Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I got this older chick, a mother of 3 trying to fukk with me...sending me nude pics n shyt. I don't think she wifey material but she most def smash material. I think I'm setup some shyt for us to hangout today. The thing is, she's trying to sell herself to me by saying her sex game is good, she can cook, whoop to whoop but I told her its gonna take more than sex for me to fall in love with a woman. Sex and food might be enough for some nikkas, but its not enough for me.

I need a woman that can stimulate my mind more than she can stimulate my dikk.
Breh, she's got 3 kids and she's already sending you naked pics? That's automatic smash and dash in my opinion, and there should be absolutely no conversations about love.

If she mentions love then I would just change the subject or ignore it, definitely don't entertain that nonsense. I doubt you're the only one getting those pics so wrap it up and know when to cut ties.
 

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I get approached/complimented fairly often. I was in Texas bc of work for 6 weeks and at the time I had a roster of 3 women back home. It was all good till I came back:dead:

2 of em flaked on me on back to back days, soon as I came back. I felt like they disrespected me time so I'm tossing them to the bushes. I have one left on the roster here and met another in Texas. She'll be down here in 2 wks.

Then yesterday I'm buying some dress shoes and the woman ringing me up asks if I act or If I'm a model:lupe:so I strike up a convo. She gives me her IG and Facebook. I DM her but she doesn't hit me back:dahell:

Breh someone tell me what I'm doing wrong with these women lol. I can attract them but for some reason I can't close the deal at times. I workout (that's usually a conversation starter), make good $$, and got my own place. But I'm legitimately confused:snoop:
 

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I get approached/complimented fairly often. I was in Texas bc of work for 6 weeks and at the time I had a roster of 3 women back home. It was all good till I came back:dead:

2 of em flaked on me on back to back days, soon as I came back. I felt like they disrespected me time so I'm tossing them to the bushes. I have one left on the roster here and met another in Texas. She'll be down here in 2 wks.

Then yesterday I'm buying some dress shoes and the woman ringing me up asks if I act or If I'm a model:lupe:so I strike up a convo. She gives me her IG and Facebook. I DM her but she doesn't hit me back:dahell:

Breh someone tell me what I'm doing wrong with these women lol. I can attract them but for some reason I can't close the deal at times. I workout (that's usually a conversation starter), make good $$, and got my own place. But I'm legitimately confused:snoop:


Women are flaky
 

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I get approached/complimented fairly often. I was in Texas bc of work for 6 weeks and at the time I had a roster of 3 women back home. It was all good till I came back:dead:

2 of em flaked on me on back to back days, soon as I came back. I felt like they disrespected me time so I'm tossing them to the bushes. I have one left on the roster here and met another in Texas. She'll be down here in 2 wks.

Then yesterday I'm buying some dress shoes and the woman ringing me up asks if I act or If I'm a model:lupe:so I strike up a convo. She gives me her IG and Facebook. I DM her but she doesn't hit me back:dahell:

Breh someone tell me what I'm doing wrong with these women lol. I can attract them but for some reason I can't close the deal at times. I workout (that's usually a conversation starter), make good $$, and got my own place. But I'm legitimately confused:snoop:

I wouldnt take any broad serious that gives me an instagram or facebook
 

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When you're uneducated you think dudes who are HOH are dudes trying to be different or guys who are mad salty. But once you're educated you just finally understand. Its like not eating ramen noodles after all the research you find on how harmful it is. Some dudes who are educated aren't HOH but you can't blame the ones who are.

Most of us guys put women on a pedestal so high and think of them as some perfect innocence that gets turned out by guys if they become dirty. You know why we think this? Because the way our mom treats us. Moms love us unconditionally and does the most shyt from here and beyond for their sons. So what do we do when we talk to females? We put them on this "how would I treat my mom or imagine if this was my mom and some dude didnt treat her right." And your mom would tell you that's the right way to treat a lady. But your mom doesn't tell you she wasn't fukking those dudes when she was young and you don't realize before being a mom and loving you she was wyling out here.

I've seen many examples this summer of why dudes become HOH. My third eye has been open. The crazy thing is most of the shyt hasn't even happened to me. They always says the best people are the ones who learn what others go through and I've seen that a lot.

I have a friend, a close homie of mine. He's the opposite of your typical dude. He actually wants a relationship and sex isn't his main priority. He wants that chill and watch Netflix while getting high relationship that's all he asks for. He's been talking to this girl all summer. She was a hottie back in our school days but she's fallen off a notch, well now she has a kid too and has just gotten out a long ass relationship with her baby daddy. Now my friend knew he was up for a challenge so they went on multiple dates and every time shed break down later that night texting him she doesn't want a relationship for a long ass time. He goes through that for multiple dates and it has gotten so serious she made him meet her family. Now each time he told her if she doesn't want a relationship that's cool he will move on but every time she would be like okay then continue to message him and conversate like he would still have a chance. One day she finally caved in and they started dating. One week later they broke up because she's still not ready. This was a week ago. Now today I check my Facebook and see a picture of her with another dude talking about "he just asked me to be his girlfriend so my heart melted" I can only imagine the anger he's in right now. Not because she has a new man but because she had him chasing her all summer wasting money on dates and giving all his undivided attention on her. It was all just a waste when he wanted to move on if she wasn't serious like he was in he first place.

