Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[EffYou]

Man I just realize at the end of the day, I constantly hear men talking about improving themselves and bettering themselves to make themselves a better catch for women, but I never hear that reciprocated. I rarely, if ever see articles about women actually doing something positive to retain a man. Instead, it's about doing less and demanding more. Cooking and cleaning is 'slavery'. Shaving arm pit hair and losing weight is not being 'body positive.' I can go on and on.

I've just been pondering what a man needs to do to have a simple, honest, loyal relationship and I've come to the conclusion that we've all done enough. Most of these modern women who are brainwashed through television and no one ever checking them into believing they can wild out until they are flabby and sick and then come nab a stable, hard-working dude who will finance the rest of their life and pay all of the debts they've been accumulating from wild living. Most of these women don't really want 'relationships' in their prime. They want 'resource men', aka a 'boyfriend' who is there to keep them from feeling lonely and who buys them things and listens to their problems while they still hit the club every weekend and while they keep 10,000 male 'friends', 'cousins', and 'brothers' lingering around. They want to do what their single girlfriends are doing while being able to brag about having a 'man' who they aren't respecting in the slightest.

The reason these bums and thugs are getting so many of these women pregnant, even women with great jobs is because these dudes actually have the time and energy to create the circus atmosphere that women love and these guys have no intentions of wifing any of these women, so they are mentally more free to do anything to procure what they want, which is sex.

Modern women aren't interested in leadership, or any of that. They're interested in a feeling... and a lot of this feeling comes from unpredictability and mystery, sort of like the 'forbidden fruit' in the garden of eden. The average man who is working hard and has a stable career is often way too tired and exhausted to come home and create arguments and fights in order to keep this broad entertained. He doesn't have the time to have a second job at home which is to entertain some woman nonstop.

The real problem is that none of these women were reared to actually perform a role in a relationship. As a dude, you were told 10,000 things. You need to provide for your family. You need to protect your family. You need to make money. You need to be in the gym. You need to take control. You need to look great and smell great. You need to be an excellent conversationalist, etc., etc. On the other hand, most of these women are just told, you can do whatever you want to do. They aren't told to get a 'moral and decent' man. They are taught to get a man with money. They aren't told that the partying has to stop at some point and they need to be a homemaker. They aren't told to keep the house clean and make sure their man is satisfied. They aren't told that they shouldn't have a ton of male friends while in a relationship or period.

That and these broads are so swamped with attention from thirsty simps, that to them, men are replaceable and they don't have to put in any work, nor do they have to demonstrate any semblance of courtesy. That's why you get these broads that agree to a date with you and don't show up or give you a call to let you know they can't make it. There are very few people telling them to be courteous and there are no punitive measures for their actions. In fact, dudes think that by trying HARDER and offering more to these broads, that they will act better. No, if a woman pulls something like that on you, the measure is to simply cut her off period. These women need to start getting the notion that their actions have repercussions and that a man's time is valuable.

Finally, one more issue to realize is that most modern women are stimulation addicts. When they are out here partying and sleeping with all of these dudes, it gets hard for them to ever get accustomed to living in a normal relationship because they are constantly searching for that next thrill. They will get that itch for that next round of mystery. This is why you can't turn these hoes into housewives. It's like a drug addict who is always chasing that feeling they got when they first did the drug.

What dudes need to start doing is stop offering these broads more in hopes that these women start to shape up and instead demand that women step their game up. Stop making your company so cheap and allowing a woman to be in your presence without her according you the proper respect. Improve yourself not for the sake of catching women, but because that's something you feel you need to do of your own choosing.

The self-actualized men ladies and gents.

 

[Ohene]

Man I just realize at the end of the day, I constantly hear men talking about improving themselves and bettering themselves to make themselves a better catch for women, but I never hear that reciprocated. I rarely, if ever see articles about women actually doing something positive to retain a man. Instead, it's about doing less and demanding more. Cooking and cleaning is 'slavery'. Shaving arm pit hair and losing weight is not being 'body positive.' I can go on and on.

I've just been pondering what a man needs to do to have a simple, honest, loyal relationship and I've come to the conclusion that we've all done enough. Most of these modern women who are brainwashed through television and no one ever checking them into believing they can wild out until they are flabby and sick and then come nab a stable, hard-working dude who will finance the rest of their life and pay all of the debts they've been accumulating from wild living. Most of these women don't really want 'relationships' in their prime. They want 'resource men', aka a 'boyfriend' who is there to keep them from feeling lonely and who buys them things and listens to their problems while they still hit the club every weekend and while they keep 10,000 male 'friends', 'cousins', and 'brothers' lingering around. They want to do what their single girlfriends are doing while being able to brag about having a 'man' who they aren't respecting in the slightest.

