are not satisfied with one man and most of them likely will never be.
A lot of guys in here are getting flaked on by women or having these women peel off and wondering what is the latest circus trick they can do to keep the broad around. They think that by rewarding these broads with flyer conversation, a flyer look or any of that, that it's going to make them loyal. It won't. It will only keep them entertained for a little longer. Also, it's sending a message that these broads are to be rewarded for their garbage behavior. Instead, if you get garbage behavior from a woman, don't question yourself and reward her by trying harder. Keep it pushing and cut her off and go back to doing something you are interested in.
I have to question what guys have spend all their time chasing these modern women. What are you procuring exactly... spending years learning this and that to be the 40th guy in line to have a turn? The bottom line for me is keep it simple, don't do all of that tapdancing, and if the broad ain't feeling whatever you're bringing to the table, open the door for her and let her walk out. If a broad flakes, oh well, there's another one coming down the line. Don't give these women much thought or effort. Get at her and if she ain't feeling it, let her get on. That simple. Spend the majority of your time doing things that interest you and not worrying about impressing broads or what they like, because it's a huge time sink. You put all this effort into procuring some woman who can walk out at any time for any reason?
Another thing I've learned is never follow up behind a broad, nor let her make you deviate from your principles. You'll feel real lame when she makes you do something out of pocket and then peels off on you. These women come going and they are concerned with doing them, so stand tall on who you are and what you're about and NEVER be a puppy dog following up after some woman.
Dudes have been spending forever thinking about what they could do to make women desire them, but what are women doing to figure out how to impress a man? Dudes are out here cooking and cleaning, turning into a mini bodybuilder, getting super dressed up, improving their conversation, etc and yet these broads are eating burgers, growing out their armpit hair and sleeping around and refusing to do any activity that resembles behavior in a successful relationship. Dudes ain't got no standards is the reason why and will pay attention to these women no matter how little they bring to the table.
She only got 1.
Man if she got 2 kids, what is there really for you? she might be sweet, but she ain't going to have much time for you and that baby daddy is gonna be in the picture... and 90% of women are super sweet and awesome when you first meet them. You don't see what drove the baby daddy off in the first place until she gets comfortable two or three months in. You can talk to her if you want to, but I wouldn't even sweat that at all. That's just me though.
Here's one more observation... despite women saying they want leadership, a man that takes control and all of that other nonsense... what a woman really wants is a feeling. Either she wants a feeling or she wants a resource. Never let a woman put you in the category of being a resource provider. Either she gets 'that feeling' when around you, or you cut her off. If she eyes you as a resource provider, you'll be used badly.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Its the same with guys, guys will tinker with other issues, besides their main problem.
James Gordon
Superstar
Talkin to a woman wit three kids 
She bad for chick wit 3 kids but I know better than this
Thought I was just gettin myself out a drought now Im callin an textin her
She bad for chick wit 3 kids but I know better than this
Thought I was just gettin myself out a drought now Im callin an textin her
At best, im friends with benefits with most of the single mothers i fukk with
if she got 1 baby father, she just playing the field to gauge her value..
She is going to indirectly teach you alot about how women go about JUSTIFYING their relations with men...
The baby father will always have access to the p*ssy
Talkin to a woman wit three kids
She bad for chick wit 3 kids but I know better than this
Thought I was just gettin myself out a drought now Im callin an textin her
Just wear a condom breh
what got into you last night 
If she is a good mother you have to accept her kid is the priority and if youre willing to put up with the father do you but they are good for fwb
DarkHorse23
Banned
Yeah a lot of what your saying came to my mind this morning. Even though they don't live together, having 2 kids(let alone 1) with a person means something. I guess the best thing I can do is not have any expectations and just see what happens.At best, im friends with benefits with most of the single mothers i fukk with
if she got 1 baby father, she just playing the field to gauge her value..
She is going to indirectly teach you alot about how women go about JUSTIFYING their relations with men...
The baby father will always have access to the p*ssy
Man I just realize at the end of the day, I constantly hear men talking about improving themselves and bettering themselves to make themselves a better catch for women, but I never hear that reciprocated. I rarely, if ever see articles about women actually doing something positive to retain a man. Instead, it's about doing less and demanding more. Cooking and cleaning is 'slavery'. Shaving arm pit hair and losing weight is not being 'body positive.' I can go on and on.
I've just been pondering what a man needs to do to have a simple, honest, loyal relationship and I've come to the conclusion that we've all done enough. Most of these modern women who are brainwashed through television and no one ever checking them into believing they can wild out until they are flabby and sick and then come nab a stable, hard-working dude who will finance the rest of their life and pay all of the debts they've been accumulating from wild living. Most of these women don't really want 'relationships' in their prime. They want 'resource men', aka a 'boyfriend' who is there to keep them from feeling lonely and who buys them things and listens to their problems while they still hit the club every weekend and while they keep 10,000 male 'friends', 'cousins', and 'brothers' lingering around. They want to do what their single girlfriends are doing while being able to brag about having a 'man' who they aren't respecting in the slightest.
The reason these bums and thugs are getting so many of these women pregnant, even women with great jobs is because these dudes actually have the time and energy to create the circus atmosphere that women love and these guys have no intentions of wifing any of these women, so they are mentally more free to do anything to procure what they want, which is sex.
Modern women aren't interested in leadership, or any of that. They're interested in a feeling... and a lot of this feeling comes from unpredictability and mystery, sort of like the 'forbidden fruit' in the garden of eden. The average man who is working hard and has a stable career is often way too tired and exhausted to come home and create arguments and fights in order to keep this broad entertained. He doesn't have the time to have a second job at home which is to entertain some woman nonstop.
The real problem is that none of these women were reared to actually perform a role in a relationship. As a dude, you were told 10,000 things. You need to provide for your family. You need to protect your family. You need to make money. You need to be in the gym. You need to take control. You need to look great and smell great. You need to be an excellent conversationalist, etc., etc. On the other hand, most of these women are just told, you can do whatever you want to do. They aren't told to get a 'moral and decent' man. They are taught to get a man with money. They aren't told that the partying has to stop at some point and they need to be a homemaker. They aren't told to keep the house clean and make sure their man is satisfied. They aren't told that they shouldn't have a ton of male friends while in a relationship or period.
That and these broads are so swamped with attention from thirsty simps, that to them, men are replaceable and they don't have to put in any work, nor do they have to demonstrate any semblance of courtesy. That's why you get these broads that agree to a date with you and don't show up or give you a call to let you know they can't make it. There are very few people telling them to be courteous and there are no punitive measures for their actions. In fact, dudes think that by trying HARDER and offering more to these broads, that they will act better. No, if a woman pulls something like that on you, the measure is to simply cut her off period. These women need to start getting the notion that their actions have repercussions and that a man's time is valuable.
Finally, one more issue to realize is that most modern women are stimulation addicts. When they are out here partying and sleeping with all of these dudes, it gets hard for them to ever get accustomed to living in a normal relationship because they are constantly searching for that next thrill. They will get that itch for that next round of mystery. This is why you can't turn these hoes into housewives. It's like a drug addict who is always chasing that feeling they got when they first did the drug.
What dudes need to start doing is stop offering these broads more in hopes that these women start to shape up and instead demand that women step their game up. Stop making your company so cheap and allowing a woman to be in your presence without her according you the proper respect. Improve yourself not for the sake of catching women, but because that's something you feel you need to do of your own choosing.