I seen it happen to my lesbain friends this summer too. This girl told my lesbain friend she wasn't ready to date but she was in my inbox telling me we could. And now she's head over heels over this chick who's life is a complete mess. Always cutting herself drinking and smoking on Snapchat.. Gets arrested once every couple of weeks. But some how she's going crazy over her now.

I fukked this chick who we were calling each other "best friend" we didn't talk for a few days and now she has a new best friend.

You even get messages from home made porn. bytches sucking dikk while talking on the phone to their man. Girls getting ran on by 6 dudes on a random mattress in a dirty ass room.

Girls posting on fb every day all day how they are sad. bytch you not sad every god damn day you want more attention.

I got older women with a husband and kids trying to get at me.

I have another friend who got caught up with a chick who never told him she had a bf because on fb she never acts like it on fb. She plays the single status shyt. So he showed up and her bf show up and he got into a fight he wasn't expecting or wanting. They were talking for months too.

I've seen strippers for the first time of my life this summer. I gotta say god bless em for sticking light bulbs in their p*ssy in it lighting up or squirting water out. But this another reason to be hoh.

I've got a girl who I would message and then she would snitch to her friend who my dog dates every time. I mean it was know big deal but every time I would message even as a friend she would tell her and she would tell my friend making shyt mad awkward for no reason like I'm a little damn kid. The last time I told on her ass she cause messaged me first. Had to get that revenge ... Haven't talked to her since.


I got so many other stories to tell. But the fact I got so many other stories to tell is like god damn. Some dudes just wanted to treat women the right way with all their effort but they put in so many variables.

Now I know why guys are hoh
 

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When you're uneducated you think dudes who are HOH are dudes trying to be different or guys who are mad salty. But once you're educated you just finally understand. Its like not eating ramen noodles after all the research you find on how harmful it is. Some dudes who are educated aren't HOH but you can't blame the ones who are.

Most of us guys put women on a pedestal so high and think of them as some perfect innocence that gets turned out by guys if they become dirty. You know why we think this? Because the way our mom treats us. Moms love us unconditionally and does the most shyt from here and beyond for their sons. So what do we do when we talk to females? We put them on this "how would I treat my mom or imagine if this was my mom and some dude didnt treat her right." And your mom would tell you that's the right way to treat a lady. But your mom doesn't tell you she wasn't fukking those dudes when she was young and you don't realize before being a mom and loving you she was wyling out here.

I've seen many examples this summer of why dudes become HOH. My third eye has been open. The crazy thing is most of the shyt hasn't even happened to me. They always says the best people are the ones who learn what others go through and I've seen that a lot.

I have a friend, a close homie of mine. He's the opposite of your typical dude. He actually wants a relationship and sex isn't his main priority. He wants that chill and watch Netflix while getting high relationship that's all he asks for. He's been talking to this girl all summer. She was a hottie back in our school days but she's fallen off a notch, well now she has a kid too and has just gotten out a long ass relationship with her baby daddy. Now my friend knew he was up for a challenge so they went on multiple dates and every time shed break down later that night texting him she doesn't want a relationship for a long ass time. He goes through that for multiple dates and it has gotten so serious she made him meet her family. Now each time he told her if she doesn't want a relationship that's cool he will move on but every time she would be like okay then continue to message him and conversate like he would still have a chance. One day she finally caved in and they started dating. One week later they broke up because she's still not ready. This was a week ago. Now today I check my Facebook and see a picture of her with another dude talking about "he just asked me to be his girlfriend so my heart melted" I can only imagine the anger he's in right now. Not because she has a new man but because she had him chasing her all summer wasting money on dates and giving all his undivided attention on her. It was all just a waste when he wanted to move on if she wasn't serious like he was in he first place.

I seen it happen to my lesbain friends this summer too. This girl told my lesbain friend she wasn't ready to date but she was in my inbox telling me we could. And now she's head over heels over this chick who's life is a complete mess. Always cutting herself drinking and smoking on Snapchat.. Gets arrested once every couple of weeks. But some how she's going crazy over her now.

I fukked this chick who we were calling each other "best friend" we didn't talk for a few days and now she has a new best friend.

You even get messages from home made porn. bytches sucking dikk while talking on the phone to their man. Girls getting ran on by 6 dudes on a random mattress in a dirty ass room.

Girls posting on fb every day all day how they are sad. bytch you not sad every god damn day you want more attention.

I got older women with a husband and kids trying to get at me.