The reason these bums and thugs are getting so many of these women pregnant, even women with great jobs is because these dudes actually have the time and energy to create the circus atmosphere that women love and these guys have no intentions of wifing any of these women, so they are mentally more free to do anything to procure what they want, which is sex.

Modern women aren't interested in leadership, or any of that. They're interested in a feeling... and a lot of this feeling comes from unpredictability and mystery, sort of like the 'forbidden fruit' in the garden of eden. The average man who is working hard and has a stable career is often way too tired and exhausted to come home and create arguments and fights in order to keep this broad entertained. He doesn't have the time to have a second job at home which is to entertain some woman nonstop.

The real problem is that none of these women were reared to actually perform a role in a relationship. As a dude, you were told 10,000 things. You need to provide for your family. You need to protect your family. You need to make money. You need to be in the gym. You need to take control. You need to look great and smell great. You need to be an excellent conversationalist, etc., etc. On the other hand, most of these women are just told, you can do whatever you want to do. They aren't told to get a 'moral and decent' man. They are taught to get a man with money. They aren't told that the partying has to stop at some point and they need to be a homemaker. They aren't told to keep the house clean and make sure their man is satisfied. They aren't told that they shouldn't have a ton of male friends while in a relationship or period.

That and these broads are so swamped with attention from thirsty simps, that to them, men are replaceable and they don't have to put in any work, nor do they have to demonstrate any semblance of courtesy. That's why you get these broads that agree to a date with you and don't show up or give you a call to let you know they can't make it. There are very few people telling them to be courteous and there are no punitive measures for their actions. In fact, dudes think that by trying HARDER and offering more to these broads, that they will act better. No, if a woman pulls something like that on you, the measure is to simply cut her off period. These women need to start getting the notion that their actions have repercussions and that a man's time is valuable.

Finally, one more issue to realize is that most modern women are stimulation addicts. When they are out here partying and sleeping with all of these dudes, it gets hard for them to ever get accustomed to living in a normal relationship because they are constantly searching for that next thrill. They will get that itch for that next round of mystery. This is why you can't turn these hoes into housewives. It's like a drug addict who is always chasing that feeling they got when they first did the drug.

What dudes need to start doing is stop offering these broads more in hopes that these women start to shape up and instead demand that women step their game up. Stop making your company so cheap and allowing a woman to be in your presence without her according you the proper respect. Improve yourself not for the sake of catching women, but because that's something you feel you need to do of your own choosing.

i've done enough breh

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

This is a continuation of yesterday's video


I'll post about bouncing back tomorrow.

That KENT nikka need to pay attention to these videos. THIS is how you spit knowledge about females. Not by making angry ass entitled "WHY WON'T SHE fukk ME" type videos. Salute.

 

[KingHurst]

So brehs I met this woman in my job about a week ago, probably early 30's with a kid. I start spitting at her at work and before she leaves I ask her for her # and she willingly gives it to me. She says she just came To this country and is leaving in a few months before her visa expires and that she was staying with a male "friend" here.

I text her a few days after to set up a date with her and she calls me right after that to see if I was around to hangout, I tell her no because I was working till late n she said she will be off the next Wednesday to hangout.

I call her the next Wednesday (few days ago) and she picks up and says she's home waiting for her boyfriend to come pick her up that she's gonna be busy with him that night wtf lol

All of the sudden she has a boyfriend lol she didn't say not to call her or that I should stop talking to her but it was a real wtf moment lol

What do you coli brehs think? Hit her up again n try to set up date and smash or to the bushes she goes brehs?

 

[Youseenmywork]

It intresting cause I will always be for men loving themselves and putting themselves first.I say that not for women but just for this world and how it treats men at this period and time. All you have have is your family and or friends. Thats why when a women does act funny or is flaking or whatever it will just be a minor bump in the road ...and life goes on after that.

My last post was more so geared towards mental stability. I only included women because women don't make you happy they are apart of your happiness. I now care more about men just taking care of themselves with or without a women in the picture.

To @kevm3 and others in this thread that have been posting for a while. What is the end game ? We can sit in this thread and subjugate women we can be as misogynistic as we want to be we can call these bytches hoes etc. As fun as that would be this thread is for solutions that men face when dealing with women.. Correct me if I'm wrong and how to go about it in a better way.

I would never tell a man that reads this thread to deal with BS from women or the flakey behavior from women. I never want men to start to sound like bytches. Women say stuff "like all me are dogs". I don't want hear the equivalent to that from men thoe.

I want to be clear if your are jaded with women and this society then just stop dealing with women all together. Find other ways to channel that energy into other areas of your life that probaly needs your attention anyway.

My style of dealing with women is like a sensei. You can join the class but let me know when you want out and all students start off on the same level. I'm more cut throat the older I get.

As patrice would say you not gon meet a female who's hymen anit broken. A lot of this stuff is all in your mind and ego which as far as ego is concerned you have to put it a way when it comes to dealing with women on any level.

Dudes don't realize when you shutout women you also could be shutting out the ones that could be worth it and more so love.

So what is the end game? Im done complain about women even when I myself didn't do anything wrong or when I did do something . You either find a way to survive or die. Being angry or jaded with women can't be the ONLY game in town..well maybe for some of y'all.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Been said countless times before but I need to vent on how women expect men to keep conversations going like were some entertainers or some shyt. A nikka be typing up a few lines in attempt to get a convo going only to get an "ok" or "cool" i feel damn near insulted .

Two days ago, I finally say fuk it and just don't respond to one of her one word responses (to how her day was) to see if ever she would hit me up first.
She hits me up after just one day of me not texting asking where i've been and gets all uptight when i say i thought she had lost interest. Then she goes off on some why would you think that etc. Now shes doing the same shyt with the effortless responses and wonders why I fell back (for one day)

 

[Youseenmywork]

Been said countless times before but I need to vent on how women expect men to keep conversations going like were some entertainers or some shyt. A nikka be typing up a few lines in attempt to get a convo going only to get an "ok" or "cool" i feel damn near insulted .

Two days ago, I finally say fuk it and just don't respond to one of her one word responses (to how her day was) to see if ever she would hit me up first.
She hits me up after just one day of me not texting asking where i've been and gets all uptight when i say i thought she had lost interest. Then she goes off on some why would you think that etc. Now shes doing the same shyt with the effortless responses and wonders why I fell back (for one day)

Men shouldn't have to do all the work anyway. She playing games bushes this chick. Remember most these women's personalities is set on default. They need a man to be intresting but they themselves aren't intresting. Which in turn is the rejection from men that they could never take. Remember most women's beauty is their charm and that's about it. You have to think if majority of these women didn't have a vagina how else would they get a man ?

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Men shouldn't have to do all the work anyway. She playing games bushes this chick. Remember most these women's personalities is set on default. They need a man to be intresting but they themselves aren't intresting. Which in turn is the rejection from men that they could never take. Remember most women's beauty is their charm and that's about it. You have to think if majority of these women didn't have a vagina how else would they get a man ?

Totally agree but it bugs me out because it's always the ones that i'm attracted to heavy that be doing this, the ones i'm not into like that be doing the most to keep the convo going. God gotta be trolling me with this

 

[Youseenmywork]

Totally agree but it bugs me out because it's always the ones that i'm attracted to heavy that be doing this, the ones i'm not into like that be doing the most to keep the convo going. God gotta be trolling me with this

Yeah GOD at times has a fukked up sense of humor .

 

[Brandsdale]

to the american brehs who are out here in Toronto enjoying our Caribana, be safe, be smart.

quick tip: these Toronto hoes are actually dumber than you think so I would advise you wear your college alumni shirt just to give credibility of where you from

 

[Brandsdale]

Totally agree but it bugs me out because it's always the ones that i'm attracted to heavy that be doing this, the ones i'm not into like that be doing the most to keep the convo going. God gotta be trolling me with this

happened to me this week. One chic I was mad interested into getting to know- cute as fukk, same age as me, finishing her masters degree in health, works in the city etc, yet never initiates convos, keeps a convo from previous days going just doesnt respond so I had to cut her lose

then theres this older chic, she cool as fukk, but im not REALLY sexually attracted to her but gave me mad play and initated to meet up so I said fukk it and shifted my focus to the older chic, just gotta see if she pans out

this is why when I end up really liking a chic, as immature as it may sound, I try and abstain from liking her or fight the feeling like im going 5 rounds with Mike Tyson. This is only because by the next day these women will fade away like wind for NO reason so I dont want to set myself up for a disappointment

 

[kevm3]

It intresting cause I will always be for men loving themselves and putting themselves first.I say that not for women but just for this world and how it treats men at this period and time. All you have have is your family and or friends. Thats why when a women does act funny or is flaking or whatever it will just be a minor bump in the road ...and life goes on after that.

My last post was more so geared towards mental stability. I only included women because women don't make you happy they are apart of your happiness. I now care more about men just taking care of themselves with or without a women in the picture.

To @kevm3 and others in this thread that have been posting for a while. What is the end game ? We can sit in this thread and subjugate women we can be as misogynistic as we want to be we can call these bytches hoes etc. As fun as that would be this thread is for solutions that men face when dealing with women.. Correct me if I'm wrong and how to go about it in a better way.