I have another friend who got caught up with a chick who never told him she had a bf because on fb she never acts like it on fb. She plays the single status shyt. So he showed up and her bf show up and he got into a fight he wasn't expecting or wanting. They were talking for months too.

I've seen strippers for the first time of my life this summer. I gotta say god bless em for sticking light bulbs in their p*ssy in it lighting up or squirting water out. But this another reason to be hoh.

I've got a girl who I would message and then she would snitch to her friend who my dog dates every time. I mean it was know big deal but every time I would message even as a friend she would tell her and she would tell my friend making shyt mad awkward for no reason like I'm a little damn kid. The last time I told on her ass she cause messaged me first. Had to get that revenge ... Haven't talked to her since.


I got so many other stories to tell. But the fact I got so many other stories to tell is like god damn. Some dudes just wanted to treat women the right way with all their effort but they put in so many variables.

Now I know why guys are hoh

Pretty much. When you see this over and over and over and experience it yourself, your eyes are opened to how things really are. There are a few rare women who are holding it down in a decent way, and that's why it's important to get out of the game when you are blessed with her. Otherwise you have decades of these pathological liars who will use up years of your life ahead.
 

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I was youtubing videos on hunting birds and i came across this:



i had to watch all 23 minutes.
 

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Pretty much. When you see this over and over and over and experience it yourself, your eyes are opened to how things really are. There are a few rare women who are holding it down in a decent way, and that's why it's important to get out of the game when you are blessed with her. Otherwise you have decades of these pathological liars who will use up years of your life ahead.

Its true females run dudes this generation.
I hear from a lot of older heads, from men and females, my generation of men are lesser of what they used to be back in the day.

Dudes become nothing and don't stand for anything. They let others dictate what a man is and how they live their life and what they enjoy or stand for out of fear of criticism or not getting laid.

Instead of putting a lady on to some music she's never heard or shows she's never seen or things she's never enjoyed. Dudes pretend to like what the girls like to relate thinking that will help them out. Dudes try to become what she likes instead of just being themselves and if she don't like it oh well who cares. That's lost nowadays. Then that comes out toGirls using men in every angle from attention, time, money, emotions and so on then play the victim until another dude falls in for the trap. Then these dudes in all the local areas be so devalued the girls become lesbians and get an all time praise about it from all fields on people. Like its cool if you like girls now but its obvious when you make a big deal out of being one when in reality its just your preference it doesn't change or matter to the world we know you just want more attention. But since they already used up a guy she will no longer talk to him.

This doesn't make a dude hoh that makes most dudes resent women.

Hoh dudes regonize this shyt and don't get mad because their is no point we just become hard on these hoes and go watch Sunday night football. Makes life better.
 

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Its true females run dudes this generation.
I hear from a lot of older heads, from men and females, my generation of men are lesser of what they used to be back in the day.

Dudes become nothing and don't stand for anything. They let others dictate what a man is and how they live their life and what they enjoy or stand for out of fear of criticism or not getting laid.

Instead of putting a lady on to some music she's never heard or shows she's never seen or things she's never enjoyed. Dudes pretend to like what the girls like to relate thinking that will help them out. Dudes try to become what she likes instead of just being themselves and if she don't like it oh well who cares. That's lost nowadays. Then that comes out toGirls using men in every angle from attention, time, money, emotions and so on then play the victim until another dude falls in for the trap. Then these dudes in all the local areas be so devalued the girls become lesbians and get an all time praise about it from all fields on people. Like its cool if you like girls now but its obvious when you make a big deal out of being one when in reality its just your preference it doesn't change or matter to the world we know you just want more attention. But since they already used up a guy she will no longer talk to him.

This doesn't make a dude hoh that makes most dudes resent women.

Hoh dudes regonize this shyt and don't get mad because their is no point we just become hard on these hoes and go watch Sunday night football. Makes life better.

Many of the men of this generation are in a state of 'arrested development'. They were raised under the feminine imperative pushed on them by society and by weak parents who let the television and school system raise their sons. Men in older generations at least expected and demanded that women live up to some kind of role. Nowadays, it simply doesn't exist. Men are the ones cooking, cleaning, and on top of that, they are still paying the majority of the bills. A lot of men are cool these days being that 'laid back' negro who lets anything go on. Women are so used to these kind of 'baby you can have whatever you like' kind of negroes that a man that actually takes control is something they can't handle. A man should desire to live up to the role of manhood regardless of what is pushed by society at large.
 

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I was youtubing videos on hunting birds and i came across this:



i had to watch all 23 minutes.


What opened my eyes even wider is those dubai prince threads that occasionally pop up on here. The same women that a lot of guys worship just merely for looking pretty are the same ones willing to engage in utterly filthy actions for a few thousands. A woman with morals is really where it's at, especially when you consider the alternative of having a woman willing to be used as a port-a-potty for 4 grand. That moral woman seems like a unicorn in this day and age, but better to be alone than to be with a woman who is of utterly filthy character
 
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