I would never tell a man that reads this thread to deal with BS from women or the flakey behavior from women. I never want men to start to sound like bytches. Women say stuff "like all me are dogs". I don't want hear the equivalent to that from men thoe.

I want to be clear if your are jaded with women and this society then just stop dealing with women all together. Find other ways to channel that energy into other areas of your life that probaly needs your attention anyway.

My style of dealing with women is like a sensei. You can join the class but let me know when you want out and all students start off on the same level. I'm more cut throat the older I get.

As patrice would say you not gon meet a female who's hymen anit broken. A lot of this stuff is all in your mind and ego which as far as ego is concerned you have to put it a way when it comes to dealing with women on any level.

Dudes don't realize when you shutout women you also could be shutting out the ones that could be worth it and more so love.

So what is the end game? Im done complain about women even when I myself didn't do anything wrong or when I did do something . You either find a way to survive or die. Being angry or jaded with women can't be the ONLY game in town..well maybe for some of y'all.

If the product sucks, it sucks and somebody needs to say something. Western broads have been babied too long and they need people to tell them the real. The solution is to tell those women who are lacking to step it up and deny attention to the ones that don't. Negroes need to stop blocking these broads from criticism. That's the only way they are going to grow. The end game is making these women step it up so they are actual wifeable material. These women can't know that they need to step it up if they have simp soldiers with their shields out blocking any criticism that comes their way and also doubling up on rewards for them. Do you think you're going to get better service form a restaurant by tipping a bad waiter twice the standard rate and never telling her she's doing a bad job? No, you're reinforcing her behavior. Stop being scared to tell these broads to step it up.

 

[kevm3]

Been said countless times before but I need to vent on how women expect men to keep conversations going like were some entertainers or some shyt. A nikka be typing up a few lines in attempt to get a convo going only to get an "ok" or "cool" i feel damn near insulted .

Two days ago, I finally say fuk it and just don't respond to one of her one word responses (to how her day was) to see if ever she would hit me up first.
She hits me up after just one day of me not texting asking where i've been and gets all uptight when i say i thought she had lost interest. Then she goes off on some why would you think that etc. Now shes doing the same shyt with the effortless responses and wonders why I fell back (for one day)

Move on to a different woman. You're not going to get her to change her behavior

 

[Brandsdale]

If the product sucks, it sucks and somebody needs to say something. Western broads have been babied too long and they need people to tell them the real. The solution is to tell those women who are lacking to step it up and deny attention to the ones that don't. Negroes need to stop blocking these broads from criticism. That's the only way they are going to grow. The end game is making these women step it up so they are actual wifeable material. These women can't know that they need to step it up if they have simp soldiers with their shields out blocking any criticism that comes their way and also doubling up on rewards for them. Do you think you're going to get better service form a restaurant by tipping a bad waiter twice the standard rate and never telling her she's doing a bad job? No, you're reinforcing her behavior. Stop being scared to tell these broads to step it up.

part of the reason in the bold is because some guys have the feeling that if they call a chic out, or tell her whats good they feel that they'll lose them and lose what they have fought "so hard" to obtain from a chic. I only say this because i had, sometimes still do, have this problem. The issue is, what you "fought so hard" to obtain is only just keeping a spot on a chics roster, even if you're a 7th option averging 4 points a game.

Truly not giving a fukk helps with this attitude of calling a chic out because you feel like you have nothing to lose. We all gotta contribute to breaking this cycle, for me Im trying to be more confrontational about this shyt in my own dimensions, since Im more of a laid back person. In the past, being burned, stood up on a date, having a chic bad mouth me behind my back to her mutual friends along kind of helps fuel this attitude because after exhausting your options and seeing terrible outcomes forces you to try something new.

 

[HearNoEvil]

Neither men or women are biologically monogamous. This myth will fukk you up time and time again.

Men are polygamous, women are hypergamous.

Think about the science for a second:

Man's biological goal is to spread his seed as far and wide as possible. You can see this in the behavior of men historically, in eastern societies that are considered "unevolved", and in atheletes, actors, and other high profile men in our society today.

Men are not meant to find one life partner and stay with them forever. Understanding that will free you from the cancerous soul mate myth that plagues us.

Women's sexuality is slightly more complex.

Women's biological mission is to produce the child with the best genes possible. She can only get pregnant once at a time, in order to make the most out of that egg she has to seek out the most attractive man who will give her the time of day.

Succeeding in that, the woman now seeks out a man to protect and provide for her and the child. The members of this site are pretty much familar with that concept though.

Ask yourself, are you the man your woman is jumping on sexually or are you serving the less illustrious provider role?

If you're honest with yourself, you'll know the answer. Now you can begin.